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Outlaw Poverty, Not Prostitutes by Carol Leigh

This documentary of the 1989 World Whores' Summit in San Francisco features prostitutes and activists from around the globe discussing human rights as they effect…

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Outlaw Marriages: The Hidden History of Fifteen Extraordinary Same-Sex Couples

Outlaw Marriages: The Hidden History of Fifteen Extraordinary Same-Sex Couples | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
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“ From Beacon Press, a charming history of devotion: Outlaw Marriages: The Hidden History of Fifteen Extraordinary Same-Sex Couples, by Rodger Streitmatter. Among the couples...
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March 13, 2014 3:21 PM
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Ilyse Hogue on The Daily Show: Reproductive Health Care Hypocrisy

Ilyse Hogue on The Daily Show: Reproductive Health Care Hypocrisy | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
We see hypocrisy around on reproductive health care every day, but this The Daily Show segment with Ilyse Hogue reveals a new twist on a double standard that you've probably never heard of before.
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The Daily Show's Samantha Bee covering, with much more humor, what I wrote months ago.

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The Daily Show's Samantha Bee covering, with much more humor, what I wrote months ago.

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The Daily Show's Samantha Bee covering, with much more humor, what I wrote months ago.

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March 11, 2014 6:03 PM
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"I launched curlBOX in hopes that women that look like me would become more comfortable in their skin a lot sooner than I did."

"I launched curlBOX in hopes that women that look like me would become more comfortable in their skin a lot sooner than I did." | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
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“ curlBOX September Issue 2013 by Itaysha Jordan
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March 11, 2014 6:00 PM
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#LiesToldByFemales Shows the Sexual Double Standard Lives On

#LiesToldByFemales Shows the Sexual Double Standard Lives On | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
A lot of #LiesToldByFemales are women claiming to adhere more closely to traditional gender roles than they actually do, to present themselves as more chaste and more submissive than they actually are.
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March 11, 2014 3:48 PM
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Mississippi Sex Ed Law Leads to Reshuffled, But Not Improved, Curricula

Mississippi Sex Ed Law Leads to Reshuffled, But Not Improved, Curricula | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Having spent much of my career reviewing abstinence-only-until-marriage curricula and material, I can promise that just adding a lesson about contraception cannot turn a fear- and shame-based program into anything better.
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March 9, 2014 12:23 AM
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Betty Dodson's Feminist Sex Wars

Betty Dodson's Feminist Sex Wars | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Betty Dodson takes the side of ''dirty'' feminists, talks up the vulva and the clitoris, discusses the relationship of sexual pleasure and masturbation to human liberation and excoriates the current ''art'' market and ''The Vagina Monologues.''
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March 8, 2014 10:19 PM
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The Red Light and the Cloud

The Red Light and the Cloud | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
A history of the future of sex work

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March 6, 2014 7:59 PM
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Politician tries to censor ‘nude’ children’s book, booksellers strip in protest

Politician tries to censor ‘nude’ children’s book, booksellers strip in protest | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
You could say they laid bare their concerns.

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March 5, 2014 3:15 PM
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Trying and Failing (and Trying and Failing) to Talk to My Daughter About Sex

Trying and Failing (and Trying and Failing) to Talk to My Daughter About Sex | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
I grew up thinking that once you got your period you had it every day, that sex always happens standing up, and that condoms were as thick as shoe leather. I don’t know where I got these stupid ideas from, but I know that no one I trusted ever disabused...
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March 3, 2014 10:09 PM
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Duke's Freshman Porn Starlet Isn't Ashamed—and She Shouldn't Be

Duke's Freshman Porn Starlet Isn't Ashamed—and She Shouldn't Be | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
After being outed for her work in pornography, a student is explaining her professional choice, but not abandoning it. Her words reveal our own unfounded stigmatization of sex workers.

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February 24, 2014 4:28 PM
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LGBT Mormons share their struggles - Salt Lake Tribune

LGBT Mormons share their struggles - Salt Lake Tribune | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
KUTV 2News LGBT Mormons share their struggles Salt Lake Tribune As president of Affirmation: LGBT Mormons, Families and Friends, Randall Thacker has met many members of the LGBT community who have faced pain, frustration and confusion when...
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February 21, 2014 4:16 PM
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Everybody naked!

Everybody naked! | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

A row about children’s books exposes sharp cultural divisions in France.

 

"When culture wars break out in France, they are usually to do with protecting art-house films or the French language. Political battles over family values are a lot rarer, thanks to a fairly relaxed liberal consensus. Abortion in France, for instance, is legal and free. Couples can enter into official unions (PACS) without getting married. Gay marriage was legalised last year. And there is also cross-party agreement in favour of a strict form of secularism, known as laïcité and entrenched by law since 1905, which keeps religion out of public life.

 

Yet the country has recently found itself torn apart by virulent quarrels about the role and nature of the family. The most recent concerned several books designed for children of primary-school age, bearing such titles as “Jean has two Mummies”, “Daddy wears a dress”, and “Everybody naked!”, a volume that shows, page by page, family members, a baby-sitter, a policeman, a teacher and several others all taking their clothes off (see picture)."


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February 17, 2014 8:09 PM
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Survey participation: National Collaborative for Women's History Sites

Survey participation: National Collaborative for Women's History Sites | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

nterpreting Gender and Sexuality at Historic Sites


On a 2013 study trip to historic sites in and around Boston, hosted by the Pew Center for Arts & Heritage, participants were struck by the wide variety of ways they saw gender and sexuality interpreted--or in some cases, not interpreted at all. The trip prompted a number of interesting questions, which representatives from the Pew Center together with members and friends of the National Collaborative for Women's History Sites would now like to raise and discuss with other public historians. Toward that end, a session will explore these issues at the upcoming meeting of the National Council on Public History.


The questions to be considered there include: Where is the interpretation of gender and sexuality in 2013/2014? How do we move beyond the "just add women and stir" model of gender interpretation? How do we build on the progress made at a small number of historic sites now interpreting LGBT history? What is the future of gender and sexuality at historic sites?


Please take a moment to reflect on these questions, and help inform a larger discussion


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February 17, 2014 7:36 PM
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Porn Site Claims 1/3 Of Its Amateur Videos Are Created in Bible Belt

Porn Site Claims 1/3 Of Its Amateur Videos Are Created in Bible Belt | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
We daintily gasped and clutched our pearls this morning when we learned a third of the videos submitted to an amateur porn site are created in America's Bible Belt.As we learned this morning through an email, amateur porn company Homegrown Video measured the demographics of people who submitted videos to their studio between July and…

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Didn't ya just know it.

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Bible Belt repression & porn.

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February 15, 2014 5:31 PM
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Ellen Page Comes Out As Gay: 'I Am Tired of Lying by Omission' (Exclusive)

Ellen Page Comes Out As Gay: 'I Am Tired of Lying by Omission' (Exclusive) | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Ellen Page has come out as a gay woman.
The star of the upcoming X-Men: Days of Future Past made the announcement in a moving and deeply personal speech delivered at Time to THRIVE, a conference to promote the welfare of LGBT youth held at Bally's Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas, Nevada.

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February 14, 2014 5:10 PM
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Must Read: No such thing as porn 'addiction,' researchers say

Must Read: No such thing as porn 'addiction,' researchers say | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Journalists and psychologists are quick to describe someone as being a porn "addict," yet there's no strong scientific research that shows such addictions actually exists. So says a clinical psychologist in practice in a large behavioral health program.


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Fascinating facts in this short article!

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You *have* to read this!

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February 14, 2014 4:59 PM
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5 Ways Our Society Unfairly Punishes Women For Their Sexuality

5 Ways Our Society Unfairly Punishes Women For Their Sexuality | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

In the United States, women’s bodies are constantly sexualized and objectified. Ironically, however, the women in control of those bodies are expected to refrain from actually using them to express any kind of sexuality. That’s largely because “purity culture” — essentially, the assumption that women need to remain chaste, and present an image of modesty to the outside world — is deeply ingrained in American society. The worldview is instilled in many American kids beginning at a young age through abstinence-only education, and constantly reinforced as women move through the adult world, too.

This approach to female sexuality has far-reaching consequences. Indeed, even though proponents of abstinence until marriage claim it’s a directive that applies equally to both genders, purity culture has an outsized impact on women. Here are five examples of that unfair dynamic

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Scientists Can Predict Who Will Get An STD

Scientists Can Predict Who Will Get An STD | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

A recent study from the University of Washington suggests that strides to prevent sexually transmitted diseases should start at an early age, before an individual is even sexually active. In short, the best way to educate a young adult is to think about the big picture, not just the sex part.

So, what exactly does that mean? You've really got to pull on your parenting pants, which sounds more like logic than science in our book. "Kids don't engage in risky behaviors in a vacuum. There are environmental opportunities that have to be created," said Marina Epstein, lead author of the study. With STDs being the most common type of infection in the U.S., prevention is key. A previous study concluded that young adults between 15 and 24 make up half of the new cases. Part of the problem is that many of them are not being educated until after they've already had risky sex.

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February 12, 2014 11:11 PM
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South Korea’s LGBT Community Is Fighting For Equal Rights

South Korea’s LGBT Community Is Fighting For Equal Rights | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
One prominent couple’s effort to get same-sex marriage recognized is helping to raise awareness in a mostly conservative country
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February 12, 2014 11:09 PM
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Idaho bill would allow doctors or cops to refuse service to LGBT people on religious grounds | The Raw Story

Idaho bill would allow doctors or cops to refuse service to LGBT people on religious grounds | The Raw Story | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

An Idaho Republican can’t think of anyone in his state who has been forced to render aid to a gay or lesbian person against their will, and he’d like to keep it that way.


Rep. Lynn Luker outlined a proposal Tuesday backed by his conservative Christian allies to shield religious people from the threat of losing their professional licenses for refusing service or employment to anyone they conclude violates their religious beliefs.

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What a load of crap.

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What a load of crap.

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What a load of crap.

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February 12, 2014 3:19 PM
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The Secret History of Sex, Choice and Catholics

The Secret History of Sex, Choice and Catholics | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

The Secret History of Sex, Choice and Catholics, a new documentary-style film produced by Catholics for Choice, sets the record straight about Catholic social teaching on issues related to sex and sexuality.


“The Secret History of Sex, Choice and Catholics” features interviews with leading experts in the fields of theology, philosophy and ethics who examine Catholic traditions, teachings and beliefs on the following key issues:

  • Abortion & Contraception
  • HIV & AIDS
  • Sex & Sexuality
  • New Reproductive Health Technologies
  • Religion in Public Policy

Download a discussion guide for the film.


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February 11, 2014 6:27 PM
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Unfinished Conversations & On The Differences Between Sex & The Intimacy Of Companionship (Or, Robot Sex Vs Sex Workers)

Unfinished Conversations & On The Differences Between Sex & The Intimacy Of Companionship (Or, Robot Sex Vs Sex Workers) | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Rubbing our parts in robotic electronics, no matter how supple, no matter how able to respond in terms of coos and ooohs, no matter what level of "special order" creation status to match our individual personalities and needs, will not satiate our hunger for real companionship.


Humans appear to have a very pronounced attachment to companionship, so much so that we are most driven by desire and longing. We want, crave, unconditional love and acceptance.


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February 11, 2014 6:26 PM
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Interview: How Feminism Exploits Sex Workers

Interview: How Feminism Exploits Sex Workers | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

This is the full text of the interview with feminist genderqueer sex worker @MxLaudanum, which was quoted in this article on the rescue industry I wrote for Cliterati (published 1/02/14). The interview itself makes a very powerful post in its own right. Written in just a couple of hours, it’s a stunning critique of contemporary feminism and how all of us on this planet tend to view the world in black and white.


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February 11, 2014 3:07 PM
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A (Short) Primer on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and ...

A (Short) Primer on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and ... | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
The legal climate for LGBTQ rights is now the most fervent and dynamic in recent years. The latest case to garner media attention involves the unfair exclusion of a gay juror in an anti-trust case regarding the pricing of an HIV ...
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Curated by Deanna Dahlsad
An opinionated woman obsessed with objects, entertained by ephemera, intrigued by researching, fascinated by culture & addicted to writing. The wind says my name; doesn't put an @ in front of it, so maybe you don't notice. http://www.kitsch-slapped.com
Other Topics
Crimes Against Humanity
From lone gunmen on hills to mass movements. Depressing as hell, really.
Cultural History
The roots of culture; history and pre-history.
In The Name Of God
Mainly acts done in the name of religion, but also discussions of atheism, faith, & spirituality.
Kinsanity
Let's just say I have reasons to learn more about mental health, special needs children, psychology, and the like.
Nerdy Needs
The stuff of nerdy, geeky, dreams.
Readin', 'Ritin', and (Publishing) 'Rithmetic
The meaning behind the math of the bottom line in publishing and the media. For writers, publishers, and bloggers (which are a combination of the two).
Sex Positive
Sexuality as a human right.
Visiting The Past
Travel based on grande ideas, locations, and persons of the past.
Walking On Sunshine
Stuff that makes me smile.
You Call It Obsession & Obscure; I Call It Research & Important
Links to (many of) my columns and articles.