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"Navigating Cultural Differences: Insights from an Intercultural Relationship
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The YouTube video “CULTURAL DIFFERENCES | INTERCULTURAL RELATIONSHIP!” by Steven & Monica offers a glimpse into the complexities and rewards of navigating an intercultural relationship. The couple, initially from different countries, share their experiences with cultural differences that affect their relationship. This analysis will discover some of the main points stated in the video, offering an overview of the challenges and victories of intercultural couples.


Some points about intercultural relationships that we have from the video are:


Communication Styles


The first point that can be analyzed from Steven and Monica's relationship is their communication styles. They come from different countries; Monica is from Honduras, so she speaks Spanish, and her husband, Steven, is from France, so he speaks French. Although her mother tongue is Spanish, she can speak French but is not a hundred percent fluent. Sometimes, she says phrases or expressions that she uses in her country, and it sounds quite strange but funny to her husband. Furthermore, they both can speak English, so it helps them to communicate. Monica and Steven can communicate fluently although their first languages are different. However, many people perhaps have difficulties overcoming language barriers when they speak with someone who has a different first language. There are several guidelines offered by Reynolds and Valentine (2011) in their book titled Guide to Cross-cultural Communication (Second Edition). One of the things must be attended to is word choices. We must be careful to choose words and avoid disrespectful words when we speak with someone who has a different language, especially if they are non-natives English speakers. Back to the Monica and Steven case, Steven does not use disrespectful words when Monica says something strange and it reflects a healthy cross-cultural communication. 


Family Dynamics and Expectations


In Honduras, there is a tradition to spend time with family at night when dinner, unlike in a big city of France which is quite busy with their work and they do not really have so much time to spend with families. So, it feels weird for the husband to spend more than two hours with the family to get to know each other after having dinner together. However, they respect each other and learn to understand their partners’ different cultures. This intercultural relationship shows different cultures in terms of high and low context culture. As in Guide to Cross-cultural Communication (Second Edition) by Reynolds and Valentine (2011), the low context culture emphasizes individual initiative (work, eat, sleep, work again, and so on) while high context culture emphasizes on spending time to maintain strong relationships with family and friends. 


Cultural Values and Beliefs


 They indeed have different cultures because they come from different countries. There are several cultural differences such as lifestyle. In France,  especially in Paris (a big city), the routine is around sleep, work, and eating. Although it is only common in big cities. Meanwhile, in Honduras, they usually spend more time with their friends and family. They must be able to adapt because of their different lifestyle. Moreover, French's food and Honduras' food are very different. In French, the main meal is bread. Bread is like drinking water there. Meanwhile, in Honduras, they love to eat spicy and fried stuff. It is totally different and they must adapt with it. Besides lifestyle and food, there are religious differences between French and Honduras. In Honduras, people prioritize going to church (for Christians) but in French people mostly do not really concern about that. Although they have different beliefs, they still respect each other.  The last one is about table manners. In French, they have a knife, a fork, and a spoon to eat in three sections such as entry, meat dish, and dessert. Meanwhile, in Honduras people usually can eating only use their fingers. Those cultural differences does not make them feel impossible for them to live together. As long as they both can respect each other and learn to understand each other.  A relationship with different cultures is challenging, as Monica and Steven who have so many differences in their lifestyle. Thus, the couple must learn how to understand each other's cultures as in the book Guide to Cross-cultural Communication by Reynolds and Valentine (2011), such as understanding how low and high context cultures communicate with others, view the relationship with others, and rely on others in their life. 


Conflict Resolution


Couples from different cultures often have different ways of dealing with problems. Some like to talk to the point, while others prefer to remain silent to protect their feelings. This video shows that the key is to understand each other's communication style. For example, when one party is angry, it may be their way of showing concern, not because they hate each other, we have to understand that. Successful couples usually make ground rules such as not shouting during an argument or giving time to calm down before discussing to solve the problem. So the problem is discussed with a cool head. They also learn to ask, "What do you really mean?" rather than immediately getting angry when there is a misunderstanding. The point is, conflict is not avoided, but managed patiently and wisely.


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