Mirabelle Summers's book Wrap Him Around Your Finger free pdf download. Lovers are often blind to the beloved’s negative traits and tend to create an idealized image of the beloved. We often love the idealized object rather than the real one. Are we then blind when we fall in love and when we maintain it? In a surprising number of cases, people fall in love with their idealized vision of their lovers, or with the idea of being in love, rather than with the actual reality of their lovers. Indeed people often say that they are living out their dreams with their beloved. Positive illusions are in fact central to love. Lovers do not see clearly, if at all, their beloved’s negative traits and tend to create an idealized image of the beloved. Men seem to idealize women more than women idealize men. For example, a survey of love songs has found that females were more often described as “heavenly” or “angels” than males.
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