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What is a hopeless relationship and how do you know your in one? These scoops attempt to help you find out the different signs of a hopeless relationship, but its up to you to figure out what to do with the information.
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Top 10 Excuses You Make To Stay In A Bad Relationship < Singles/Dating | CBN.com

Top 10 Excuses You Make To Stay In A Bad Relationship < Singles/Dating | CBN.com | Hopeless Relationships | Scoop.it
Author Dani Miser examines the most common excuses we make and why we should stop making them.
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CBN explains the different reasons a lot of people stay in hopeless relationships. Much of them based around insecurities and fears.

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Italics, The Pretty Words

Italics, The Pretty Words | Hopeless Relationships | Scoop.it

Sometimes you can see the bad in the realtionship, but you try to keep on pushing anyway. Anonymous Writer explains just how empty "pretty words" can really be.

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      He is everything you would ever want in a guy and all the things you will never need in a guy. He is the worst of both worlds. Sweet pretty words that surround you like a beautiful Venus fly trap encasing its victim. They swallow you whole and make you wonder, what on earth made you willingly fall into those sweet words. Why is that all he ever says to you, sweet words and pretty dreams.

 

I love you

 

I’ll never leave you

 

Your perfect…

 

      Am I wrong for thinking this is a scam. This is too much;I find my heart and my head screaming at me. You are not ready for this commitment. It’s only been four months how could HE BE SO IN LOVE? Why is his love like a prison you can’t escape from? Like a chain that’s impossible to saw off? Is it because you don’t want to escape? Is it that the right chain is sitting behind you and you don’t try hard enough to look for it? Why do you allow yourself to be so irritated by his love?

 

      He is everything you would ever want in a guy and all the things you will never need in a guy. He is the worst of both worlds. Sweet pretty words that surround you like a beautiful Venus fly trap encasing its victim. They swallow you whole and make you wonder, what on earth made you willingly fall into those sweet words. Why is that all he ever says to you, sweet words and pretty dreams.

 

I love you

 

I’ll never leave you

 

Your perfect…

 

      Am I wrong for thinking this is a scam. This is too much;I find my heart and my head screaming at me. You are not ready for this commitment. It’s only been four months how could HE BE SO IN LOVE? Why is his love like a prison you can’t escape from? Like a chain that’s impossible to saw off? Is it because you don’t want to escape? Is it that the right chain is sitting behind you and you don’t try hard enough to look for it? Why do you allow yourself to be so irritated by his love?

 

I love your body

 

You ALWAYS smell so good

 

Your sex is the best…

 

      Aren’t these things that every girl wants to hear? They want to know things like this. Why is it that I don’t? When you say those things to me… I don’t know what to think. Yes they are wonderful to hear, but don’t we have anything else to talk about other than how wonderful and perfect you BELIEVE me to be?

I love everything about you

All that you do is awesome

You have me for life…

    

       I don’t want you to think that these are not things that I like to hear, but when you hear it ALL the time and with only sexual tenses behind it; you’ll find they’re actually not that lovely. I want you to make me feel like I am a good person, not just a fine female. If you tell me that I’m perfect and have a wonderful personality I want to hear exactly what it is about my personality you love. If you’re here for eternity with me then let’s not spend that time talking about the same things.

 

       Tell me how much you love me, but include how much you love yourself. Tell me that you hope my dreams come true, but let me know how you’ll help me achieve them. And don’t expect me to be the only hard working person. I want you to have a promising future as well, so work hard towards it because I feel like you have it in you.

 

       A working relationship is not just about one person being perfect or either being perfect, it’s about you and your loved one working on making each other better people. Not just by boosting their ego, but boosting their goals in life. Treat me like a friend not like a lover. I’m not a sex toy that you have to make feel good. I’m a woman who has goals and wants you to have bigger goals and to actually WORK towards those goals!

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