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August 9, 2017 8:59 AM
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Lucky are those whose name changes are more than spreadsheet transactions. Said Adams of his: “It feels like I’m a brand-new person.”
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July 24, 2017 6:18 PM
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Who cares? The answer is, you do, and you matter. Your name is yours. It affects you, and you get to have it reflect you in whatever way you want.
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May 2, 2017 5:58 PM
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Hi Swistle, I’ll love you forever if you can help me name my newborn baby boy. He’s 5 days old, awfully cute, and nameless. We left the hospital without a name! I didn’t know you …
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December 26, 2016 6:07 AM
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I now find myself wishing that I had given my children my last name as well. A double surname would have been unwieldy, but it would have been European instead of just British — and it would have signaled a connection to me.
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December 8, 2016 4:05 PM
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We’re curious about how women around the world decide whether to keep or change their name after marriage. We may publish a selection of the responses.
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November 21, 2016 3:56 PM
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The tradition of women keeping their names is rooted in patriarchal Confucian values, whereby a married woman would remain identified by her father’s lineage.
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October 24, 2016 2:07 PM
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Women trying to overturn a century-old law that requires married couples to use one surname, almost always the husband’s, are getting no help from judges.
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September 4, 2016 6:13 AM
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If I address her by her real name, it sounds stilted and she thinks I am telling her off. Even referring to her by it when talking to a third person makes me uncomfortable, but then so does calling her Fluffy: it’s a lose-lose situation.
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February 29, 2016 2:54 PM
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My fiancé and I are considering choosing a different last name than either of our current surnames. How would we announce this at our wedding? Or should we? Do you have any advice for breaking the news to his parents?
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January 8, 2016 6:12 PM
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My husband and I have been married for a year. I chose to keep my last name, which my husband supports. Still, we get mail and lots of holiday cards addressed to: Mr. and Mrs. John Smith — Smith, of course, being his name. This makes me feel left out. Is it worth tackling this with family and friends?
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January 4, 2016 2:12 PM
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Do more women keep or change their maiden names when they marry? You may be surprised by the latest statistics.
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December 2, 2015 8:44 AM
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The Times is dropping “Rodham” from its references to Hillary Clinton, reflecting how the Democratic candidate for president refers to herself these days.
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August 16, 2015 4:13 AM
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Upon marriage Japan’s current legislation forces a couple to decide on a single family name. While the law does allow for either partner’s name to be chosen, in more than 95% of the cases, the wife changes to her new husband’s last name. However, this tradition may soon see a change.
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July 26, 2017 4:26 PM
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Dear Swistle – I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant with our first child – a boy! – and my husband is being NO HELP! Our last name is Mouton (Moo-TAWN), and we have agreed to the…
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July 13, 2017 7:29 PM
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In 1928, the Aberdeen Journal mentioned a London woman who had been granted a separation from her husband by London Magistrate Basil B. Watson. She was apparently very pleased about the decision, b…
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April 8, 2017 5:39 PM
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Marriage and inheriting the man’s last name has always been based on tradition. But would your husband change name for you?
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December 26, 2016 6:01 AM
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The Times asked women around the world why they had kept or changed their surnames when they married. For many, the decision carried significant weight.
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December 5, 2016 3:56 PM
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My wife wants to name our daughter after her late mother, Lillian, but my mother hates it and says it's too old.
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October 29, 2016 8:29 AM
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My grandfather’s family was all but wiped out in the Holocaust and I was the last person in my line to hold my family’s name.
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September 28, 2016 2:01 PM
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For some people, cultural misunderstandings. For others, a spouse (or gender) they’ve left behind. And for others still, a desire to stand out – or disappear. Eric Andrew-Gee reports on the 22,000 Canadians a year who ditch their official moniker for something they like better
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May 20, 2016 3:26 PM
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Modern couples have more choices than they used to—but this measure of progress is practically nascent and not one of these choices is perfect.
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January 8, 2016 6:16 PM
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One justice said the law did not impose an undue burden on women in part because they could continue using their maiden names in their professional lives.
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January 8, 2016 5:27 PM
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"On the 16th December, Japan’s Supreme Court announced its verdict on the constitutionality of the law banning spouses from carrying separate last names: The court ruled that the ban is indeed constitutional."
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December 7, 2015 1:23 PM
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Update (and photo!) on Baby Naming Issue: Choosing Surnames!
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December 2, 2015 8:41 AM
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"I changed it to start a new clan with my wife, not to escape my heritage."
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Some interesting stories of people changing their names for marriage, divorce, cultural or other reasons.