While apologising like Lance Armstrong (pictured) can lessen feelings of guilt and help restore a wrongdoer's image, it seems declining to can have even more powerful psychological benefits.
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donhornsby's curator insight,
January 9, 2016 8:21 AM
(From the article): We’re all capable of improving, regardless of what natural abilities we were born with or without. It’s important then to acknowledge our successes or failures and remind ourselves that they are a direct result of our own effort or lack thereof, not of factors outside our control.
It’s the difference between having a “fixed mindset” or a “growth mindset”. A “fixed mindset” assumes that our abilities can’t be changed in any meaningful way, and success or failure is the reinforcement of the traits we were “born” with. When we have a “growth mindset,” on the other hand, we see obstacles and challenges as opportunities for growth beyond our existing abilities.
These two mindsets spur a great deal of our behavior so it’s essential to recognize if you tend toward a fixed mindset and try to shift your thinking toward a growth mindset.
Peggy Kelsey's curator insight,
January 10, 2016 11:14 AM
These tips can underpin your other efforts.
Agnes Ng's curator insight,
September 4, 2015 2:25 AM
Achieve your goals through S.M.A.R.T. (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Timely)
Dorothy R. Cook 's curator insight,
December 6, 2015 3:51 AM
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Peggy Kelsey's curator insight,
December 31, 2015 9:27 AM
Not only insights from Barb's life, but each lesson contains "What you can do" so you can apply it to yourself.
Dorothy R. Cook 's curator insight,
December 6, 2015 3:41 AM
Thanks be to God for this great share of information!
donhornsby's curator insight,
August 31, 2015 9:19 AM
(From the article): Finally, the best antidote if you’re lacking an expert reputation now is to start creating one ASAP. Creating original contentis the single most effective way to develop an expert reputation. Though the best channel will vary (photographers and chefs should double down on Instagram, while it’s less helpful for attorneys and insurance brokers), blogging is a good betfor most professionals. In just an hour or two a week, you can begin to demonstrate how you think about the issues facing your field and sharing your unique point of view. Your content creation sparks a virtuous circle: because reporters looking for comment almost always start their articles with an online search, if your name keeps coming up as someone writing about the issues, they’re likely to contact you, reinforcing your expert reputation with third-party validation.
If you’re not yet considered an expert, it’s harder to get your ideas noticed — but not impossible. With these strategies, you can begin to overcome others’ resistance and make sure your voice is heard.
Dorothy R. Cook 's curator insight,
December 6, 2015 3:44 AM
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Dorothy R. Cook 's curator insight,
March 14, 2016 6:34 PM
One of the most powerful forms of influence, according to psychologist Robert Cialdini's famous analysis, is authority - often derived by perceived expertise. When you don't have outstanding credentials, how do you stand out?
Dorothy R. Cook 's curator insight,
December 6, 2015 3:48 AM
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