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What Your Mama Never Told You. Tips for Concious Connection.
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When A Woman Commits

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I’m actually embarrassed that I used to speak the way I did to some of the couples I knew who were consciously working at having committed relationships. I was of a young and foolish mind and approach, presuming that my life education had given me such extensive knowledge of relationship that I could have fathomed what it was like for committed couples to be co-creating something so complex and delicate together.

My training was to not disappear into someone, to not lose myself. I was prone to getting watery and ineffective in the face of intoxicvating romance: my oceanic, devoted Pisces nature made me a goner when it came to love. I would fall in, lose myself, put the tryst before everyone and everything else, lose sight of my path and purpose, and leak away all the power I had been amassing for full potentiation into turned-on womanhood....

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What Women Really Want from Men.

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"Oh, ladies, are we really that complicated? Unfortunately, yes. (Sorry, gentlemen.)

 

Okay, I’m not actually sorry, but I do feel a ti-ny bit bad, so I’ve decided to help you out.

 

Here, spelled out—quite literally—is what women want.

 

We want to be wooed. 

 

We want romance and we want chivalry. We want you to want to open a door for us because you respect us and, well, like us.

 

Because we like ourselves, so we demand to be treated well.

Yet, here’s the catch…

 

We want to have our cake and eat it too."

 

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7 Truths Women Have To Learn The Hard Way

7 Truths Women Have To Learn The Hard Way | SEX | DATING | RELATIONSHIPS | Scoop.it
The author of the unforgettable story collection The News from Spain explains the tough realities we all need to figure out. By Joan Wickersham

 

1. You Have A Good Girl And A Bad Girl Inside You, And The Good Girl Is Usually The One Who Gets You Into Trouble


The good girl waits to be called on. She takes no for an answer. She doesn’t want to disturb anyone. She carries maturity and good citizenship to the point of paralysis. She holds herself in check, tells herself, "Don’t you dare." The bad girl dares. The bad girl shocks me, and I have a lot to thank her for. She said, "I love you," and she said it first. She said, "I quit this job." She said, "I’ve been working on this book for eight years and it stinks and I’m throwing out the manuscript and starting over." When I look back at the things I regret -- the jobs I wanted and didn’t go after, the editors with whom I never got in touch, the misunderstandings I didn’t try to clear up, the interesting people I never talked to -- I can see how often the good girl was in charge: cautious and correct, and wrong.

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Women Love Bad Boys: The Psychology Behind Why Women Go For The Assh*les

Women Love Bad Boys: The Psychology Behind Why Women Go For The Assh*les | SEX | DATING | RELATIONSHIPS | Scoop.it

"Maybe Tucker Max isn’t your specific type, but let’s face it — girls (on some level) are into bad boys. We love the chase, the challenge and the excitement that that they offer. Tucker Max is the epitome of an assh*le; he embraces his personality and leverages it to get girls. But why are we wired to be attracted to the bad boys, and more importantly, do nice guys really always finish last?"


Apparently, bad boys “are a potent mix of confidence, indifference, mystery, intrigue and most importantly, excitement.” Dr. Kanan Khatau Chikhal, a clinical and health psychologist, believes that this attraction resonates with a certain kind of woman.

PAT NOVAK's insight:

"Bad Boys " typically are more comfortable in their masculine energy.. Which also makes them very appealing..

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19 Telltale Signs A Guy Is Really Into You

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Your friends get a good vibe off of him, and never have to give you that speech about how "we just don't want to see you get hurt again."

 

"He looks for excuses to talk to you, to see you, to be closer to you, and to get to know more about you. And even though you know he intentionally forgot something at your apartment just so he could go back and get it, you play along because you don’t want to ruin the game."

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The Four Things That Kill a Relationship Stone Dead

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A recipe for divorce: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.

For over 40 years the psychologist Professor John Gottman has been analysing relationships, both good and bad.

 

He's followed couples across decades in many psychological studies to see what kinds of behaviours predict whether they would stay together in the long-term or were soon destined for the divorce courts

 

.Amongst the factors he identified, four have stood out, time and time again. When Gottman sees a couple's communication overrun with these, the chances are they will divorce in an average of around six years from their marriage.

 

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Ted Thomas's curator insight, July 29, 2013 6:15 AM

Relationship killers...

Modern Love Guide's curator insight, July 29, 2013 3:21 PM

This is so good and so true.

Garth Sanginiti's curator insight, August 1, 2013 10:01 PM

Good advice from Professor John Gottman to help strengthen relationships.