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Dr. Amy Fuller
February 27, 11:55 AM
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Many of the couples I work with say their number one problem is communication. Usually the real problem is learning to stay calm when conversing with each
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Dr. Amy Fuller
January 10, 2022 11:25 PM
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The best date night questions make conversation much easier for couples. Here are 75 foolproof options to ask your partner, recommended by an expert.
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Dr. Amy Fuller
November 10, 2021 9:00 AM
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In order to deal with awkward, tense, or challenging conversations, we first need to understand the common mistakes we make — and then take these 5 steps.
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November 6, 2021 2:31 AM
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Talking to someone who gets defensive can be frustrating. So, what can you do? Time to turn up your empathy, and turn down your assumptions.
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Dr. Amy Fuller
January 13, 2020 11:30 PM
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Unconditional love doesn’t mean you get to say whatever you’re thinking. Treat each other just as considerately as you would a friend.
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July 20, 2019 2:57 PM
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This is an article on 10 amazing love facts. When two lover gaze into each other’s eyes, their heart rate synchronize. According to a research done in UC Davis,
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Dr. Amy Fuller
May 11, 2018 12:01 AM
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Well, today it’s time to bust out a cold, hard truth: the point of marriage is not happiness. The point of marriage is growth.
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April 11, 2017 12:00 PM
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One father describes how he went from feeling the wind knocked out of him with his son's diagnosis of Autism, to learning to be his son's father and best expert and advocate.
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April 20, 2016 9:46 AM
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For those who frequently take care of others before themselves, self-care routines can be an important way maintain good health and happiness.
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February 5, 2016 1:43 AM
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From ecstasy to withdrawal, the lover resembles an addict. George Bernard Shaw knew the power of romantic love and attachment. Both, I will maintain, are addictions—wonderful addictions when the relationship is going well; horribly negative addictions when the partnership breaks down. Moreover, these love addictions evolved a long time ago, as Lucy and her relatives and friends roamed the grass of east Africa some 3.2 million years ago.
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Dr. Amy Fuller
September 29, 2015 11:26 PM
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No matter how long you've been together, it never hurts to have a little refresher course on what really matters.
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September 19, 2015 6:47 PM
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It’s up to us to awaken passion when it’s waning, and mindfulness can provide the tools.
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March 17, 2015 11:01 PM
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Many of the couples I work with say their number one problem is communication. Usually the real problem is learning to stay calm when conversing with each other, especially if the topic is a “touch...
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Dr. Amy Fuller
September 10, 2015 2:50 AM
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If you have real concerns about the health of your marriage, here are 7 reasons to begin Marriage Counseling NOW! 1. If you haven’t been able to improve the relationship on your own, it’s time to try something different. Some people describe insanity as doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. If you’ve tried to …
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March 14, 2015 4:12 PM
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Bad marriages can be sickening. Most people don't have to be convinced of this, but for those who do, several decades of studies offer plenty of proof. Even so, very little is known about exactly how marriage quality affects health....
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Dr. Amy Fuller
November 19, 2014 9:15 PM
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Dust off your thank-yous. Make every day a day for thanks-giving.
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August 26, 2014 3:38 AM
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Spring is a time for commencement addresses, and I’ve seen a number of good ones recently. This youtube video of professor and NYT best-seller George Saunders’ address on kindness. Of all the lesso...
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August 23, 2014 10:34 AM
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What do people in happy long-term relationships have in common? Learn their science-backed secrets to staying satisfied for the long haul.
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July 29, 2014 1:48 PM
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Francine Shapiro, the originator of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing therapy, responds to readers’ questions.
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July 26, 2014 11:56 PM
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Few sentiments carry the kind of weight that the three little words, “I love you,” does. But what happens when you say them so much that they start to become expected and lose meaning?
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Dr. Amy Fuller
July 26, 2014 4:42 AM
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One of the most important things we can do to support lifelong loving relationships is continue to learn about one another. When we start out in relationships we are fascinated. We stay up all night talking. We can’t wait to learn more about each other.
Over time we stop being curious. We start thinking we know everything about our partner. Which is impossible- every one of us grows every single day.
But when we stop being curious and start making assumptions about the people in our lives we start running into problems. We stop letting our spouse or sweetheart surprise us and things get a little blah. It’s not uncommon to end up in a conversation rut in a long term partnership.
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May 10, 2014 12:07 AM
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What if I could snap my fingers and make 80 percent of marriages happy? And cut the divorce rate for first time marriages in half? Consider it done. What if everything you thought you knew about ma...
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May 9, 2014 9:29 AM
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CHARACTERISTICS OF A SUCCESSFUL MODERN FAMILY
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April 23, 2014 11:00 AM
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Saying "I do" is a bit different the second time around. You accept the proposal with more reservations (getting a divorce, however long ago it's been, will leave you a little shaky). The ceremony itself will generally be smaller, the weddi...
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April 2, 2014 4:43 AM
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Stop Fighting With Your Partner, and Start Fighting With Yourself". What Most People Want Out Of Couples Therapy The majority of couples who enter couples therapytypically want one thing: They want their spouse to be different. Many people in unsettling and dissatisfying relationships have come to believe that their discomfort or unhappiness is a result of their partner’s actions, and if only their partner would change, things would feel and be much better. The problem herein lies usually that both parties in the relationship want each other to change, and most typically neither of them are willing to change. And so, we have a classic standoff; you change first, then maybe I’ll consider changing. In other words, “I need YOU to be different, because I am fine”.
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