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Reality Check - You Can't Get Him Back


 
  I know our blog is all about ways to get your ex back. Be positive. Improve yourself, focus inward to find your faults, etc. But what do you do IF there is just no way you will ever get him back? Even running back to him on your hands and knees apologizing won't change his mind! What happens when the awful realization finally sinks in that you and him are over, kaput, and nevermore to be? [caption id="attachment_355" align="alignleft" width="150"] What Do I Do?[/caption] Obviously, he's going to be on your mind. Everything you see reminds you of him, certain songs on the radio or your ipod bring you down immediately, so what the heck do you do? It may sound harsh but...
 

YOU Must Remove the Heartache From Your Life!
 
  1. Delete his number and info from your cell phone 2. If you and he are your Facebook profile picture, CHANGE IT! 3. Remove all reminders of him from your car, workplace, and even your home. (You don't have to destroy or throw out everything, just keep it out of sight)
  In other words, you must avoid all - or at least as many as humanly possible - reminders of him. Each reminder will unfortunately force you to think of the past; you and him together; the ideal version of him and you as a couple. It will be difficult for you to see him as anything other than your ideal boyfriend.
  So What Can You Do Then?
  How about chop him down to size?! List his faults. Maybe he took you for granted. Or treated you differently (not in a good way) around his or your friends. Or even disrespectfully around his or your family? Perhaps he was selfish or did not offer you much emotional support. Maybe he was a lousy listener, drank too much, or left you home while he hung out with his friends too often. See him for all his faults - not necessarily hate him - but start to realize he was NOT the ideal boyfriend.
  Do NOT Over Romanticize the Good Times
  FOCUS on the reality
  Don't forget to lean on your friends and family. They will be there for you. But please realize, two bad things can happen if you complain and repeat your awful story too much. One, you could make your family or friends want to avoid you worrying that you'll start in again on your sob story for the 100th time and make them miserable too. Secondly, by complaining, maybe even crying, too much, you may make it difficult to move on. YOU are keeping him on your mind constantly - just the opposite of what you want to do! [caption id="attachment_354" align="alignleft" width="150"]Ready to Move On[/caption]   How about focus on what YOU deserve.  Make a habit of saying to yourself, especially when feeling down or thinking of him: "I deserve a happy, loving relationship. I deserve a man to treat me like I'm special." See yourself in a special relationship. When you can smile while repeating your mantra or thinking of your ideal relationship, YOU will know that you have turned the corner and can move on with your life with self confidence.
 
       

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  I know our blog is all about ways to get your ex back. Be positive. Improve yourself, focus inward to find your faults, etc. But what do you do IF there is just no way you will ever get him back? Even running back to him on your hands and knees apologizing won't change his mind! What happens when the awful realization finally sinks in that you and him are over, kaput, and nevermore to be? [caption id="attachment_355" align="alignleft" width="150"] What Do I Do?[/caption] Obviously, he's going to be on your mind. Everything you see reminds you of him, certain songs on the radio or your ipod bring you down immediately, so what the heck do you do? It may sound harsh but...
 

YOU Must Remove the Heartache From Your Life!
 
  1. Delete his number and info from your cell phone 2. If you and he are your Facebook profile picture, CHANGE IT! 3. Remove all reminders of him from your car, workplace, and even your home. (You don't have to destroy or throw out everything, just keep it out of sight)
  In other words, you must avoid all - or at least as many as humanly possible - reminders of him. Each reminder will unfortunately force you to think of the past; you and him together; the ideal version of him and you as a couple. It will be difficult for you to see him as anything other than your ideal boyfriend.
  So What Can You Do Then?
  How about chop him down to size?! List his faults. Maybe he took you for granted. Or treated you differently (not in a good way) around his or your friends. Or even disrespectfully around his or your family? Perhaps he was selfish or did not offer you much emotional support. Maybe he was a lousy listener, drank too much, or left you home while he hung out with his friends too often. See him for all his faults - not necessarily hate him - but start to realize he was NOT the ideal boyfriend.
  Do NOT Over Romanticize the Good Times
  FOCUS on the reality
  Don't forget to lean on your friends and family. They will be there for you. But please realize, two bad things can happen if you complain and repeat your awful story too much. One, you could make your family or friends want to avoid you worrying that you'll start in again on your sob story for the 100th time and make them miserable too. Secondly, by complaining, maybe even crying, too much, you may make it difficult to move on. YOU are keeping him on your mind constantly - just the opposite of what you want to do! [caption id="attachment_354" align="alignleft" width="150"]Ready to Move On[/caption]   How about focus on what YOU deserve.  Make a habit of saying to yourself, especially when feeling down or thinking of him: "I deserve a happy, loving relationship. I deserve a man to treat me like I'm special." See yourself in a special relationship. When you can smile while repeating your mantra or thinking of your ideal relationship, YOU will know that you have turned the corner and can move on with your life with self confidence.
 
       

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Sleeping Together Too Early


  What in the world is premature reconciliation? (For those of you with dirty minds, keep your jokes to yourself…lol) It’s when you are trying to get your sweetie to love you romantically again and are slowly making progress…but then you try to win your ex back all at once.
  Let’s look at it this way: For you gals trying to get your ex back, we’ll call you Sue. For you guys reading this, let’s call you Bill. (Reverse roles guys for this example)
  Bill and Sue meet for a small bite together to talk. It is going rather well. Instead of being satisfied with her progress, Sue presses to continue their talk about reuniting – trying to win his love back. Without realizing it, she is moving way too fast…
  Now even if Bill starts talking about getting back together before Sue, she should NOT jump up and down with joy. Their relationship would have a greater chance of reconciling and lasting if Sue…
  Instead, had gotten up, thanked Bill, and say calmly and sincerely, “I’d love for us to take it slow and see where it goes.”
  Another classic case of Premature Reconciliation happens to many women I’ve talked with – applies to you guys too. They often sleep with their ex partner too soon which can easily hurt any real chance of their getting back together.
 
 
  Now you know the secret about sleeping with your ex too early. If you really want to get back together with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, reconnect on a personal level first. Your physical connection will come naturally. Find out more secrets on getting back your ex: Visit Here Now
 
 
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Husband emailing ex girlfriend

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It's funny, I came to this site by googling "husband emailing ex girlfriend" and it's amazing how many posts there are about this. My story:  http://get-lover-back.com

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Get Your Lover Back


 
  Ladies, are you sad, angry, depressed, or just overwhelmed because you and your boyfriend have just broken up?  It doesn't really matter who did the "breaking up." Breaking up just plain stinks.  You know if you still care about him, your pain clouds your thinking - you feel dazed and confused. Sorry guys, not trying to exclude you - all the same emotions and feelings apply to you too.  No matter if you're a guy or a girl, losing your lover destroys you inside!   How can you get your lover back?   Check out this cool and helpful video: (Don't mind the scruffy looking gentleman - lol - T. Dub really cares about helping you)
  [caption id="attachment_304" align="aligncenter" width="334"] How to Get Your Lover Back[/caption]   So, how can you put aside all those terrible feelings constantly eating at you?  Is it possible to corral your emotions to give yourself a chance to make the tough decision:
  1. Are you still in love?
  2. Do you want to get your lover back?
  3. If you do, how DO you get your girlfriend or boyfriend back?
 
  The biggest problem reconnecting with a boyfriend lies with the path you take and your frame of mind.  Reacting with pure emotion will surely destroy any chance of reconciling.
  Emotions like anger, hurt, jealousy, & pain will never help you win his heart back.
  Somehow you must figure out a way to work through your feelings before you can attempt to get back together.
  OK - we must admit - it's much harder said than done!
  But once you are able to separate your hurt feelings from moving forward, your next step involves creating a plan. If you go off half cocked trying this and that with no plan, guess what, you're probably going to lose him forever.
  Go For It Now!   [caption id="attachment_305" align="alignleft" width="300"] Discover the Magic of Making Up[/caption] Let's take Sue & Paul for example: Sue is in total shock over her breakup with her boyfriend Paul.
  Sue figures by calling and texting him throughout the day (& sometimes the night too!), Paul will realize how much she still loves him & how much he loves her.
  In Sue's mind, Paul will run back into her arms.
  Do you really think Paul will jump back into the relationship? Of course not, we know Sue is sadly mistaken.  Her plan will almost certainly drive Paul away.
  Result: Their relationship is permanently over.
  Together let's begin to examine the steps you can take to start the healing process and get back with each other - with loving feelings stronger than ever!  Obviously, forming and carrying out your plan can be very difficult in your emotional state.
  *What Path Can Sue Take to Get Back With Her Ex?
  [caption id="attachment_306" align="alignright" width="300"] A Happy Couple Back Together Again[/caption] *Is Paul the Love of her Life?
  *Can Sue & Paul Rekindle Their Love?
 
  You know it would be an absolute shame if Paul & Sue were meant for each other, and secretly they knew it.  But they didn't know how to mend their relationship & make it even stronger.   What we need to know is how can anyone - like you or me - can reunite after a break up. 
  You need a plan, a program to guide you through the pitfalls.  To give you the tools & confidence so you are able to begin your relationship fresh and fall back in love stronger than ever.
  Don't have any regrets!  If you are still in love - you owe it to yourself to try. Life's too short.  Everyone deserves to be happy with that someone special.  Including you!   [caption id="attachment_307" align="aligncenter" width="300"] Get Your Ex Back Now[/caption]
 
 
 
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Dude Is Charming: Second Time Around - Getting Your Ex Back

Sometimes relationship really won't work out between the couples. If the relationship won't work it can lead to break-ups. These break-ups can cause emotionally distress especially if you really like the person.   http://bit.ly/xWadgb

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