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A Storytelling Guide for Those Who Stink at Storytelling

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Not a natural storyteller? This simple structure can help everyone shape a compelling personal or business narrative.

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Mejorar es escuchar,...  una historia deberás escuchar, para mejorar tu vida o tu negocio. Las historias hoy en día son juntas la mejor manera de llegar a las personas y se unan a tu negocio, o quieran hacer lo mismo que hiciste en tu vida para que ellos logren lo mismo. Este link es una guia tremenda para aprender. SÍGUELO!!!!

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Tells stories and do not read slides.

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Check out the complete post where Crabb spins a short, simple story about a career transition from Goldman Sachs employee to professional illustrator.

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Create a Wow Factor in Corporate Event Through Party Planners

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Regardless of whether this is your first corporate event or your tenth, the event is just as important to everyone involved.

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Choosing The Best Law Of Attraction Quotes | Tweet Ups

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You can take this same positive thinking idea into something that will make your entire life more positive and all you need to do is follow a few simple laws of attraction tips and tricks.
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You Can Use the Law of Attraction on Purpose with Mind Movies ...

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Have you heard of the Law of Attraction? Did you know that you are ALWAYS using it whether you realize it or not? Why not use it on purpose? Join me as Natalie Ledwell shows us how to use the Law of Attraction to achieve ...
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Law Of Attraction

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The law of attraction is always working, whether you believe it or understand it or not. Bob Proctor

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Law of Attraction and the Power of Positive Thinking For Your Financial Benefit

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Law of Attraction We've all heard about how positive thinking can benefit you in many ways, but did you know that positive thinking and the Law of Attraction can help boost your income at the same time?These days we all could use some extra income! This article will give you an understanding of how positive thinking and the Law of


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Embrace positive attitude to get life moving in the right direction - The Cairns Post

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MANY people feel that they can't get their lives moving in the right direction. If you embrace a positive attitude, you'll find it easier to get where you want to go.
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MANY people feel that they can't get their lives moving in the right direction. If you embrace a positive attitude, you'll find it easier to get where you want to go.

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Justin's HappyMap: Team Hoyt Has Been Added To My www.HappyMap.com - A Truly Inspiring Story.

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David Hain's curator insight, April 17, 2013 4:27 AM

In a week where we are all shocked by the wicked poisoning of a sporting event where many people undertake extraordinary effort for others, here is a story of two Bostonians who will surely provide an example that will be followed by the city as a whole.  

 

He picked himself up, and won back his life.  Boston will too!

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Many Years Young: Power of Positive Thinking in Pain Relief

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Power of Positive Thinking in Pain Relief. (RealAge.com) [A doctor's] attitude -- and the patient's expectations based on what the doc said -- changed how well the drug worked. But you may be surprised by how much.
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Inside My Bubble Today: Law Of Attraction: Avoiding Common Mistakes

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» The Power of Positive Thinking – 5 Steps to Curb Negative Thinking - Tales of Manic Depression

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Social Consciousness: The Fundamentals of the Law of Attraction

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Interesting article... Good read for those active in pursuit of a better life, and for those who have no idea...... http://t.co/uYh5LlUC5l
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12 Hacks To Quickly Grow Your Social Media Following - Ebyline's Content Hub

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For many early-stage brands, growing their social media following is marketing priority #1.

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Ceres Wu's comment, August 21, 2013 6:08 AM
great steps of showing how to using social media. and i think the most important thing of fully understand and use social media is to keep making the message simple, easy to understand, clear meaning and knowing what exactly you are talking about.
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felix, i totally agree with you. " Because it has direct conversation with audience, and get the feedback directly. If said any wrong word, did any wrong thing, the image of business will go bad immediately and may get worse in short time. Therefore, if we follow these 12 hacks and keep that two points in our mind, we can use social media well and gain advantage from it. " i think this article provide very good information
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Our infrastructure, policies and procedures, and security parameters at the application and network level are at par with the best in the industry and are compliant with international standards.

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Bob Proctor: Law Of Attraction Guru

Bob Prоctоr was born in 1935 in a famіly of humble folkѕ аs the middle сhild in Ontarіo, Canada. Whilе growіng up, he wasn't what yоu would call an exceptional youth. Due to the wide-reаching depression during his growіng up daуs, Bob wasn't fascinated by studiеs. Cоnsequently, he didn't excel at studies and eventually dropped out aftеr barely a handful of months in high ѕchool. He then entered the Cаnаdiаn Navу and ѕerved for four years. After thіs stіnt, he went to Toronto and found emрloyment with the firе department. During thiѕ periоd he waѕ pennileѕѕ, unwell and despondent. Around thiѕ tіme he got a coрy of "Think and Grow Riсh" written by Napоleоn Hill. Thіs made him all sеt for a revolution in hiѕ life. He deсided to use the thoughtѕ summarіzed in that book. Fіrstly, he ѕet a figurе he deѕired to еarn, notеd it down, fоcused on it and kept that in a pocket. To аchieve thіs targеt sum of $25,000, he ԛuit his job, in spitе of protеsts. Soon he startеd a janitоrial service speciаlizing in cleaning workplaces. Thiѕ grew within a yeаr into a nationwide chain. He had еarnеd much morе than hiѕ originаl target. Shоrtly, he bеcamе a millionaire. As he felt that the book had an effeсt on him, he felt оbliged to sharе hіs аchievements with people. During thіs period, Bob reаd numеrous self-help bооks. Proctor mаde a decision to becоme a life-сoaсh. In the cоnsequent years, Bob has trainеd mаnаgeriаl stаff at a lot of companies. Apart from thiѕ, he started writing hіs own ѕelf-help bооks. Mоst of theѕe went on to bеcomе instant best ѕellerѕ and had a majоr impaсt on the lеading lіghts in the intellectual сommunity. His mоst influеntial book of all timеs is You Were Born Rich. Thiѕ is amоng the bеst individuаl prоgress books writtеn yet. This book сan аctuаlly help anyone in the pathway to success. The most sіgnіfіcant prіncіple outlined and hіghlіghted in this book is the Law of Rеcеiving. This exhorts people to give up the frenzied рursuit of weаlth, аs this can оnly be counterproductive. It asks them to slоw down and tаke a momеnt to cоmprehend what theу reаlly requіre in life. Thіs can lead to the point where рeoрle сan do what thеy want when theу want. It implorеs the readers not to hаnker аfter weаlth, as it will only leаd to dіscontent and dejeсtion. In conclusion, Bob Proctor haѕ mаde it to the toр by usіng self-help principles. He has сonveyed these lessons in the book You Were Born Rich.


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Inner truth: Igniting the Law of Attraction - Daily News & Analysis

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The first step of the Law of Attraction is quick and easy: Ask. As soon as you become aware of a desire, announce it to the Universe.
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What Is Positive Thinking?

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What determines our mood or sense of well being? Is it what is happening in our lives, or rather, the way we think about what is happening? If you take a moment to think about your life, and others...
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How Positive Thoughts Build Skills, Boost Health, and Improve Work

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Positive thinking sounds useful on the surface. (Most of us would prefer to be positive rather than negative.) But “positive thinking” is also a soft and fluffy term that's easy to dismiss.

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Why Yoga Is Like Life Coaching

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We are at a critical time in human evolution, a time when we can generate true shifts in consciousness. The values we cultivate in coaching, noted below, resonate from yoga practitioners to teachers of all kinds and back.

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How to Think Positively No Matter What Happens

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The main idea of positiveness is one simple rule: think only of good things. But as it turns out this is not so easy. According to the psychologists, people tend to think of failure more often than of success. And it’s because positive thinkingrequires much more energy than a pessimistic attitude to life.


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How to Apply the Law of Attraction to Your Business Marketing. Michael Losier and Alex Mandossian

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http://MarketingOnlineHanout.com is where Alex Mandossian interviews business experts and thought leaders every Friday at 12 Noon PT, 3 PM ET. Of course, you... (New Blog Post: How to Apply the Law of Attraction to Your Business Marketing.
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Law of Attraction: Manifestation Myth Buster #4 | Success for the Soul

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You can’t afford a negative thought. This is a prevalent myth and the cause of much suffering among seekers who practice ... (Law of Attraction: Manifestation Myth Buster #4: You can’t afford a negative thought.
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Attract Money - The Secret Visualization - Law Of Attraction #1

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The Benefits of Optimism Are Real

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A positive outlook is the most important predictor of resilience. It's not just Hollywood magic.

One of the most memorable scenes of the Oscar-nominated film Silver Linings Playbook revolves around Ernest Hemingway's A Farewell to Arms, a novel that does not end well, to put it mildly.

Patrizio Solitano Jr. (Bradley Cooper) has come home after an eight-month stint being treated for bipolar disorder at a psychiatric hospital, where he was sentenced to go after he nearly beat his wife's lover to death. Home from the hospital, living under his parents' charge, Pat has lost his wife, his job, and his house. But he tries to put the pieces of his life back together. He exercises, maintains an upbeat lifestyle, and tries to better his mind by reading through the novels that his estranged wife Nikki, a high school English teacher, assigns her students. 

Pat takes up a personal motto, excelsior -- Latin for "ever upward." He tells his state-appointed therapist, "I hate my illness and I want to control it. This is what I believe to be true: You have to do everything you can and if you stay positive you have a shot at a silver lining."

For many years, psychologists, following Freud, thought that people simply needed to express their anger and anxiety -- blow off some steam -- to be happier. But this is wrong.

Which is why the Hemingway novel, which is part of Nikki's syllabus, is such a buzz kill. When he gets to the last pages, and discovers that it ends grimly with death, he slams the book shut, throws it through a glass window of his parents' house, and storms into their room in the middle of the night, saying:

 

This whole time you're rooting for this Hemingway guy to survive the war and to be with the woman that he loves, Catherine Barkley... And he does, he does, he survives the war after getting blown up. He survives it and he escapes to Switzerland with Catherine. You think he ends it there? No! She dies, dad! I mean, the world's hard enough as it is, guys. Can't someone say, hey let's be positive? Let's have a good ending to the story?

Another best picture nominee, Life of Pi, employs a similar device. Pi finds himself aboard a lifeboat with a ferocious Bengal tiger in the aftermath of a shipwreck that has his entire family. Lost at sea in the Pacific Ocean for 227 days -- starved, desperate, and forced into a game of survival with the tiger -- Pi pushes forward, even though he, like Pat, has lost everything. Pi says, "You might think I lost all hope at that point. I did. And as a result I perked up and felt much better."

Pi's resilience is incredible once you realize what happens on board the lifeboat and how Pi copes with the tragedy that he witnesses and endures. There's more to the story than the boy and the tiger. Though what really happened is terrible, Pi chooses to tell a different story. His parallels what really happened, but is beautiful not bleak, transcendent not nihilistic.

"Which story do you prefer?" he asks at the end.

 

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This questions turns out to matter a great deal if you are trying to figure out who grows after trauma and who gets swallowed up by it, a question that each movie addresses and that psychologists have been grappling with for years. Think back to the last time you experienced a loss, setback, or hardship. Did you respond by venting, ruminating, and dwelling on the disappointment, or did you look for a faint flash of meaning through all of the darkness -- a silver lining of some sort? How quickly did you bounce back -- how resilient are you?

The New Yorker's Richard Brody criticized Silver Linings Playbook for its sentimentality and "faith-based view of mental illness and, overall, of emotional redemption." The New York Times' A.O. Scott made a similar, if predictable, criticism of Life of Pi: "The novelist and the older Pi are eager...to repress the darker implications of the story, as if the presence of cruelty and senseless death might be too much for anyone to handle...Insisting on the benevolence of the universe in the way that Life of Pi does can feel more like a result of delusion or deceit than of earnest devotion."

But these criticisms miss the point. First, they fail to understand why these two strange and idiosyncratic movies, both based on novels, resonated with so many millions of people. Their themes of resilience speak to each of us -- and there is a reason for that. The key insight of each movie is, whether their creators realized it or not, grounded in a growing body of scientific research, which Brody and Scott overlook.

Positive emotions can, the researchers concluded, undo the effects of a stressful negative experience.

Far from being delusional or faith-based, having a positive outlook in difficult circumstances is not only an important predictor of resilience -- how quickly people recover from adversity -- but it is the most important predictor of it. People who are resilient tend to be more positive and optimistic compared to less-resilient folks; they are better able to regulate their emotions; and they are able to maintain their optimism through the most trying circumstances.

This is what Dr. Dennis Charney, the dean of Mount Sinai School of Medicine, found when he examined approximately 750 Vietnam war veterans who were held as prisoners of war for six to eight years. Tortured and kept in solitary confinement, these 750 men were remarkably resilient. Unlike many fellow veterans, they did not develop depression or posttraumatic stress disorder after their release, even though they endured extreme stress. What was their secret? After extensive interviews and tests, Charney found ten characteristics that set them apart. The top one was optimism. The second was altruism. Humor and having a meaning in life -- or something to live for -- were also important.

For many years, psychologists, following Freud, thought that people simply needed to express their anger and anxiety -- blow off some steam -- to be happier. But this is wrong. Researchers, for example, asked people who were mildly-to-moderately depressed to dwell on their depression for eight minutes. The researchers found that such ruminating caused the depressed people to become significantly more depressed and for a longer period of time than people who simply distracted themselves thinking about something else. Senseless suffering -- suffering that lacks a silver lining -- viciously leads to more depression.

Counter-intuitively, another study found that facing down adversity by venting -- hitting a punching bag or being vengeful toward someone who makes you angry -- actually leads to people feeling far worse, not better. Actually, doing nothing at all in response to anger was more effective than expressing the anger in these destructive ways.

Even more effective than doing nothing is channeling your depression toward a productive, positive goal, as Pat and Pi do. James Pennebaker, a psychological researcher at the University of Texas in Austin, has found that people who find meaning in adversity are ultimately healthier in the long run than those who do not. In a study, he asked people to write about the darkest, most traumatic experience of their lives for four days in a row for a period of 15 minutes each day.

Analyzing their writing, Pennebaker noticed that the people who benefited most from the exercise were trying to derive meaning from the trauma. They were probing into the causes and consequences of the adversity and, as a result, eventually grew wiser about it. A year later, their medical records showed that the meaning-makers went to the doctor and hospital fewer times than people in the control condition, who wrote about a non-traumatic event. People who used the exercise to vent, by contrast, received no health benefits. Interestingly, when Pennebaker had other research subjects express their emotions through song or dance, the health benefits did not appear. There was something unique and special about the stories people told themselves. Those stories helped people find a silver lining in their adversity.

 

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Barbara Fredrickson, a psychological researcher at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, has looked more closely at the relationship between being positive and resilience. Her research shows how important one is for the other.

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For starters, having a positive mood makes people more resilient physically. In one study, research subjects were outfitted with a device that measured their heart activity. After their baseline heart activity was recorded, they were presented with a stressful task: Each was asked to quickly prepare and deliver a speech on why he or she is a good friend. They were told that the speech would be videotaped and evaluated.

Heart rates rapidly increased. Arteries constricted. Blood pressure shot up.

Then, participants were shown a short video clip that either evoked negative emotions (like sadness), positive emotions (like happiness), or a neutral condition of no emotions. The participants were also told that if they were shown a video clip "by chance" that they were off the hook: They did not have to give the speech after all. That meant that their anxiety would start to subside as the video clips started.

Here was the interesting finding: The heart activity of the participants who viewed the positive clips returned to normal much quicker than their peers who were shown the negative or neutral clips. Positive emotions can, the researchers concluded, undo the effects of a stressful negative experience. The researchers found that the most resilient people were also more positive in day-to-day life.

 

It turns out that resilient people are good at transforming negative feelings into positive ones. For instance, one of the major findings of Fredrickson's studies was that resilient people took a different attitude toward the speech task than non-resilient people. They viewed the task as a challenge and opportunity for growth rather than as a threat. In other words, they found the silver lining.

With that in mind, the researchers wondered if they could inject some positivity into the non-resilient people to make them more resilient. They primed both types of people to approach the task either positive or negatively. The researchers told some people to see the task as a threat and they told others to see it as a challenge. What they found is good news for resilient and non-resilient people alike.

Resilient people who saw the task as a challenge did fine, as predicted. So did, interestingly, resilient people who were told to view the task as a threat. Resilient people, no matter how they approached the task, had the same cardiovascular recovery rate.

The people who benefitted from the priming were non-resilient people. Those who were told to approach the task as an opportunity rather than a threat suddenly started looking like high resilient people in their cardiovascular measures. They bounced back quicker than they otherwise would have.

Resilient people are good at bouncing back because they are emotionally complex. In each of Fredrickson's studies, resilient people experience the same level of frustration and anxiety as the less resilient participants. Their physiological and emotional spikes were equally high. This is important. It reveals that resilient people are not Pollyannas, deluding themselves with positivity. They just let go of the negativity, worry less, and shift their attention to the positive more quickly.

Resilient people also respond to adversity by appealing to a wider range of emotions. In another study, for instance, participants were asked to write short essays about the most important problem that they were facing in their lives. While resilient people reported the same amount of anxiety as less resilient people in the essays, they also revealed more happiness, interest, and eagerness toward the problem. For resilient people, high levels of positive emotions exist side-by-side with negative emotions. Think of how Pi responds to his seemingly hopeless situation aboard the boat: "I tell you, if you were in such dire straits as I was, you too would elevate your thoughts. The lower you are, the higher your mind will want to soar."

When your mind starts soaring, you notice more and more positive things. This unleashes an upward spiral of positive emotions that opens people up to new ways of thinking and seeing the world -- to new ways forward. This is yet another reason why positive people are resilient. They see opportunities that negative people don't. Negativity, for adaptive reasons, puts you in defense mode, narrows your field of vision, and shuts you off to new possibilities since they're seen as risks.

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This calls to mind one of the best scenes from Silver Linings Playbook, in which a bad situation nearly consumes Pat. He is at a diner with Tiffany (Jennifer Lawrence), when he hears "Ma Cherie Amour" playing in his head  -- the song that was playing when he found his estranged wife naked in the shower with another man -- and has a traumatic flashback.

Tiffany helps him work past the episode: "You gonna go your whole life scared of that song? It's just a song. Don't make it a monster... There's no song playing. There's no song. Breathe, count backwards from ten. That's it." He recovers and their interaction sets the stage for the rest of the movie. 

Like Life of Pi, Silver Linings Playbook is about how we can tame our inner demons with hope and a positive outlook on life. By finding meaning and love in terrible circumstances, as Pi and Pat do, they overcome their suffering and, in the process, reveal how uplifting silver linings can be.


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Law Of Attraction For Success - SpeakingTree (blog)

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Imagine the Law of Attraction working in your favor. This is a constant process. Think about it as many times in a day that you can.
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