For intercultural relationships, whose support matters most? | Metaglossia: The Translation World | Scoop.it

"New study explores the value placed on support from family, friends, and society by those in various kinds of intercultural relationships.


Friends approving of romantic partners matters: research shows it's not just socially convenient but also linked to relationship quality and even physical stress responses. Gaining that approval can be even more important for couples who are crossing cultural boundaries, where relationships may attract scrutiny, disapproval, or misunderstanding.


Drawing on data from over 750 people in intercultural relationships, Hanieh Naeimi and team explore whose approval matters most for relationship quality. Writing in Social Psychological and Personality Science, they show that approval from friends, family, and society matter in different ways for different couples depending on cultural background and relationship stage.


Participants represented a wide range of backgrounds, with around half identifying as White and the rest as Black, Latin American, East Asian, South Asian, Middle Eastern, Native American, or multicultural. Their relationships varied widely in length, from under a year to several decades, and ranged all the way from just dating to committed relationships to marriage. To examine differences between couples, participants were grouped into three broad pairings: couples where both partners were White, couples with one White partner and one from a minority background, and couples where both were from minority backgrounds but with different cultural backgrounds.


All participants completed the same online survey. Firstly, they reported how much approval they felt from their family, friends, and society more generally using brief rating scales, before reporting on their relationship quality, including how satisfied and how committed they felt.


Feeling that friends approved of a relationship was the strongest predictor of both relationship satisfaction and commitment, with higher friend approval linked to higher satisfaction and stronger commitment for about 95% of couples. Family approval also mattered, but less significantly and consistently. It was particularly pertinent for Latin American and Middle Eastern participants and for couples in relationships of a year or less, likely because partners are still integrating each other into familial networks. Interestingly, approval from society at large had no measurable effect on either satisfaction or commitment.


Couples where both partners were from minority backgrounds benefitted the most from friend approval. Overall, the support of friends explained about 23% of the differences in relationship satisfaction and 26% of differences in commitment across all couples — suggesting that while family and societal approval sometimes help, feeling supported by friends is the most reliable predictor of a happy, committed intercultural relationship.


Because the data for this study was collected at a single point in time, we can't tell if social approval actually improves relationships, or if happier couples just feel more supported. Grouping couples into broad cultural categories may also mean more nuanced differences were missed.


Overall, though, the findings suggest that feeling validated and accepted by one's peers can strengthen a sense of satisfaction and commitment in a romantic relationship, helping couples grow even when family or societal approval is mixed.


Read the paper in full:
Naeimi, H., Muise, A., Di Bartolomeo, A., West, A., & Impett, E. A. (2025). With a Little Help From My Friends: Social Approval and Relationship Quality in Intercultural Romantic Relationships. Social Psychological and Personality Science. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550625138944";
03 February 2026
By Emily Reynolds
https://www.bps.org.uk/research-digest/intercultural-relationships-whose-support-matters-most
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