Lesson #5: Own Up To Your .000001673928 Percent
When you're talking to yourself or your friends, your relationship dynamics seem really clear. Because...every single piece of evidence points to him being the one to blame for the house being a wreck and your being overtired. At night, you do the cooking and cleaning and the homework and bath for the kids. He eats! That's what he does! He eats! And then he reads a book to the kids and turns off the light. In other words (which are really the same thoughts), you are the giver. He is the taker. He is the problem.
Except that is never exactly the truth...
Read more: http://www.oprah.com/relationships/The-Relationship-Lessons-We-Learn-Too-Late/2#ixzz2BhoDXL2r