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History as this woman sees it. The serious, the kitsch, the opinionated. Companion to http://www.kitsch-slapped.com/
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Slut-Shaming, Eugenics, and Donald Duck: The Scandalous History of Sex-Ed Movies

Slut-Shaming, Eugenics, and Donald Duck: The Scandalous History of Sex-Ed Movies | Herstory | Scoop.it
After excusing herself from the dinner table, the 13-year-old girl begins to shout, her excited voice ringing through her family’s Mid-Cen...
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Let's Talk About Sex -- With & For Youth With Disabilities & Special Needs

Let's Talk About Sex -- With & For Youth With Disabilities & Special Needs | Herstory | Scoop.it
As a parent, I've long been upset with the sad state of sex education in this country. As a parent of a (now adult) child with special needs, I'm even more upset. Children and even adults with spec...
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Man Tells Woman He Can't Get Turned On By Her Aging Body -- And She Reacts Perfectly

Man Tells Woman He Can't Get Turned On By Her Aging Body -- And She Reacts Perfectly | Herstory | Scoop.it

I asked this man who had shared my bed for three nights running why we had not made love. "Your body is too wrinkly," he said without a pause. "I have spoiled myself over the years with young woman. I just can't get excited with you. I love your energy and your laughter. I like your head and your heart. But, I just can't deal with your body."

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Rape Fantasies Are Normal, Even If You've Been Raped

Rape Fantasies Are Normal, Even If You've Been Raped | Herstory | Scoop.it
If you were following along with the Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination conversation, you know that I asked Miss Pearl to write a bit about rape fantasies ~ specifically male rape fantasies....


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NWS, but great for those who have suffered rape or other sexual trauma -- or have partners who have.

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Breaking Age Barriers: “Sexy Has No Expiration Date” | Kinsey Confidential

Breaking Age Barriers: “Sexy Has No Expiration Date” | Kinsey Confidential | Herstory | Scoop.it
Many companies are currently using models over the age of 50 to sell their products. Is society becoming more accepting of senior sexuality?
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Ilyse Hogue on The Daily Show: Reproductive Health Care Hypocrisy

Ilyse Hogue on The Daily Show: Reproductive Health Care Hypocrisy | Herstory | Scoop.it
We see hypocrisy around on reproductive health care every day, but this The Daily Show segment with Ilyse Hogue reveals a new twist on a double standard that you've probably never heard of before.
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The Daily Show's Samantha Bee covering, with much more humor, what I wrote months ago.

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The Daily Show's Samantha Bee covering, with much more humor, what I wrote months ago.

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The Daily Show's Samantha Bee covering, with much more humor, what I wrote months ago.

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Periods in the Media

Periods in the Media | Herstory | Scoop.it
What's up with the way that the media portrays menstruation? If all you knew about periods came from what you see on TV and in magazines, you'd think they're either hilarious or terrifying. Watch Kat Lazo in this video where she discusses why this misrepresentation is dangerous for us if it causes embarrassment and uneasiness to the point of wanting to hide menstruation.
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1967 Military Dating Dos and Don’ts

1967 Military Dating Dos and Don’ts | Herstory | Scoop.it

One of these titles was How to Succeed with Brunettes (1967), a film produced by the Navy that demonstrates proper dating etiquette for officers.


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Oh good. Because my brain is directly attached to my hair colour.
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Activist Spotlight: Deon Haywood on Justice and the Movement in New Orleans

Activist Spotlight: Deon Haywood on Justice and the Movement in New Orleans | Herstory | Scoop.it

In May of this year, I talked to Deon Haywood, Executive Director of Women With A Vision in New Orleans about her approach to organizing. WWAV scored a significant grassroots legal and political victory in the last year with the NO Justice campaign, which removed hundreds of cis and trans women from Louisiana’s registered felony sexual offender rolls. Deon is a longtime activist in the city of New Orleans, with a history of organizing low-income women of color around reproductive justice, harm reduction, and human rights.

 

...We are not all in the same boat. And if we keep playing like we are, we’re not really going to make the kind of change we’d like to see. Because the women I work with are never going to be able to jump into the sex workers’ rights movement. They don’t feel like that movement is for them.


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As Obamacare’s Birth Control Benefit Hits Its One-Year Anniversary, It’s Helping 27 Million Women

As Obamacare’s Birth Control Benefit Hits Its One-Year Anniversary, It’s Helping 27 Million Women | Herstory | Scoop.it

One year ago, one of Obamacare’s most popular provisions took effect — the rule requiring insurers to cover women’s preventative health services, like birth control and Pap smears, at no additional charge. Through this provision, Obamacare has helped prevent women from continuing to pay disproportionately more for their health care than men do, since women are no longer charged a co-pay for the wide range of preventative services they need.

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Elizabeth Smart: Abstinence Education Teaches Rape Victims They’re Worthless, Dirty, And Filthy

Elizabeth Smart: Abstinence Education Teaches Rape Victims They’re Worthless, Dirty, And Filthy | Herstory | Scoop.it
Elizabeth Smart became a household name after she was kidnapped from her home in Salt Lake City, UT at the age of 14 and held in captivity for nine months.
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High Schooler Protests ‘Slut-Shaming’ Abstinence Assembly Despite Alleged Threats From Her Principal

High Schooler Protests ‘Slut-Shaming’ Abstinence Assembly Despite Alleged Threats From Her Principal | Herstory | Scoop.it
A West Virginia high school student is filing an injunction against her principal, who she claims is threatening to punish her for speaking out against a factually inaccurate abstinence assembly at her school.

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Your Phone Wants You To Have Sex Now

Your Phone Wants You To Have Sex Now | Herstory | Scoop.it

There’s an app for that? Now your phone tells you when to have sex.

 

[T]he new trend in this technology is tracking something that women have monitored for centuries – the menstrual cycle. Given some basic information, apps like Kindara tell women when to have sex so they can plan or prevent pregnancy.

Tess Marshall's comment March 16, 2013 7:31 AM
Well I almost wish I was still pre-menopause so I could try this out!!
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Why We Need Sex Ed Now « Sex~Kitten.net

Why We Need Sex Ed Now « Sex~Kitten.net | Herstory | Scoop.it

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Meet A Warrior You May Not Have Heard Of: Sylvia Rivera

Meet A Warrior You May Not Have Heard Of: Sylvia Rivera | Herstory | Scoop.it

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Definitions & Distinctions In Sex Work, Trafficking, And Sex Worker Activism

Definitions & Distinctions In Sex Work, Trafficking, And Sex Worker Activism | Herstory | Scoop.it

Responding to Stella Marr's "Pimps Posing as “Sex Worker Activists” & Other Conflicts of Interest."


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Meet Aparna, Mumbai's Teenage Sex Educator

Meet Aparna, Mumbai's Teenage Sex Educator | Herstory | Scoop.it

"The 16-year old daughter of a sex worker offers frank advice to underprivileged girls." In India Ink, New York Times

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Circumcising Women And Forcing Them To Shave Their Heads Will Curb Aids, Says Zimbabwe Politician

Circumcising Women And Forcing Them To Shave Their Heads Will Curb Aids, Says Zimbabwe Politician | Herstory | Scoop.it
A Zimbabwean politician has sparked outrage by suggesting the spread of HIV can be curbed if women shave their heads, stop bathing and deliberately make themselves look unattractive.
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What It's Like To Get A "Happy Ending" Massage As A 66-Year-Old Woman

What It's Like To Get A "Happy Ending" Massage As A 66-Year-Old Woman | Herstory | Scoop.it
After her husband died, then-66-year-old writer Joan Price craved sexual release — but she wasn't ready for another relationship. So she decided to get an erotic massage. I talked to her ...

 

How do you deal with the "ick factor" surrounding senior sex — people's perception that it's somehow gross?


There are really two ick factors. One is the idea from society at large that seniors are asexual, and if they are sexual, they're pathetic. And also many seniors have internalized the idea that we're not desirable anymore. So we're embarrassed about wanting sex, and that's really the hardest challenge.

 

Read more: What It's Like To Get A "Happy Ending" Massage As A 66-Year-Old Woman http://bit.ly/J7vTk1


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8 Ways To Be Positive You’re Sex Positive

8 Ways To Be Positive You’re Sex Positive | Herstory | Scoop.it
Here in the land of lady blogs, most of us believe that sex and exploring your sexuality is a great thing.
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Negative Sexual Health Outcomes Higher for Teen Boys Experiencing Non-consensual Sex

Negative Sexual Health Outcomes Higher for Teen Boys Experiencing Non-consensual Sex | Herstory | Scoop.it
Multiple partners, teen pregnancies more likely among those who were victimized, surveys show ("Parents need to speak to their sons about sexual abuse awareness and prevention, as parents of girls do.

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Harlots On Bikes With Numb Genitals

Harlots On Bikes With Numb Genitals | Herstory | Scoop.it
There’s been so much written on the history of women being liberated by bicycles (there’s even a new book on the subject: Wheels of Change: How Women Rode the Bicycle...

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Should the University of Wisconsin Promote Safer Sex During Spring Break? The Evidence Says Yes, Uneqivocally | RH Reality Check

Should the University of Wisconsin Promote Safer Sex During Spring Break? The Evidence Says Yes, Uneqivocally | RH Reality Check | Herstory | Scoop.it

Wisconsin State Representative Stephen Nass (R-Whitewater) has taken issue with the state University's Health Services for its decision to distribute free lip balm, sunscreen, and condoms to students before spring break.

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Legislating Teen Sex: What's (Terribly) Wrong With Our Age of Consent Laws | RH Reality Check

Legislating Teen Sex: What's (Terribly) Wrong With Our Age of Consent Laws | RH Reality Check | Herstory | Scoop.it

Last month, my husband forwarded me this article from the Daily Beast and I haven't been able to get it out of my mind since.

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If You’re Forced To Have A Baby, Don’t Throw It Out With The Bathwater (Or, Of Margaret Sanger & Eugenics)

If You’re Forced To Have A Baby, Don’t Throw It Out With The Bathwater (Or, Of Margaret Sanger & Eugenics) | Herstory | Scoop.it

Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood and advocate for planned parenting & birth control before women even had the right to vote, is often misquoted or quoted out of context. And one thing is generally missing from any conversation about Sanger and her times: The subject of eugenics itself.

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Curated by Deanna Dahlsad
An opinionated woman obsessed with objects, entertained by ephemera, intrigued by researching, fascinated by culture & addicted to writing. The wind says my name; doesn't put an @ in front of it, so maybe you don't notice. http://www.kitsch-slapped.com
Other Topics
Crimes Against Humanity
From lone gunmen on hills to mass movements. Depressing as hell, really.
Cultural History
The roots of culture; history and pre-history.
In The Name Of God
Mainly acts done in the name of religion, but also discussions of atheism, faith, & spirituality.
Kinsanity
Let's just say I have reasons to learn more about mental health, special needs children, psychology, and the like.
Nerdy Needs
The stuff of nerdy, geeky, dreams.
Readin', 'Ritin', and (Publishing) 'Rithmetic
The meaning behind the math of the bottom line in publishing and the media. For writers, publishers, and bloggers (which are a combination of the two).
Sex Positive
Sexuality as a human right.
Visiting The Past
Travel based on grande ideas, locations, and persons of the past.
Walking On Sunshine
Stuff that makes me smile.
You Call It Obsession & Obscure; I Call It Research & Important
Links to (many of) my columns and articles.