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Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate: Surviving Emotional & Verbal Abuse

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Surviving Emotional & Verbal Abuse - Cindy Burrell
On behalf of those of us who have experienced this reality - and we are many - it is my objective to enlighten others who find themselves in similar circumstances -- to save others from unnecessary pain and break the cycle of abuse among us for the benefit of today's families and future generations. If someone who reads this sees himself or herself and demands better, then I will consider my undertaking as having had significant value.

Perhaps like you, I never dreamed she would be "one of them," could never have contemplated the possibility that abuse would touch our family or imagined that my children and I would, for a time, live in fear, be forced to leave our home. On the other side of insanity; however, the day came when we found freedom and a fresh start to begin restoring a measure of what was taken from us, and what I, through my enabling behaviors, gave away.

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STICKS AND STONES AND HURTFUL WORDS | Ending Abuse ...

STICKS AND STONES AND HURTFUL WORDS | Ending Abuse ... | surviving the veribal abusive husband | Scoop.it
Verbal abuse can have lone-tem effects. Over time, one begins to believe the negative things they hear about themselves. They use those negative statements and thoughts as explanations for anything that goes wrong.
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Study: Parents May Be Inflicting Emotional Abuse Without Realizing It

Study: Parents May Be Inflicting Emotional Abuse Without Realizing It | surviving the veribal abusive husband | Scoop.it
Most parents would probably say that they could easily spot child abuse and would never do something so harmful themselves.
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Emotional Abuse Divorce – Being Your Truth in Family Court | Drug Abuse

An interesting piece - Doug

Emotional Abuse Divorce – Being Your Truth in Family Court http://t.co/5MjRIc3P...

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Abusive Anger Is Verbal Abuse & Used As A Control Tactic - Stop It Now

Abusive Anger Is Verbal Abuse & Used As A Control Tactic - Stop It Now | surviving the veribal abusive husband | Scoop.it
Abusers use scary, red-faced, kick-the-dog anger to control their victims. But abusive anger can also be quiet and manipulative, living in the shadows. (RT @abuse_journals: Abusive anger is scary and dangerous.
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Verbal & Emotional Abuse - What victims hear from their abuser

What a victim of verbal & emotional abuse has heard through the years. You are not alone. If you are a being subjected to this type of abuse, the best book I...
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Effects of Emotional Abuse on Adults

Effects of Emotional Abuse on Adults | surviving the veribal abusive husband | Scoop.it
The effects of emotional abuse can be devastating. Learn about the effects of having an emotionally abusive husband, wife or boyfriend, girlfriend.
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Hurtbylove - Help For Verbal and Emotional Abuse

Hurtbylove - Help For Verbal and Emotional Abuse | surviving the veribal abusive husband | Scoop.it
"God is My Witness"

Making a Case for Biblical Divorce

My shield is with God, who saves the upright in heart. Psalm 7:10

While people may misunderstand me, God cannot. And while others may not see where my heart lies, He does. I take great comfort in that, for I will, at times, be misunderstood, misrepresented and misjudged. Yet my shield is with God.
I am a divorcee. For some, that alone provides adequate cause for some to discredit any insight I may have to offer. In truth, such readers are precisely the people who, if I may be so bold, should continue reading.

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Effects of Verbal Abuse

Emotional fatigue & the sense that you don't even care what you feel anymore is an effect of abuse. I was so wrapped up in what my abuser wanted/needed that ...
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Examples of Verbal Abuse

Examples of Verbal Abuse | surviving the veribal abusive husband | Scoop.it
I want to share some examples of verbal abuse because most aren’t easy to spot. Most verbally abusive statements are camouflaged, but some are blatantly obvious.

Verbal abuse underlies all other forms of abuse because words and tone can be easily manipulated to mean something other than what is said and “You misunderstood me!” is such an easy way out. Early on in my relationship, word games were key.

Here’s an early example of verbal abuse that I experienced. If he said something that hurt my feelings, I would tell him so. He would say, “I didn’t mean it that way, Kellie,” and he’d give me a hug. He would tell me that even his sergeants told him he needed to work on his tact. He promised to work on it. “What I really meant to say was…” SO much different than what had come out of his mouth that I had a difficult time rectifying the first statement to mean the second.

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How to Respond to Verbal Abuse When You Hate Fighting

How to Respond to Verbal Abuse When You Hate Fighting | surviving the veribal abusive husband | Scoop.it
Sometimes good insights come when you least expect them and from someone who's cutting your hair. Anna is a lovely, collected lady. She's good at it but she hates fighting. Her husband is the nicest guy to others, yet he is.
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