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Power of the Subconscious Mind seen through the Power of Emotions!

 

 

Power of the Subconscious Mind seen through the Power of Emotions!

 

This is working 100% of the time inside of our brains to create the world around us...

 

Believe it or not, but the Power of Thoughts are important, but for the REAL quantum physics magic to occur you need to put the power of emotions connected to that specific thought of focus to create the attraction into your life...

 

Your Subconscious Mind Power Techniques Programming Explained is essential in order to create the life that you want...

 

The Power of thoughts really influence our daily lives and Gregg Braden has plenty of examples how this is true...

 

Our Minds are the most powerful forces in this universe, but when we connect it with our hearts, the power is beyond measure...

 

 

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⌚ Seven NLP Meta-Programs for Understanding People : Sources of Insight

⌚ Seven NLP Meta-Programs for Understanding People : Sources of Insight | The Ethos of Neuro-Linguistic-Programming | Scoop.it


In Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), meta-programs are the keys to the way you process information. They’re basically how you form your internal representations and direct your behavior.


In Unlimited Power : The New Science Of Personal Achievement, Tony Robbins writes about meta-programs that people use to sort and make sense of the world.



Key Take Aways

Here are my key take aways:


  • Use meta-programs to understand yourself and others...
  • Remember that people use a blend of meta-programs
  • Change your own limiting meta-programs.

Ultimately,... knowing how people work, helps bridge gaps. It can also lead you to self-understanding and the better you know yourself, the better you can drive yourself...



⌚ 7 Meta-ProgramsMeta Program #1 – Toward or Away

Robbins writes:

“All human behavior revolves around the urge gain pleasure or avoid pain. You pull away from a lighted match in order to avoid the pain of burning your hand. You sit and watch a beautiful sunset because you get pleasure from the glorious celestial show as day glides into night.”



 Meta-Program #2 – External or Internal Frame of Reference

Robbins writes:

“Ask someone else how he know when he’s done a good job. For some people, the proof comes from the outside. The boss pats you on the back and says your work was great. You get a raise. You win a big award. Your work is noticed and applauded by your peers. When you get that sort of external approval, you know your work is good. That’s an external frame of reference.  For others, the proof comes from inside. They ‘just know inside’ when they’ve done well.”



 Meta-Program #3 – Sorting By Self or Sorting by Others

Robbins writes:

“Some people look at human interactions primarily in terms of what’s in it for them personally, some in terms of what they can do for themselves or others. Of course, people don’t always fall into one extreme or the other. If you sort only by self, you become a self-absorbed egotist. If you sort only by others, you become a martyr.”



⌚ Meta-Program #4 – Matcher or Mismatcher

Robbins writes:

“This meta-program determines how you sort information to learn, understand, and the like. Some people respond to the world by finding sameness. They look at things and see what they have in common. They’re matchers. Other people are mismatchers — difference people. There are two kinds of them. One type looks at the world and sees how things are different … The other kind of mismatcher sees differences with exceptions. He’s like a matcher who finds sameness with exceptions in reverse – he sees the differences first, and then he’ll add the things they have in common.”



 Meta-Program #5 – Convincer Strategy

Robbins writes:

“The convincer strategy has two parts. To figure out what consistently convinces someone, you must first find out what sensory building blocks he needs to become convinced, and then you must discover how often he has to receive these stimuli before becoming convinced.”



 Meta-Program #6 – Possibility vs. Necessity

Robbins writes:

“Ask someone why he went to work for his present company or why he bought  his current car or house. Some people are motivated primarily by necessity, rather than by what they want. They do something because they must. They’re not pulled to take action by what is possible. They’re not looking for infinite varieties of experience. They go through life taking what comes and what is available. When they need a new job or a new house or a new car or even a new spouse, they go out and accept what is available.  Others are motivated to look for possibilities. They’re motivated less by what they have to do than by what they want to do. They seek options, experiences, choices, paths.”



 Meta-Program #7 – Independent, Cooperative and Proximity Working Styles

Robbins writes:

“Everyone has his own strategy for work. Some people are not happy unless they’re independent. They have great difficulty working closely with other people and can’t work well under a great deal of supervision. They have to run their own show. Others function best as a part of a group. We call their strategy a cooperative one. They want to share responsibility for any task they take on. Still others have a proximity strategy, which is somewhere in between. They prefer to work with other people while maintaining a sole responsibility for a task. They’re in charge but not alone."




➳ Additional Considerations

Robbins provides the following suggestions:

  • All NLP metaprograms are context-and stress-related
  • There are two ways to change NLP meta-programs. One is from a significant emotional event.   The other way you can change is by consciously deciding to do so.
  • Use NLP meta-programs on two levels. The first is a tool to calibrate and guide your communication with others. The second is a tool for personal change.
  • Constantly gauge and calibrate the people around you. Take note of specific patterns they have for perceiving their world and begin to analyze if others have similar patterns.
  • Through this approach you can develop a whole set of distinctions about people that can empower you in knowing how to communicate effectively with all types of people.
  • Become a student of possibility. NLP Meta-programs give you the tools to make crucial distinctions in deciding how to deal with people. You are not limited to the meta-programs discussed here.




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5 NLP Techniques That Will Transform Your Life

5 NLP Techniques That Will Transform Your Life | The Ethos of Neuro-Linguistic-Programming | Scoop.it


Here you are some of the most impactful techniques that will help you change behavior, get better results and attract more positive experiences.


1. Dissociation...

It’s easy to react to something negatively and then become stressed or upset about it. For example, if your partner drives you crazy and you get angry in response.



2. Content Reframe...

This NLP technique works great when you are in a situation which makes you feel powerless, angry or when something negative happens to you. It changes the meaning of the situation making you think about it in a different, more empowering way. In other words, it allows you to put the content of the situation in a different frame.



3. Self-anchoring...

Self-anchoring is mainly used in NLP to elicit some kind of emotional response to something that you do or say. For example, it is possible for the person to start unconsciously smiling when you touch his/her shoulder.



4. Rapport...

Rapport is a very important and quite easy skill to master that enables you to get along with any kind of person.


There are many ways to create rapport with people. You can follow the breathing patterns of a person, you can mirror his/her body language (not too obviously, of course) or you can use similar words that the other person uses.



5. Belief Change...

There are three types of limiting beliefs:

Beliefs about cause

Beliefs about meaning

Beliefs about identity



If done properly, these five NLP techniques can change many aspects of your life.


If some technique doesn’t seem to produce the desired effect, keep repeating the exercise until the wanted effect is reached.


These NLP techniques are very effective and work on everyone. It’s definitely worth taking a few minutes to try at least a couple of them.


When you see the results, you will be more than happy to spend some time to apply them to all the areas of your life that need improvement.



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Body language, the power is in the palm of your hands!!


Allan Pease is an Honorary Professor of Psychology at ULIM International University, who researches and studies selling relationships and human communication. He teaches simple, field-tested skills and techniques that get results.


And he delivers his message in a humorous way, which motivates people to want to use. Allan's own experience and record in the field of selling, motivating and training is equalled by few others.


He is a born achiever, starting his career at the age of 10. Globally known as "Mr Body Language", his programs are used by businesses and governments to teach powerful relationship skills.


His messages are relevant to any area of life that involves winning people over and getting them to like you, co-operate, follow you or say 'yes'...

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Stop Procrastinating in 5 Minutes

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Now create an imaginary future memory of being in a situation where, in the past, you’ve tended to procrastinate. And bring that flowing energy into it, and watch yourself as you just deal with it and complete it and move on to the next thing.


And when you’re really in that situation, you can access your anchor for positive energy and enthusiasm that you’ve created, and enjoy the flow as it carries you through and out the other side.


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Dealing with the Anger Habit

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Back in the 1700's there was a British physician called John Hunter. He had a very bad temper and, not surprisingly, suffered from angina pectoris.


He used to say: "My life is at the mercy of any scoundrel who chooses to put me in a passion". This was prophetic.


At a meeting of the board of St. Georges Hospital he became involved in a heated argument, walked out, and dropped dead...



What anger does to us...What is anger?...


Right... or Happy?...How does it occur?...



What to do about anger?

(1) Keep it in - or let it out?...

(2) Dissolving anger...

(3) A trigger a week...



It's not all 'bad'

Do remember that not all anger is unhealthy.


Sometimes anger is quite appropriate - it can be our final defence against allowing other people to manipulate or dominate us.


And it can motivate us to take action against injustice. Anger is healthy when it is not on-going but is usefully channelled into appropriate action.



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NLP vs Hypnosis

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 “Isn’t NLP just hypnosis?”

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How to Negotiate so Everyone Wins, Especially You! Must Watch


CISCDR Fifth Anniversary Distinguished Visitor Lecture presented by the Center for the Interdisciplinary Study of Conflict and Dispute Resolution
Case Western Reserve University School of LawSpeaker:
Ronald M. Shapiro
Shapiro Negotiations Institute

Summary:
Negotiations expert, attorney, sports agent, and award-winning author Ron Shapiro will share the key principles of effective negotiations — for getting what you want while building stronger relationships.


His method includes focusing on client needs through listening and the 3P's: Prepare-Probe-Propose, and is the subject of his book, The Power of Nice: How to Negotiate So Everyone Wins -- Especially You!.



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The 15 Biggest Body Language Blunders

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Until we get to know someone, our brain relies on snap judgements to try to categorize the person, predict what they will do, and anticipate how we should react.


You may have heard that you only have a few seconds to make a first impression, but the truth is, your brain has made up its mind (so to speak) about a person within milliseconds of meeting them.


One way we can “hack” this split-second judgement is to be aware of our body language, especially in important situations.


Whether you’re applying for a job, asking for a raise, or meeting with a new client, tweaking or just being mindful of our body language can influence the other person’s perception of us and the outcome of the situation...


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» How to Deal with a Cantankerous Grump

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Dealing day in and day out with a cantankerous grump?

You’re not going to heal him from the outside in, but there are some simple, counter-intuitive things you can do to manage the situation and even inspire change.


Here are three ideas you may have never considered.

1. Your mindset is the most important thing.

Most people, women in particular, are intimidated by a cantankerous grump.


Don’t be intimidated unless he is known to be violent (in that case, we are dealing with a violent individual, not a mere grump – totally different scenario which we are not discussing in this post).


Others’ grumpiness is physically harmless to you.


You don’t have to be afraid. You don’t have to run from the grumpiness.


You can stare it in the face and speak up. This is the attitude to have!



2. Preempt the grumpiness.

When you have something to say that Mr. Grumpy won’t like to hear, say it like this:

I have something to tell you and I know that you are going to get grumpy….


When you suggest that he will be grumpy, he is likely to resist your suggestion and NOT get grumpy.


Preempting the grumpiness is a great little trick that often works, although grumps catch onto it after a while.


It can be a temporary fix or something to use every once in a while.


3. Apologize to the grump...

Mr. Grumpy, I owe you an apology. Over all this time I have given you the wrong idea about who I am and what goes on inside me.


I have led you to believe that I can live with your grumpiness because I tolerate it...



Putting up with a grump feeds your own attachments to rejection and deprivation of your needs.


This may be very familiar to you, but is not necessary. Is it time to let go?



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Conflict Resolution


Watch this video to understand how the Conflict Resolution Model works.


Consider that conflict at all levels is the manifestation of poor leadership and by definition, Conflict Resolution is the leader's responsibility.



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You have to resolve conflict to get  the best out of people, where conflict is defined as difference of opinion.  Key skill!

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▶ Alter your perspective >> Fun mind game

 

When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.

 

With this mind game, find new ways to look at your problems with a new perspective. Use NLP and new solutions will appear like magic!

This fun interactive exercise will help you see just how easy it is to change your perspective and find happiness!

 

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▶ Anthony Robbins — Unlimited Power NLP {audiobook}


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▶ Dale Carnegie How to Win Friends & Influence People >> Oldies ... Goldies <<


“Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.”
― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People 



How to Win Friends and Influence People is one of the first best-selling self-help books ever published. Written by Dale Carnegie and first published in 1936, it has sold 15 million copies world-wide.


Major sections and pointsTwelve Things This Book Will Do For You

This section was included in the original 1936 edition as a single page list, which preceded the main content of the book, showing a prospective reader what to expect from it.
The 1981 edition omits points 6 to 8 and 11.  
  1. Get you out of a mental rut, give you new thoughts, new visions, new ambitions.
  2. Enable you to make friends quickly and easily.
  3. Increase your popularity.
  4. Help you to win people to your way of thinking.
  5. Increase your influence, your prestige, your ability to get things done.
  6. Enable you to win new clients, new customers.
  7. Increase your earning power.
  8. Make you a better salesman, a better executive.
  9. Help you to handle complaints, avoid arguments, keep your human contacts smooth and pleasant.
  10. Make you a better speaker, a more entertaining conversationalist.
  11. Make the principles of psychology easy for you to apply in your daily contacts.
  12. Help you to arouse enthusiasm among your associates.


The book has six major sections. The core principles of each section are quoted below.



Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

  1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
  2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
  3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.



Six Ways to Make People Like You

  1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
  2. Smile.
  3. Remember that a person's name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
  4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
  5. Talk in terms of the other person's interest.
  6. Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.



Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking

  1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
  2. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say "You're Wrong."
  3. If you're wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
  4. Begin in a friendly way.
  5. Start with questions to which the other person will answer yes.
  6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
  7. Let the other person feel the idea is his or hers.
  8. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
  9. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
  10. Appeal to the nobler motives.
  11. Dramatize your ideas.
  12. Throw down a challenge.



Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment

  1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
  2. Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
  3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
  4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
  5. Let the other person save face.
  6. Praise every improvement.
  7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
  8. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
  9. Make the other person happy about doing what you suggest.



Letters That Produced Miraculous Results

This section was included in the original 1936 edition but omitted from the revised 1981 edition.
In this chapter, the shortest in the book, Carnegie analyzes two letters and describes how to appeal to someone's vanity with the term "do me a favor" as opposed to directly asking for something which does not offer the same feeling of importance to the recipient of the request.

Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier

This section was included in the original 1936 edition but omitted from the revised 1981 edition.
  1. Don't nag.
  2. Don't try to make your partner over.
  3. Don't criticize.
  4. Give honest appreciation.
  5. Pay little attentions.
  6. Be courteous.
  7. Read a good book on the sexual side of marriage.



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"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, ‘I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you.”

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“Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you.”
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The Map is Not the Territory

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A founding principle of NLP, the distinction between a map and a territory made its debut in Alfred Korzybski's 1933 seminal work, Science and Sanity: An Introduction to Non-Aristotelian Systems and General Semantics.


The idea seems simple enough -- who, after all, would confuse a roadmap with a road, or a menu with a meal? 



Our brains will use whatever maps we give them.


"We know the world by a process of constantly transforming it into ourselves." -- Alan Watts


We can improve our maps. And by doing so, we can improve the quality of our lives.



Therapeutic Value

"The Map is Not The Territory," has tremendous therapeutic value. It allows us to accept our thoughts and feelings for what they are -- just thoughts, just feelings.


It encourages us to take our thoughts with a grain of salt.


We can become curious about them, we can evaluate them, and we can change them if other thoughts or feelings would be more useful, healthy and life affirming.


We can improve our maps. And by doing so, we can improve the quality of our lives, our experiences, our relationships, our health and our success.



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Transform Your Life With NLP

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Transform Your Life with NLP gives you the motivation and the tools you need to change any, or every, aspect of your life. Use the NLP mindset to program your subconscious, and you will be able to improve anything from sporting success to work performance.


You can also use NLP to boost your self-esteem and to find resilience at times of stress or pressure.


You don't need to be an expert or even to have any experience of NLP, and a tailored 2-week program at the end of the book will ensure you reach all your goals and help you to set new ones.


Featuring self-assessment exercises, write-in review areas and other learning materials that really work, this book has the power to change your life.



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I love NLP when it's used for self-help, dislike when it is used for manipulation but that's just me. :)

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How To Be An Alpha Male | Ten Traits of the Modern Day Alpha


Back in 2006, Alpha started his image consulting company. He chose the name 'alpha m.' because it was less in-your-face macho & obvious than Alpha Male and had a much better ring than King of the Jungle!
The comments in the YouTube point out that Aaron Marino of alpha m. is not an alpha male: height, high pitched voice, earrings, and the list goes on and one. He 'gets it' because historically an alpha male is powerful in their presence and personality. In the modern day, however, all of us can be alpha men.

Alpha is constantly thinking what it means to be a man in today's world. The men that will get ahead in today's world are Renaissance men- the leaders. They are good at a lot of things and strive for self improvement. These are the characteristics:

Ten Personality Traits of the Modern Day Alpha Male:
1. Pride in yourself and everything you do
2. Self esteem - respecting yourself and not putting yourself in compromising situations
3. Loyalty - people, obligations, and to your word
4. Compassion - thinking about the world outside of yourself and taking action
5. Respect - you don't have to agree with people all the time but you can respect their opinion as well as respect them as a person and human
6. Motivation - intrinsically and extrinsically motivated to move forward
7. Passion - something burning deep inside
8. Honesty - live up to your word
9. Courage - the ability to do something that scares you
10. Confidence - doesn't mean you are good or proficient at everything but that's okay


We don't have to big, tall, strong, or domineering. We DO have to be in touch with who we are: strive to be better, be Renaissance men, live with passion, purpose, and confidence. Unlock the alpha male in yourself by embracing these ten principles.


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How to Transform Your Tears Into Laughter

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Every experience in life has a purpose, a reason and season to it. There is a time for sadness, and a time for joy. 


When you truly can let your tears flow, and allow the deepest sadness within you to rise to the surface, it becomes a powerful source of healing that brings profound realizations to your life. 


By allowing your deepest possible sadness to be felt and experienced, that energy opens a humility inside you and a vulnerability that touches the core of your being. 


It pulls you down to bottom of your emotional ocean where you find the easiest sweetest surrender to the very source of who you are.


  "At the height of laughter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities." ~ Jean Houston 



"Your body cannot heal without play. Your mind cannot heal without laughter. Your soul cannot heal without joy." ~ Catherine Fenwick 



"A sense of humor is needed armor. Joy in one's heart and some laughter on one's lips is a sign that the person down deep has a pretty good grasp of life." ~Hugh Sidey 



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How to beat the workplace bully

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Bullies are not just a bad memory from schooldays, they are an unwelcome presence in many of today's workplaces.


Although they may not help themselves to your dinner money, trip you up in the corridor and administer Chinese burns, they intimidate and threaten in more subtle ways.


Here you are some hints and tips on how to tackle such challenge.



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En passant: Taking Laughter Seriously

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There has never been a time in Western history that humor and laughter were not topics of intellectual debate and interest.


That is still true.


John Morreall's broad-ranging concerns in Taking Laughter Seriously make it a book that will interest those in the social and behavioral sciences, philosophy, English literature and criticism, drama, and folklore.


Morreall has done an admirable job of analyzing earlier theories. His discussions of humor as aesthetic experience, social lubricant, and valuable human feature are original and provocative. -- Jeffrey H.

Goldstein, Professor of Psychology, Temple University



The attempt at providing a theoretical framework which will include all forms of laughter and humor and will accommodate the main types of theories previously advanced, is the principal thrust and success of Taking Laughter Seriously.


The topic is important and is one which philosophers have tended to ignore, as have most disciplines. It needs periodic philosophical reflection.


The book is clearly written, well organized, and well illustrated. Morreall's style, sometimes almost conversational, fits the subject matter.


One would hope that a book on laughter and humor, even a scholarly one, would not be so ponderous and officious that it evidenced little relationship to its announced topic.


Taking Laughter Seriously avoids that contradiction and strikes a good balance." -- Conrad Hyers, Professor of Religion, Gustavus Adolphus College, author of The Comic Vision and the Christian Faith."The book's qualities are, first, its scope and persuasiveness.


The whole book demonstrates the seriousness of humor and its central place in human life. I know of no comparable work. The second quality of Taking Laughter Seriously is its clarity and its engaging style.


It knocks out previous theories of laughter (including Freud's) and replaces them with a comprehensive one of its own. It is bloody funny. It will be enjoyed by philosophers, psychologists, teachers, and anyone who can read." -- G. J. Barker-Benfield, Associate Professor of History, State University of New York at Albany...



On the Philosophy of Humor:

http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/humor/


A Story about the Brother and Sister of Laughter

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Memes and "temes"

Memes and "temes" | The Ethos of Neuro-Linguistic-Programming | Scoop.it


Susan Blackmore studies memes: ideas that replicate themselves from brain to brain like a virus. She makes a bold new argument: Humanity has spawned a new kind of meme, the teme, which spreads itself via technology -- and invents ways to keep itself alive...



Bonus One

- Steve Paulson: So, everything in culture that we copy is a meme?

- Blackmore: Yes. Now, you may go, "Oh, well, that means everything!" But actually, not everything in your mind, not everything you do is mimetic. You have in your own mind lots of ideas that you make up yourself and are never copied, you didn't get them from anybody else, and they never get passed on...


Listen the to interview via http://www.ttbook.org/listen/55701


Or


▶ Read it via http://bit.ly/1C6zPf1




More on the Third Replicator ✍(◔◡◔):

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Bonus Two

◕ ‿ ◕ The Meme Machine by Susan Blackmore  

❁ Synopsis >>  http://bit.ly/1DGB2eZ


❁ Reviews/Summary:

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http://bit.ly/1MRoN0A

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What is 'memetics'? 

 Meme: an information pattern, held in an individual's memory, which is capable of being copied to another individual's memory. 


 Memetics: the theoretical and empirical science that studies the replication, spread and evolution of memes.

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First coined by Richard Dawkins in The Selfish Gene, a meme is any idea, behavior, or skill that can be transferred from one person to another by imitation: stories, fashions, inventions, recipes, songs, ways of plowing a field or throwing a baseball or making a sculpture.


The meme is also one of the most important--and controversial--concepts to emerge since The Origin of the Species appeared nearly 150 years ago.

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◣ In passing...

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♠_♦ Gordon Bennett!  An eye for the tremes?! !o◡O! 

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But see:

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More on Susan Blackmore:

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http://bit.ly/1xmQnPT

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“If we take memetics seriously then the 'me' that could do the choosing is itself a memetic construct: a fluid and ever-changing group of memes installed in a complicated meme machine.”

― Susan J. Blackmore, The Meme Machine


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Contemplate and Move On

Contemplate and Move On | The Ethos of Neuro-Linguistic-Programming | Scoop.it


"The only good luck many great men ever had was being  born with the ability and determination to overcome  bad luck."

                                                                      __Channing Pollock



“Free your expectation of the future from the grip of past failure.”

                                                                     __John Seymour



"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new."
                                                                     __Albert Einstein

 


"The person who gets the farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore."
                                                                    __Dale Carnegie


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Differences between NLP's Classic Code and New Code by NLP co-founder Dr John Grinder

 

An interview with John Grinder October '08.

 

John discusses the difference between NLP's Classic Code, and New Code.

 

 

More on John Grinder:

http://bit.ly/1bl9QPc

 

 

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▶ Speed Attraction: NLP TRAINING For Attraction Romance and Relationships


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▶ NLP Language Patterns Use Your Vocal Power to Create Credibility


Would you like to build credibility faster with people?


Project confidence with your voice. Using NLP techniques for persuasion and rapport building you will have more sales now and in the future.


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