The problem is that only a narcissist can come in and sweep a woman off her feet.
Think about that phrase, “He swept me off my feet.”
That means he left you ungrounded, unbalanced. That stinks.
Only a narcissist, someone who must be seen as amazing, can enter and shower someone with that much adoration and attention.
You see, the truth is, most people, when interested in someone, will be curious, will show up and want to get to know someone at a reasonable pace, they won’t glom on, declare their love right away and lay on the gifts and adoration.