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This site was formerly known as "United by Love, Divided by Law." The U.S. Supreme Court ruling on June 26, 2013 that struck down Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) means that same-sex binational couples are now entitled to all the same rights and privileges of marriage accorded to opposite-sex couples. The biggest right of all - immigration rights, and the right of an American citizen to sponsor a foreign partner for permanent residency (i.e., a green card), is now ours! Thank you for visiting and your support. - Kathy Drasky, Volunteer Media Coordinator, Out4Immigration, 2006-2013.
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March 30, 2012 12:43 PM
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Obama Administration Proposes Changes to Legal Status Applications

Obama Administration Proposes Changes to Legal Status Applications | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

­The Obama Administration is proposing to make it easier for undocumented immigrants who are family members of American citizens to apply for legal permanent residency.

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March 28, 2012 2:53 PM
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Republican Lesbian Who Helped Write DOMA Now Lobbying To Repeal It

Republican Lesbian Who Helped Write DOMA Now Lobbying To Repeal It | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

When she helped write DOMA, Kathryn Lehman was in a heterosexual relationship and didn't think DOMA would do much damage. But DOMA has hurt gay and lesbian couples in a multitude of ways. It denies medical leave pay for about 43,000 employees who leave to care for a same-sex partner. It denies health care benefits and work/injury compensation for more than 30,000 same-sex spouses of federal employees. It denies about 68,000 veterans with same-sex partners the ability to share their pension and educational benefits. It denies equal treatment in inheritance tax, in filing joint income tax returns, in spousal protections for long-term care under Medicaid and in the process of acquiring a green card for an estimated 26,000 bi-national couples.

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March 28, 2012 2:29 PM
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Jackie & Gloria: Married Lesbian Couple in Massachusetts Fights Deportation to Pakistan

Jackie & Gloria: Married Lesbian Couple in Massachusetts Fights Deportation to Pakistan | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Another couple being threatened with being torn apart beause US laws won't recognize the American citizen's marriage. This case is very similar to the story of Brian and Alfonso you read about last week.

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March 27, 2012 6:08 PM
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Meg and Nicky Say "Please Let Our Family Finally Be Together"

Meg and Nicky Say "Please Let Our Family Finally Be Together" | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Another piece for the United by Love, Divided by Law visual protest project. This one from same-sex binational couple Meg and Nicky, from the US and Canada. You can find out more about this project by clicking the link to this story or sending an email to info@out4immigration.org

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March 27, 2012 6:05 PM
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Brian and Alfonso, Spared from Deportation, for Now

Brian Willingham may have been able to prevent his husband Alfonso Garcia's deportation for now, but the Orinda couple's fight against his expulsion is far from over. 

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March 22, 2012 7:12 PM
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BREAKING: Alfonso's Deportation Hearing Postponed Until October 2012

BREAKING: Alfonso's Deportation Hearing Postponed Until October 2012 | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Brian Willingham has just alerted Out4Immigration from outside immigration court. "Great result today. The immigration judge postponed the deportation hearing until October to give USCIS time to review the marriage-based visa petition that I filed for my husband." Another small step for immigration equality for same-sex binational couples. 

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March 21, 2012 11:23 PM
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New Hampshire House Kills Gay Marriage Repeal Bill

New Hampshire House Kills Gay Marriage Repeal Bill | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Gay marriage was strongly upheld in New Hampshire today, as both Democrats and Republicans formed a majority of 211 to 116 to ensure the state's marriage equality law stayed intact. Great news. But for same-sex couples legally married in NH, their marriages remain unrecognized by the federal government; they continue to be denied immigration benefits.

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March 21, 2012 4:11 PM
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VIDEO: Brian and Alfonso Tell Deportation Story on KTVU

VIDEO: Brian and Alfonso Tell Deportation Story on KTVU | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

As Brian and Alfonso's date in immigration court approaches, their story continues to gain momentum. Alfonso's deportation hearing is scheduled for Thursday, March 22.

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March 21, 2012 3:43 PM
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Powerful Statement by Sen. Patrick Leahy on Uniting American Families Act (UAFA)

Powerful Statement by Sen. Patrick Leahy on Uniting American Families Act (UAFA) | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Lead sponsor of UAFA and champion of DOMA  repeal, Sen. Leahy addresses the harm caused to same-sex binational couples due to DOMA. But after years of legislation that fails to get enough co-sponsors for debate, where are some constructive alternatives to helping couples now?

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March 19, 2012 7:21 PM
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Brian and Alfonso to Fight DOMA Deportation This Week, March 22

Brian and Alfonso to Fight DOMA Deportation This Week, March 22 | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Stay tuned to this space, Stop the Deportations: The DOMA Project (www.stopthedeportations.com/blog) and Out4Immigration's Facebook page for the latest details on this story. 

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March 18, 2012 7:19 PM
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United by Love, Divided by Law

United by Love, Divided by Law | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

"My financial and emotional losses are too great to put into words...."

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March 9, 2012 3:16 PM
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VIDEO: Please Give Us Equality

A heartfelt plea to President Obama from one same-sex binational couple being forced into exile. It doesn't have to be this way. We need the Obama Administration to let same-sex binational couples stay in the U.S. together until DOMA is repealed and we can access all 1,138 federal marriage rights, including an American citizen's right to obtain a green card for their spouse. 

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March 7, 2012 1:56 PM
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Green Card Injustice: Why Are Some American Citizens Treated Better than Others?

Green Card Injustice: Why Are Some American Citizens Treated Better than Others? | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

"Last year some of our friends got married. They are an opposite sex binational couple that has been together less than 2 years, yet the husband now has his green card, Meanwhile, my wife and I have been together for 10 years...."

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March 30, 2012 12:33 PM
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Confusion at the Border for Same-Sex Couples

Confusion at the Border for Same-Sex Couples | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

A small item in the news this week reveals that the sub-agency of the Department of Homeland Security (DHS) that polices our borders and ports-of-entry is making plans to recognize same-sex couples so that more families can file a single Customs Declaration form when returning from travel abroad. If implemented, the new rules will mean that you and your partner will be able to fill out one customs form when you arrive in America and you will finally be able go up to the Customs and Border Protection (CBP) officer’s desk together. But...as always, there's a catch for same-sex binational couples.

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March 28, 2012 2:36 PM
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Happy Birthday, ACT UP, Wherever You Are

Happy Birthday, ACT UP, Wherever You Are | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

If we binationals need inspiration, we only need to look at the work of ACT UP. Back in the '80s and early '90s, it was this group that led the fight for a cure for AIDS and care for people with the disease. It brought the LGBT community together and changed the game. Most of the equal rights we have today have stemmed from activism started by ACT UP.

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March 27, 2012 6:16 PM
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U.S. Customs Will Recognize Same-Sex Families at Borders

U.S. Customs Will Recognize Same-Sex Families at Borders | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

A great small step, which by the way, is not yet a done deal. It still needs to be reviewed and undergo a "period of public comment." It also will only work if both partners are US citizens and/or permanent residents.

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March 26, 2012 8:54 PM
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On the Green Card Trail – Step 1. Filing for Marriage-Based Green Card | Torn Apart

On the Green Card Trail – Step 1. Filing for Marriage-Based Green Card | Torn Apart | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Judy Rickard, author of "Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law" is taking the necessary steps to sponsor her wife Karin for a green card. Because they are a same-sex couple, there is no precedent. Working with attorney Lavi Soloway, Judy has documented Step 1 of this process. Tomorrow, is Step 2 - when Karin goes for her biometrics appointment. How far will Judy and Karin get before their application is denied? Or, will they be the couple that finally breaks down this barrier?

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March 26, 2012 9:01 PM
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Gay Uruguayan Man Receives Permit to Live in Italy with Partner

Italy, like the United States, has no federal policy that recognizes same-sex couples as families. So, this first step, a permit that will allow this binational couple to live together in Italy is a huge step forward. And a solution the US can examine as a temporary fix while we continue to debate full federal rights for same-sex married couples.

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March 22, 2012 4:37 PM
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Together, Apart: DOMA Violates Human Rights

Together, Apart: DOMA Violates Human Rights | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Read Teva and Ido's story. Like many same-sex binational couples they spend more time apart than together because DOMA won't allow Teva, an American citizen, the right to sponsor his partner. Share your story with Out4Immigration. Send it to info@out4immigration.org.

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March 21, 2012 4:26 PM
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Coalition of Leading Tech Companies Endorses UAFA

Coalition of Leading Tech Companies Endorses UAFA | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Compete America has formally endorsed the Uniting American Families Act (UAFA). Compete America is the leading advocate for reform of U.S. immigration policy for highly educated foreign professionals. Its members include Google, Microsoft, Intel, Cisco, and many other technology sector businesses.


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March 21, 2012 4:04 PM
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Comprehensive Look at Same-Sex Binational Progress, Setbacks

Comprehensive Look at Same-Sex Binational Progress, Setbacks | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

At best, we are in a holding pattern these days, particualrly when one attorney who has led the charge for green cards for same-sex binational couples admits he expects an upcoming green card petition for his clients to be denied.

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March 21, 2012 12:34 AM
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PETITION TO PRESIDENT OBAMA: Stop Denying Green Card Petitions for Same-Sex Couples

PETITION TO PRESIDENT OBAMA: Stop Denying Green Card Petitions for Same-Sex Couples | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

In San Francisco on March 22, Brian Willingham and Alfonso Garcia will face the worst nightmare of any gay or lesbian binational couple: a deportation hearing in a federal Immigration Court. Brian and Alfonso are legally married, but their relationship will not be recognized because of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). Brian and Alfonso are taking a brave stand for their love and for all binational couples by demanding that their marriage be treated like any other married couple’s marriage! Brian has filed a green card petition for Alfonso based on their marriage. This petition calls on the Obama administration not to deny this green card petition but to hold a final determination in abeyance until DOMA has been defeated.

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March 19, 2012 6:04 PM
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VIDEO: Brian and Alfonso Fight DOMA Deportation in Immigration Court

This week, Brian and Alfonso, a same-sex binational couple in California, will go to court to keep Alfonso from being deported. Please watch this moving video and circulate. Ask those you send this to why should the US government have the right to tear apart this legally married couple?

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March 10, 2012 7:15 PM
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Gay, Married Immigrant Spared from Deportation

Gay, Married Immigrant Spared from Deportation | United by Love, United by Law | Scoop.it

Immigrant and gay advocates heralded the case as the first in Texas to end in a reprieve based in large part on a same-sex marriage to a US citizen.

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March 7, 2012 9:44 PM
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The DeVote Campaign and The DOMA Project Join Forces to Publicize the Plight of Same-Sex Binational Couples

The DeVote Campaign has teamed up with attorney Lavi Soloway and The DOMA Project to personalize and publicize the plight of binational same-sex couples struggling to remain together in the U.S. as a result of the discriminatory Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).


When opposite-sex binational couples get married, the American spouse can sponsor the foreign born spouse for a green card to legally remain and work in the U.S. Married same-sex couples do not have this option, since DOMA defines ‘marriage’ as a union between one man and one woman in all areas governed by federal law including immigration.


While the Obama administration declared that it would no longer defend DOMA in February 2011, no blanket measures have been taken to stop the deportations and green card denials that thousands of committed couples continue to endure.

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