Empathy, as a word, should rightfully be listed down as a synonym for entrepreneurship in thesauruses worldwide. As an entrepreneur, one comes face to face with thousands of challenges on a daily basis, every element of running a business puts your grit to test, every day. For an entrepreneur, it is most important to be able to understand, to respond to a situation as opposed to reacting to it.
An entrepreneur comes with his/her own history, beliefs, values and context. While it is important to be able to learn and unlearn in the process of being a part of the entrepreneurial journey, it is imperative to understand how can one effectively learn and unlearn.
Empathy is an important core value that can complement the unlearning and relearning cycle in the entrepreneurial journey. No matter how many challenges come your way, it is always a relief to have one unshakable pillar of belief, in this case- empathy, to be able to sail through those challenges while anchoring yourself steadily.
In a world where life is busy, complex, and filled with stress, empathy is the glue that holds great workplaces together.
Empathy is the ability to detect other’s emotions and understand their perspective. When we feel accepted and validated, it builds trust and leads to better performance. Studies find that empathetic leadership has a direct impact on employee productivity, loyalty, and engagement.
Empathy isn’t reserved exclusively for our personal lives, either. It’s what you need to comfort a grieving co-worker, get people on board with your ideas, or diffuse tension with your boss, for example.
You don’t have to be a professionally trained to be powerfully empathic. Humans are social beings and our brains come wired for connection. So all you (yes, you!) have to do is give your empathy muscles a workout.
According to a recent survey, "Ninety-one percent of CEOs believe empathy is directly linked to a company's financial performance, while 93 percent of employees say they're more likely to stay with an empathetic employer."
Empathy is the quality of being aware of, understanding and/or experiencing the emotional feelings and thoughts of another without direct and explicit communication. In the context of project management and management in general, the power of empathy enables a person to be of greater service to sponsors, clients, peers, superiors and subordinates. Since, in the end, project management is about serving the needs of stakeholders and satisfying their expectations, empathy is a critical success factor.
“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” — Maya Angelou
Empathy is the ability to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes. Mimetic theory and the recent discovery of mirror neurons helps us better understand empathy as a natural process, but there are positive and negative aspects to it. In the same way, we can imitate a smile; we can imitate a frown and expressions of anger. It has been demonstrated that in the human brain, the neural circuits underpinning action execution directly map its perception when executed by others....
To build empathy, you need social bonds. Without social bonds, we simply cannot have an empathic society. It takes simple acts of kindness, promoting values such as respect; responsibility; fairness; caring and citizenship. It also requires the wisdom to draw a healthy distance from that tiny screen that often doubles as a mirror.
Entrepreneur and author Michael Ventura has dedicated his career to exploring how empathy can make us better leaders, collaborators, and contributors to society. In his 99U talk, Michael explains that the practice of empathy “isn’t about being nice” — it’s about deep understanding, and learning to apply that understanding to incredibly effective ends.
Empathy is not about being nice, sympathetic or compassionate. These are the side effects of empathy’s perspective in taking power.
Applied Empathy is a series of tools and methodologies that help you practice empathy and bring it into your daily leadership style.
Empathy is a muscle you train. It takes practice and dedication.
Organizations that bring empathy into their businesses improve their internal culture, relationships with consumers, and, ultimately, their bottom line.
Practicing empathy requires the bravery to ask hard questions, take new actions, and change what must be changed in order to improve the business, and yourself.
Brene Brown, Satya Nadella, and Tim Cook all agree empathy is an important leadership trait.
At the beginning of the year I read an article from Melinda Gates explaining how instead of setting a New Year's resolution, she chooses a word of the year. Like Melinda, I was drawn to the simplicity of focusing on one word for 12 months.
I've always believed entrepreneurs have a strong sense of empathy because it's at the core of what they do--understanding customer pain points to develop thoughtful solutions that meet customers' needs. But empathy isn't just good for business, it's good for humanity. That's why this year I've committed to focusing more on empathy in the workplace--to practice empathy as a leader and encourage others to do so.
Over the last five months, I've had some successes, and naturally, some failures. Here's what I've learned.
Dr. Lidewij Niezink is an independent scholar and practitioner who focuses on the development of empathy theory and education. She dedicates her professional life to the integration of fundamental and applied research from science in psychology, philosophy, social neuroscience, arts, and anthropology, with practice-based experiential methods.
In this delightful podcast with Lidewij, we discuss what is empathy, how and why it's useful in business and organisations, how to embed it, using the Empathy Intervision process. Lidewij provides a very sound and grounded approach that's really worth listening to.
Dump These Limiting Beliefs to Nourish Your Leadership Empathy
Empathy is about being emotional and that blocks success. Empathy is not about being emotional. In fact, empathy is about understanding those you lead. It is the connection that brings people together to reach business goals. See empathy as understanding and you will develop yours!
Empathy is the connection that solves problems! #Leadership #PeoleSkills
Empathy blocks logic. Nope. It is based in simple logic — connect with people to lead them.
Empathy means that you agree with others. Wrong! Empathy simply means that you truly understand them and what they are going through. Show those you lead your empathy and they will open up to different views.
Empathy creates dependent weaklings. Nope. It strengthens people when they see that you “get them”. Then watch them soar to success.
A perfect example of how we embrace a culture of empathy is being very deliberate about assuming positive intent. This is something we continually reinforce across the organization and I talk about it in my team meetings all the time. It can be easy to jump to conclusions about what someone meant by a particular comment or action.
However, if we simply take a step back, assume positive intent, and try to look at the situation from that person’s perspective, usually they have the best interests of the company at heart. When a whole company operates with this mindset a lot of the frustration and conflict that can sometimes arise in a fast-paced, high-pressure environment can be mostly avoided. The result is a happier, more productive team.
Is it possible to more holistically innovate, by leveraging and actioning the perspectives of others, without getting lost in a sea of input?
Michael Ventura is the founder and CEO of Sub Rosa, a strategy and design practice that helps big organizations tackle existing challenges so they can go back into the world doing what they do, even better than before.
In fact his first book, Applied Empathy: The New Language of Leadership, offers up the agency’s operating methodology and gives shape to how empathy can be used as a very effective framework for problem-solving.
Ventura will further share learnings and practices from his work at Innov8rs New York on August 1st.
Clear-headed leadership. Dedicated employees. A strong company culture. These are undeniable attributes of a thriving workplace. So is another factor: empathy. While soft skills are often considered less important than efficiency or professionalism to a company’s success, that common misconception can be detrimental to company culture, where being able to understand and have compassion for other people’s emotions is integral to working efficiently together and keeping up workplace morale.
In fact, over 80% of CEOs in a recent survey named empathy as a key to corporate success.
Even Tim Cook understands the importance of this value, stating in his commencement address to the MIT Class of 2017 that the young graduates should be wary of people who try to keep empathy out of the workplace.
With that in mind, here are four expert-backed tips for integrating more empathy into your company culture.
The first misconception is that empathy is about doing something to someone else or about being nice…A second misconception is that empathy has no place in work.
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What are some common misconceptions about empathy?
DIAL: The first misconception is that empathy is about doing something to someone else or about being nice. Empathy is essentially about understanding the other person, not about how you act with him/her. Being nice (e.g. sympathetic) or compassionate are often follow-up actions and, as such, are separate from empathy.
On the other hand, increased empathy results in better innovation and customer experience. A study published in the International Journal of Entrepreneurship and Innovation Management suggests that innovators can put themselves in customers’ shoes to gain a deeper understanding of their problems and needs, which ultimately helps in formulating value-driven strategies in sales, service production and leadership.
According to studies from Development Dimensions International (DDI), empathy is the single most desirable trait in an effective leader. When people feel like they are valued, like they are part of something, they are happier and more engaged in their work, which leads to better outcomes for both people and organizations.
The problem is, empathy can be a hard thing to pinpoint. 92 percent of CEOs claim their organization is empathetic, according to the 2018 State of the Workplace Empathy study by Businessolver. However, only 50 percent of employees reported to the same study that their CEO is empathetic. That’s a pretty big disconnect.
Our emotional brain has had little help from technology to-date - but AI has the power to change that. Here's why designing more empathic, human-centred AI presents the largest opportunity for human and societal advancement in the modern era.
Empathy, our species survival trick, is the clue to our next evolution
Austrian doctor and psychotherapist Alfred Adler said: “Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another and feeling with the heart of another.” As he wrote this in 1928, it’s certain he wasn’t thinking about computers. Indeed, empathy is one of those traits that has been difficult to teach and augment with tools or technology.
Until recently, technology has largely helped augment the rational side of our brain as well as our physical prowess. Rudimentary interfaces like levers and pedals have given way to button, keyboard, mouse and screen.
Cooperating in business like any other human affairs yields a better result than defecting. Deception might sometimes appear to be a profit-making affair but in long-turn you’ll be a loser if you cheat on your partner.
Cooperation appears in behavior only when you, instead of keeping yourself in the center, recognize your colleague or client’s self-interest as well. The ability to recognize your colleague or client’s interest and then letting him take his fair share is a consequence of empathy.
If you were to skim through any articles about the traits of highly-effective people, chances are that showing empathy at work wouldn’t appear at the top.
If you were to skim through any articles about the traits of highly-effective people, chances are that showing empathy at work wouldn’t appear at the top of that list.
But in my view, empathy is the most important (and most needed) force in the workplace today.
In a faster-paced, evolving, and less predictable business environment, we are needing to work more closely together in order to stay ahead. Work is more human and more collaborative than ever before. And when you get a bunch of humans together, you need to build in space for understanding each other.
1. Actively listen to your direct reports/customers: When your direct report approaches you to discuss a problem, stop thinking about that other thing you were working on, put your phone aside, pay full attention and listen to what the other person is trying to convey. Better listening means solving their problems quicker than you expected.
“When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But when you listen, you may learn something new.” -Dalai Lama
Dr. Lidewij Niezink is an independent scholar and practitioner who focuses on the development of empathy theory and education. She dedicates her professional life to the integration of fundamental and applied research from science in psychology, philosophy, social neuroscience, arts, and anthropology, with practice-based experiential methods.
In this delightful podcast with Lidewij, we discuss what is empathy, how and why it's useful in business and organisations, how to embed it, using the Empathy Intervision process. Lidewij provides a very sound and grounded approach that's really worth listening to.
Steps to developing active listening in difficult situations- Active listening involves listening wholeheartedly to a message, without judgment, to hear the totality of the communication.
Carl R. Rogers and Richard E. Farson in Communicating in Business today give three suggestions for active listening.
1) First, listen for total meaning. Each message comprises two components: the objective content (what is said) and the subjective feeling underlying the content (what is not said). Active listening involves paying attention to both components.
2) Second, active listening involves acknowledging and responding for example: I really want to hear. Am I correct in my understanding? Let me share more details on what would be the best thing to do.”
3) Third, active listening involves taking in all informational cues, both verbal and nonverbal. For example, it is important to notice things like any uneasiness in the conversation, pitch, loudness, facial expressions, body posture, hand movements, eye movements, breathing and so on.
It is most important to practice empathy in today’s environment of multi-taskers and higher achievers. Empathy in workplace should improve as an absence of it creates issues with employee engagement and impression building.
Enter the Pega Customer Empathy Advisor Embedded in the Pega Customer Decision Hub™, the Customer Empathy Advisor enables organizations to operationalize empathy at scale.
How? Simple: by suggesting next best actions that will mutually benefit customers and companies. The Customer Empathy Advisor provides companies with a framework for integrating empathetic considerations into every engagement while also examining possible effects.
Companies can rely on the advisor to:
Calculate current empathy levels
Showcase gaps between customer-centric vs. product-centric engagement
Identify actions that could be perceived as indifferent or unfeeling
Highlight empathetic actions to take more often
Provide controls that automatically optimize empathy levels
With the Customer Empathy Advisor, you can control how you apply empathy across your organization – through all of your connected channels – ensuring you’re consistently focused on building sustainable lifetime customer value.
While this gives advisors an opportunity to practise reading a customer’s emotional signals and adapting their approach accordingly, it allows them to understand the key ingredients of showing empathy for themselves.
These include:
Active listening and asking respectful questions to understand the full extent of this issue
Acknowledging how the customer feels (now you know the full details)
Reassuring the customer that you will help to resolve the issue
Taking ownership of the issue / taking the burden away from the customer
Providing a sense of immediacy
Making a commitment to the customer
While through your QA sessions you might find even more ingredients of empathy, these are key parts of demonstrating empathy and the call recordings will have shown the new recruits how to use each one well.
It’s not about being nice. This sentence I have said probably more than any other time in my life when we’ve been sitting in a room talking with clients about empathy. Because there’s this preconceived notion that empathy is about being nice, or being sympathetic, or being compassionate. It’s none of those things, those are side effects of empathy.
What we’re going to talk about today is how to really build a practice of empathy. How to use it in your work, how to define it in a different way, and ultimately how to bring it into the work in order to solve problems and be a better collaborator with people.
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