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Is Self-Doubt Holding You Back? 5 Ways To Build Confidence And Banish Doubt

Is Self-Doubt Holding You Back? 5 Ways To Build Confidence And Banish Doubt | Tidbits, titbits or tipbits? | Scoop.it

The problem with self-doubt is that the fear it creates stops us from living the lives we most want and changing the things we don’t.  How?  Fear keeps us living small and stuck in jobs that don’t fulfill us but feel safe.  But is there really anything safe about living a life where you feel disengaged, disillusioned or desperate to be doing something else? of course not. The truth is that who you are is not your doubts. The key to banishing them isn’t to wish them away, but to take action in their presence.

 

It’s easy to mislead ourselves into thinking that if we just had the success we wanted, then we’d never doubt ourselves again and ooze the confidence we see in others.  But it actually works in reverse.


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The Learning Factor's curator insight, September 22, 2014 7:19 PM

If you find yourself plagued by self-doubt, you’re not alone. In fact, one study of managers by the European Institute for Leadership and Management revealed that 50% of female managers and 31% of male managers admitted to experiencing self-doubt.

Mike Williams's curator insight, September 23, 2014 3:50 AM

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Love, Lies and What they Learned -Identity -Love NY Times

Love, Lies and What they Learned -Identity -Love NY Times | Tidbits, titbits or tipbits? | Scoop.it

 

 Slightly off topic..but interesting from an online identity point of view

 

 

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/13/fashion/online-dating-as-scientific-research.html

 

"They have observed, for instance, that many daters would rather admit to being fat than liberal or conservative" Stephanie Rsoenbloom

 

“As more and more of life happens online, it’s less and less the case that online is a vacuum,” he added. “It is life.” (Andrew Fiore)

On Truthiness- people tell small lies since they won't meet

- women say they are 8.5 pound thinner, men only 2 but said they were a half inch taller

 

-liars tend to use fewer first-person pronouns.

-"Liars use more negative words like “not” and “never,” yet another way of putting up a buffer. Liars use fewer negative emotion words like “sad” and “upset,” and they write shorter online personal essays. (It’s easier not to get caught if you say less.)"

 

-people date their own race

 

-women want men who are tall and weathy (Shocking)

-women prefer men slightly overweight

-men prefer women slightly underweight

 

 

 

Well I declare, I'm Liberal and not fat. ..there I said it...but was it a secret?- kh

 


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