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Online trolling against women is linked to domestic violence and abuse, experts have warned, and should not be dismissed as "obnoxious but harmless" behaviour. ...
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It can  destroy many people lives .  Online trolling can  become a  useful tool for a manipulative person that  does not  like you and wants to destroy you  or your  marriage.  If you have any  enemies  that  have the potential  to even interfere in your  marriage  they can use and change  your online activiity to  appear to be  something that is is not  and  convince your spouse  to  divorce you , abuse you, and begin a hate campaing against you that leads into  Domestic Abuse .  This makes your enemy very happy.     Any person  can be trooling your every  word  online  and print it  and  make it look like you were talking about them  or some body   you care about  in a negative way.  That person may  make it look so convincing that  he creates an album full of  your private ,  innocent  interactions with friends on line.  For example:   You may post an agreement to something  a friend  shared that day.   Any kind like  a post about  karma  or  any simple  quote even from Einstein . They can make it look like you  were posting  something negative about them, when you were absolutely not.  This  story  is  true and  the trolling lead into a divorce and a family fued that  affectet many peoples lives.   This story  involves   a  blended family.  The step mother  in this family was  unaware of  her husband's  adult sons  true  dislike for the step mother probably from the begininnig of the marriage.   Unknowingly She was always   a target  for her  spouses  adult men /children  that only looked at her like a threat to their inheritance.     A number of people told the step mom that  her step sons were trying to find a way to get rid  of her because  she was a threat to their inheritance.   They did not like her sons.

 

Many years  past and she never took it  too personally becasue she felt that  the step sons would not have liked anyone who married their  dad.    So she worked very hard to create the Brady Bunch.   She read everybook on step parenting and  turned the homestead into  what looked like a Norman Rockwell   picture  for   everone.  She eventually  became  a grandmother  from her  son and one of the step sons .  She had 4  beautiful  grandchildren that she  helped to raise and love with all her heart.  Well that  is the back ground of  the  blended family story.   Like in many  blended families there were many  ups and  downs .  The step mother was never aware of the true hatred  aimed at her from the step sons until  last year.  One of the sons  began  trollling and printing  his own little  collection of very innocent  comments  made by the step mom  to her friends that  were not relative to  any of their family members.    The step mother was never shown  the  creative  album   to see  and  defend  herself   that the step son  used to convince  his dad  to divorce the step mom.  At first the step mom was in shock  by the way her husband began treating her and becoming more  abusive.  She had no idea what  devious plan was being hatched  to  get rid of her .  The step son  had  his father so  engaged in his story that  the two of them  began to daily  terrorize her in one way or another.  She  thought  her husband  really lost his mind.  He began drinking at noon very day, calling her  horrible names  for no reason, destroying things she loved around the house and insulting her infront of her friends and grand choldren. He was throwing things at her and calling her children names and kicking doors in,  preventing her access to a vehivle even though he had  20  vehichles.  He unplugged the garage door opener so if she did try to use a vehichle she could not get the  door open. He disconnected the home phone line and disabled the securitu system.  He  had he believing he was going to kill her.     This just increased  and the terror was  doubled when it was both the son and the dad  doing everything they could to force her to leave or to die of a heart attack, like the rest of her family past away.  There was no mercy, no talking to the husband  he was just so convinced he had to get rid of her to make his sons happy.   She was assaulted physically and is  still being treated for  the injury the husband  inflicted on her.  So   even though that was never a perfect marriage  at all  and the step mother  tried her best to keep the family together  at least for the grandchildrens sake  it  was over.   The  Step son won.   At  close to 40 he is so happy to have his daddy back all to himself   The only problem now is that  the marriage  ending also means  equitable distribution .  That  has created  increased anger from the step dad and the step son.  They felt the step  mom after 16 years deserved nothingandthey just wanted her to go away and that did not happen.  She is fighting for her rights.    What ever  that stepson put together from his trolling   me  on the  internet had to be  so twisted  it really did  ruin the marriage and  4 grandchildrens lives.  But the Step son is quite happy these days.   The step mother  is  relieved  this is  almost over and will never be anyones victim again.  

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With no oversight, police can ignore domestic violence laws

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By Gina Barton and John Diedrich of the Milwaukee Wisconsin Journal Sentinel. Nov. 3, 2012. Police chiefs say Milwaukee County DA not pressing domestic violence cases. Brookfield Spa Shooting Special Section: ...
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It took me seven years to divorce my emotionally abusive husband - Full Woman - monitor.co.ug

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“Before I was married, I truly believed love conquered all.

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Cyberbullying is linked to domestic violence | Business | Mail ...

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Online trolling against women is linked to domestic violence and abuse, experts in the UK have warned, and should not be dismissed as “obnoxious but harmless” behaviour. ...
Deborah A Bujdos's insight:

The UK is correct  when they say  Cyber bullying  is  linked to  domestic violence and should not be dismissed as obnoxious  behavior.  It is still  harassment of a victim  that  is dealing with  domestic  abuse.   Social media  is so wonderful for  educating  people in many areas  and connecting with  friends and love  ones .   There are dark side to it also  many we already know about like sexual preditors  looking for children and   even human trafficing which is the darkest side.  Then we have people using it as  weopons  against  their enimeis,  a way to vent the hate they have for  one another.  That is not  a mature way  to handle things at all .   The only  dark  cyber experience that  I can discuss  is  what  I experienced during the pastlast year and currently  to me personally.   while divorcing  a husband of 16 years and being  victim of domestic abuse and bullying.  I had a PFA  ON THE  ABUSER  but  I had  no assistance from the police to enforce it when violations  occurred. In my  case  Cyber bullying  was  used  by my abusers  group of  bullies assisting him in  stalking and harrassing me  for him.  There were  posts on FACEBOOK made by the abusers son  insulting me and  calling me vulgar names and  accusing me  ofthings that were not true.   Then on a site that is a local forum to discuss  problems in the township.  A place where citizens can  alert other citizens and  report  if there has  been any problems.  I made a post about the lack of protection  I experienced after being  harrassed and verbally assaulted in a wal mart  by two of my abusers  bullies.  The police  were called and one of  the  perpetrators was found guilty.  So that was my post online .  Shortly after publishing my comment  my abuser and his  followers realized the post was there and began  posting horrible thing anonomously  about me.   on it  that forum.  They were not  discussing issue  I posted . It became a forum for  a few of them to  make terrible comments about me.  It became so bad that I finally reorted every comment  to the abuse  department of  that  news media that  created the original  Forum for  concrned citizens .  I told them  who and why these people were making these  nasty comments about me and said the forum was being used to victimize a domestic abuse victim. It gave them a platform to  continue abusing me  emotionally for the abuser.    I  sent  copies of each comment   back to the  site management and most of the posts were removed.  If that should happen to anyone  you know you can do something about it to fight back when your being slandered and degraded and lied about .  I am learning  how to take my power back  from these bullies .

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With no oversight, police can ignore domestic violence laws

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By Gina Barton and John Diedrich of the Milwaukee Wisconsin Journal Sentinel. Nov. 3, 2012. Police chiefs say Milwaukee County DA not pressing domestic violence cases. Brookfield Spa Shooting Special Section: ...
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Sad but true

 

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Destroying Your Boundaries | Narcissist, Sociopath, and Psychopath Abuse Recovery

Destroying Your Boundaries | Narcissist, Sociopath, and Psychopath Abuse Recovery | enforce protection from abuse orders | Scoop.it
Like sandpaper, the psychopath will wear away at your self-esteem through a calculated mean-and-sweet cycle. Slowly, your standards will fall so low that you become grateful for the utterly mediocre.

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expose  the psychopath  and tell your story  to everyone .  Make it known to as many people  as you can.  Free yourself and  let them pay for what they have done to you. 

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