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6 Signs of ‘Victim’ Mentality « Relationships

6 Signs of ‘Victim’ Mentality  « Relationships | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Life isn’t fair. Everyone, at some point, has to deal with a painful or unpleasant situation that they did not [...]
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Psychologist Leslie Becker-Phelps asks, "Do you just want it to change? Or, do you want to change it?If the latter resonated with you, if you want to help yourself, that’s already a step in the right direction and away from the victim role." 

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February 19, 2016 12:40 PM
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“Mom and Dad, I’m Moving Back Home”

“Mom and Dad, I’m Moving Back Home” | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
When an adult child has ADHD, moving back home can be a dead end. Here's how parents can help their child get back on their feet and feel supported. ADHD symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment information for adults and children from experts in attention deficit and learning disabilities like dyslexia. How to manage ADD medications, set up school accommodations for your child, help your marriage to an ADD/ADHD adult parent children with discipline problems, use alternative treatments, succeed at work, and manage time and money.
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February 2, 2016 12:52 PM
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6 scientifically proven ways to strengthen your marriage

6 scientifically proven ways to strengthen your marriage | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
These aren't just ordinary tips, these are scientifically proven.
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Gain insight on strengthening your marital bond through scientifically proven ways. 

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December 9, 2015 11:36 AM
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How to Stop Playing the ‘Blame Game’ « Relationships

How to Stop Playing the ‘Blame Game’ « Relationships | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Everyone makes mistakes – that’s a given. So, partners in long-term relationships will at some point upset each other. They [...]
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The blame game! It is so tempting and it's so easy to play! Learn a new way to play with this article!

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December 3, 2015 11:32 AM
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Does Looking for Your ‘Type’ Help or Hurt? « Relationships

Does Looking for Your ‘Type’ Help or Hurt? « Relationships | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it

Tall, dark and handsome. Blonde and athletic with a great sense of humor. Quiet and book-smart...is focusing on a particular type of person the best strategy for trying to find a serious romantic partner? 


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November 19, 2015 5:35 PM
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Ineffective communication, Part two: What not to do and what not to say -

Ineffective communication, Part two: What not to do and what not to say - | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
In part one of this two-part blog, we learned about two of the common mistakes people make when communicating: using “you” language plus directives and making universal statements. We discussed substitutions that can be used for more effective communication. Sometimes the message the sender intends is not the message the receiver gathers. Often this is …
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October 29, 2015 4:09 PM
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Communication: Do the Words You Choose Determine the Response You Get?

Communication: Do the Words You Choose Determine the Response You Get? | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Learn about how we often unintentionally use ineffective communication skills and some tools for more effective communication.
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April 20, 2015 12:06 PM
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Can We Make Sense of Dating and Mating? (Part 3) - Building a Life Together

Can We Make Sense of Dating and Mating? (Part 3) - Building a Life Together | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Nothing helps clarify your values like being in an intimate, committed relationship. We are often unaware of our deeply held values and goals. But when your partner-to-be says or does something tha...
Fuller Life Family Therapy's curator insight, April 20, 2015 12:05 PM

Excellent article about creating a pre-marital conversation that honors both partners and integrates goals with values. 

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January 20, 2015 9:17 AM
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The Critical Importance of Kindness

The Critical Importance of Kindness | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Science says lasting relationships come down to—you guessed it—kindness and generosity.
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“There’s a habit of mind that the master relationships have,” Gottman explained in an interview, “which is this: they are scanning social environment for things they can appreciate and say thank you for. They are building this culture of respect and appreciation very purposefully."

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January 8, 2015 1:52 PM
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Study Finds More Reasons to Get and Stay Married

Study Finds More Reasons to Get and Stay Married | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Even as fewer people are marrying, the disadvantages of remaining single have broad implications.
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"Those who consider their spouse or partner to be their best friend get about twice as much life satisfaction from marriage as others, the study found."

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October 8, 2014 2:52 PM
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When Does Power Hurt Romance?

When Does Power Hurt Romance? | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Four new studies reveal how having power affects your willingness to walk in your partner's shoes.
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"First comes love, then comes the realization that we are navigating life’s journey with another person who may have different thoughts, feelings, and beliefs than us. How do we deal with having differing viewpoints from our romantic partners?"

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September 16, 2014 4:55 PM
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7 Things Scientists Know About the Science of Long-Lasting Love

7 Things Scientists Know About the Science of Long-Lasting Love | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
What do people in happy long-term relationships have in common? Learn their science-backed secrets to staying satisfied for the long haul.

Via Dr. Amy Fuller
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Optimistic and helpful tidbits on how to maintain a healthy and vibrant marriage. 

Dr. Amy Fuller's curator insight, August 23, 2014 10:34 AM

Research based tips for couples!

Hemanshi Nimavat's curator insight, March 19, 2015 10:36 PM

I and Amit have been together since 2 months, just in march our relationship will turn into 3 months, yes our relationship has been healthy, we do fight, have some quarrels, but instead of chewing it over and over.... we let go of it and just love each other. After 5 years, all i hope is that my love for him will turn more depper and we will be together forever

 

Katie Barber's curator insight, August 24, 2015 2:33 PM

Nice article that reminds you that love at first sight maybe isn't so important.

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July 17, 2014 6:47 PM
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Who Else Wants to Feel Human?

Who Else Wants to Feel Human? | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Sometimes things that used to be nourishing take a back seat to the more urgent or pressing tasks at hand. What can we do to feel human during those times?
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Sometimes things that used to be nourishing take a back seat to the more urgent or pressing tasks at hand. What can we do to feel human during those times?

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May 28, 2016 1:08 PM
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11 Ways Narcissists Use Shame to Control | The Exhausted Woman

11 Ways Narcissists Use Shame to Control | The Exhausted Woman | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
A weakness of a narcissist is their extreme hatred of being embarrassed. There is nothing worse for them than having someone point out even the slightest fault.
Fuller Life Family Therapy's insight:

You can deflect the punches of a narcissist by recognizing these common traits. 

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February 5, 2016 12:50 PM
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Deception & Forgiveness

Deception & Forgiveness | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
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January 16, 2016 7:50 PM
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5 Ways We Reject Love (and How to Stop)

5 Ways We Reject Love (and How to Stop) | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Most of us don't realize all the big and small ways we push love away, but these behaviors are sure signs we're doing just that.
Fuller Life Family Therapy's insight:

Great article highlighting how we turn away from those who love us! 

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December 7, 2015 11:25 AM
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When Your Partner is Ill: 4 Things to Remember « Relationships

When Your Partner is Ill: 4 Things to Remember  « Relationships | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it

When you do all you can to be there for your partner and yourself, your relationship is much more likely to thrive and maybe even strengthen as you travel this difficult path.

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November 19, 2015 5:39 PM
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Ineffective communication, Part two: What not to do and what not to say -

Ineffective communication, Part two: What not to do and what not to say - | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
In part one of this two-part blog, we learned about two of the common mistakes people make when communicating: using “you” language plus directives and making universal statements. We discussed substitutions that can be used for more effective communication. Sometimes the message the sender intends is not the message the receiver gathers. Often this is …
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November 9, 2015 5:50 PM
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My Spouse Has ADhD: Tips for Partners

My Spouse Has ADhD: Tips for Partners | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
When your partner has ADHD, it's easy to interpret her inattention as a lack of interest. Here's how to rekindle that spark, and help both partners feel loved and supported.
Fuller Life Family Therapy's insight:

ADHD affects individuals in a variety of ways but it also affects those in relationships with them. If you are in a relationship with someone who has ADHD, this is a great read!

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September 25, 2015 8:54 AM
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Four Ways to Build Trust with Your Partner - Jennifer Christian, M.A., LPC

Four Ways to Build Trust with Your Partner - Jennifer Christian, M.A., LPC | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Four powerful ways to build trust in your relationship. The great thing about relationships is there is always room to experiment and grow.
Fuller Life Family Therapy's curator insight, September 25, 2015 8:53 AM

Four ways we keep showing up for each other. As the years pass, moment-by-moment, trial and error, good times and bad, we build a relationship of trust.

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February 27, 2015 10:53 AM
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6 Tips For Merging Finances As Newlyweds | Bankrate.com

6 Tips For Merging Finances As Newlyweds | Bankrate.com | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Marriage is more than joining together as husband and wife. It's also merging finances when you go from a couple to newlyweds.
Fuller Life Family Therapy's insight:

Great tips for newlyweds on how to merge finances. Very helpful!

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January 16, 2015 8:29 AM
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Does Gratitude Matter in Marriage?

Does Gratitude Matter in Marriage? | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Dust off your thank-yous. Make every day a day for thanks-giving.
Fuller Life Family Therapy's insight:

New studies support the idea that gratitude is an integral part of healthy relationships. As marriages move past the honeymoon stage, couples go from appreciating and loving every little detail about each other to taking each other for granted. A nourishing cycle of encouragement and appreciation provides extra incentive to maintain our relationships.

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November 18, 2014 9:22 AM
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How I Turned My Worst Relationship Into My Best One

How I Turned My Worst Relationship Into My Best One | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
The love between my husband and me is strong, but our differences nearly destroyed us. My husband intimidated and confused me. I prioritized communication, and he was anything but verbose. Logical,
Fuller Life Family Therapy's insight:

Great article on how a couple changed their relationship from perpetual frustrations into one that worked well and builds each other up.

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October 2, 2014 2:05 PM
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Are You or Someone You Know In An Abusive Relationship?

Are You or Someone You Know In An Abusive Relationship? | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
Fuller Life created a resource page for those who wonder if their relationship is abusive, as well as those who may know someone in an abusive relationship.
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Resource page for those in abusive  and destructive relationships. This article also includes resources for friends, families, and churches.

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August 26, 2014 3:34 AM
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3 Phrases To Use When Arguing with Your Spouse - Stupendous Marriage

3 Phrases To Use When Arguing with Your Spouse - Stupendous Marriage | Resilient Relationships | Scoop.it
3 Phrases to use when arguing with your spouse! Learn these and use them to help out communication with your husband or wife.
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