AI Can’t Do Empathy—That’s What People Do DeMaio said, “People aren’t really looking for technology to form that emotional connection when they’re trying to achieve an outcome.” While AI can talk to a customer and sound like a human, the customer knows it’s just a machine. It can say, “I’m sorry,” and sound empathetic, but it’s not, and the customer knows it. Authentic empathy is a human-to-human experience.
The question I have for you, Mark, is what role, if any, does this feeling of empathy have in the evolutionary process of humankind?
Mark: Frank, I believe that empathy functions in a way similar to a muscle: It requires constant conditioning, strengthening and continuous use. Without such regular development and deployment, it will quickly atrophy and fall into disuse.
The question you ask operates on a very macro level. On the broad stage of human drama and human history, one can make the argument that each successive generation has made us gradually more empathetic to the needs, concerns, rights, and freedoms of others. This holds true, especially within Western democracies within the past two hundred and fifty years. Even then, one can argue, the development of empathy to the civil rights and liberties of others — minority groups in particular — has not come without struggle and often setbacks.
Empathy and Ethics as the Foundation of Responsible Citizenship Empathy and ethics are fundamental qualities that shape responsible citizenship in any society. Empathy allows individuals to understand and share the feelings of others, fostering compassion and cooperation. Ethics provides a moral framework that guides behavior, ensuring actions are just and respectful towards others.
When citizens practice empathy, they become more aware of the challenges and needs of their community members. This awareness encourages supportive actions and promotes social harmony. Ethics complements empathy by establishing principles such as honesty, fairness, and respect, which are essential for maintaining trust and order in society.
A new empathy education programme developed at University of Galway is to be rolled out for Transition Year (TY) students in secondary schools nationwide. ‘Activating Social Empathy’ is a classroom resource designed for helping teachers to promote empathy skills and understanding amongst students.
The programme was developed by researchers at the UNESCO Child and Family Research Centre at University of Galway alongside colleagues in the University’s School of Education, working closely with a Youth Advisory Panel from Foróige.
His point reflects a deeper clinical truth: empathy only functions when both parties are psychologically invested in resolution.
This essay examines, through an academic lens, why empathy collapses in intimate relationships, with specific attention to gendered patterns in emotional communication, avoidant attachment dynamics, and the role of reciprocity.
I. Tactical Empathy: A Theoretical Overview Tactical empathy is defined in negotiation literature as the process of accurately understanding and articulating the emotions, needs, and perspectives of another person to reduce defensiveness and facilitate cooperation (Voss & Raz, 2016).
A first-of-its-kind empathy education programme from the University of Galway is being rolled out to Transition Year students nationwide, aimed at boosting compassion and emotional skills in schools across the country.
We discussed this with Brendan Kelly, Professor of Psychiatry at Trinity College Dublin.
But the attack on empathy has been largely through the social weapon of radical individualism. In the modern day, among other things, it is through the vehicle of what’s now called Christian nationalism, a heretical form of false religion which situates “salvation” in the vertical relationship between the individual person and his or her “savior.” That is by contrast to the mainstream Judeo-Christian tradition that places empathy, empathy toward the less fortunate and for justice and peace, at the center of faith and purpose.
In this study we critically examine the phenomenological foundations of intuitive diagnosis in Psychiatry by integrating Max Scheler's concept of emotional contagion with Edith Stein's three-stage model of empathy. We argue that what Scheler calls emotional contagion offers a useful pre-reflective, bodily-affective resonance that precedes and facilitates deeper empathic understanding of the subject's experience. Then, we suggest that Stein's analysis of empathy, which is based on a three-step process – i.e., the emergence of the other's experience, its imaginative explication, and the final comprehensive objectification – may account for the role of imaginative empathic immersion in diagnostic assessment.
Empathy has become a business competency, not a soft nice-to-have. With hybrid teams, rapid AI adoption, and a workforce increasingly vocal about identity and inclusion, companies are being pushed to rethink what effective leadership looks like right now. Research and workplace trend reports consistently show that employees who feel seen and supported are more engaged and more likely to stay—raising the stakes for leaders who are hiring, managing, and shaping culture in real time.
What does empathetic marketing really look like in practice—not just as a buzzword, but as a way of working and leading?
The other side: "In the Christian tradition, to have anybody argue that a spirit of empathy is somehow a vulnerability... is insane," Father Brendan Busse, pastor of Dolores Mission Catholic Church in Los Angeles, tells Axios.
Busse said the suffering of Jesus on the Cross invokes empathy, as does the call to help "the least of these" in the Gospels.
Empathy drives the mission of Homeboy Industries, the Los Angeles-based (and world's largest) gang intervention organization, founded by Catholic priest Greg Boyle.
The North Carolina-based Repairers of the Breach, founded by Bishop William J. Barber II, uses empathy to fight poverty and economic inequality.
By Amanda Marcotte Thanks to Elon Musk, most Americans learned earlier this year that MAGA thinks empathy is evil. Cruelty isn’t the problem, the Tesla CEO claimed in an attempt to justify his turn toward authoritarian politics. “The fundamental weakness of Western civilization is empathy,” he declared on Joe Rogan’s podcast in February.
As the billionaire was decimating much of the federal bureaucracy devoted to serving Americans, he said it was good to be heartless, comparing “the empathy response” to a computer bug. “We’ve got civilizational suicidal empathy going on,” he said, arguing counterintuitively that caring about others will somehow bring ruin to the entire human species.
Some call empathy "toxic" as others says it's core to Jesus' teachings
As the U.S. grows more diverse, a quiet civil war is unfolding within American Christianity over who deserves empathy.
Why it matters: Conservatives ranging from evangelical pastors to Elon Musk have started framing empathy not as a virtue but as a vulnerability on immigration, racial justice and LGBTQ+ rights.
They are working to drive out school lessons on empathy and argue in books and sermons that empathy is for the weak or "woke."
Others say empathy is central to Christianity and the teachings of Jesus.
This split comes as Christianity and organized religion are shrinking and the U.S. undergoes a profound demographic transformation: no single racial group will hold a majority within two decades.
The Empathy Gap: Why Algorithms Can Simulate Understanding But Cannot Replace Connection
Despite the rapid advancement of these tools, the consensus among service leaders remains that AI hits a hard ceiling when it comes to genuine emotional connection. While an LLM can simulate empathetic language, it lacks the shared human experience required to de-escalate a truly distraught customer. As highlighted in broader industry discussions by Harvard Business Review, customers can instinctively detect the difference between a scripted apology and genuine concern. The "uncanny valley" of customer service is real; when a machine tries too hard to sound human, it often alienates the user. Therefore, the goal of Amazon Connect’s architecture is to make the human agent more human, not to make the AI pretend to be one.
Empathy is a crucial skill for public servants because they need to contextually understand who they are designing policies for, a researcher tells GN.
“Empathy can be used in decision making by understanding exactly how the program or policy will actually affect the person,” says Assel Mussagulova, from the School of Social and Political Sciences at the University of Sydney.
Applying empathy to policymaking can be achieved by collecting more data, engaging with the data “and empathetically trying to understand how the policy will affect different cohorts based on their individual circumstances”, says Mussagulova.
About the Activating Empathy Program Activating Empathy consists of twelve thematic lessons that take approximately twelve classroom sessions to complete. Each 50 minute session contains a variety of group activities designed to activate and develop empathy, cultivate prosocial behavior, and recognize the link between empathy and civic behavior. In this curriculum, students will learn how to activate empathy, practice empathy skills, and recognize the importance of empathy to interpersonal relationships and to the wider global community. Students will be asked to reflect on their learning outside of these core sessions using their Learning Journals.
On completion of Activating Empathy, students will be able to:
Define empathy Explain the importance of empathy in improving interpersonal relationships Explain how empathy motivates civic behavior, social action and active citizenship Practice core empathy skills such as empathetic listening, perspective-taking and responding with empathy Identify and set clear empathy goals relevant to their own lives Reflect on their learning
AI journaling app Rosebud attempted to quantify chatbots’ empathy by testing 25 popular models across various mental health-related scenarios, scoring them based on how well they could recognize a crisis, prevent harm, and intervene.
Psychology, linguistics, neuroscience and philosophy have led a recent shift in autism research. Instead of autistic communication being studied at the individual level, interactions are examined at the dyadic level within a ‘double empathy’ framework,, which refers to the ‘disjuncture in reciprocity between two differently disposed social actors who hold different norms and expectations of each other,’ such as autistic and non-autistic people.
Reference Milton, Heasman, Sheppard and Volkmar3 By comparing how autistic and non-autistic people interact with people of the same (i.e. autistic pairs, non-autistic pairs) and different (i.e. one autistic person, one non-autistic person) diagnostic statuses, we can learn more about how the diagnostic status of an interaction partner shapes the way that people communicate.
Research shows two key findings. First, communication difficulties are not exclusive to autistic people; non-autistic individuals also struggle to understand autistic social behaviours, leading to a ‘double’ problem in mixed-neurotype interactions.
Why it's important: As machines and models take on more routine tasks, the human edge lies in collaboration, adaptability and compassion. Entrepreneurial leadership (Babson's specialty) helps leaders hone their head and heart alike.
"Active listening and empathy are essential for entrepreneurial leaders to identify starting points for creating viable business opportunities," Babson On-Demand™ co-director Philip Kim, who is also the school's Lewis Family Distinguished Professor in Social Innovation, said.
Many people assume empathy is too soft, too subjective, or too deeply personal to quantify. In our own survey, nearly half of the respondents agreed that “it is impossible to measure empathy.” This sentiment echoes a familiar cultural belief: that empathy is like love, beautiful precisely because it resists dissection. As one commentator put it, attempts to measure empathy require “stripping it of softness, feelings, and any sense that it’s a touchy-feely-can’t-exactly-measure-it” quality. And if you strip that away, she argued, “it’s no longer empathy.”
il montre que l’empathie peut se mesurer, ce n’est pas juste un “ressenti”. Il explique ça avec des exemples clairs et scientifiques. Parfait pour comprendre le sujet sans idées floues.
Empathy enables innovation, inclusion and the next-generation workforce Innovation flourishes when diverse perspectives are valued and a culture of psychological safety is present. Most organizations today are composed of culturally diverse teams, each with distinct communication styles and perspectives on the world. Leaders who adapt their approach to meet the needs of different people open doors to authentic dialogue and deeper understanding.
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This sounds like a reasonable alternative to all the downsides of the self-esteem movement. -Lon