Does this sound familiar? You really want someone to make a change in their life or leadership and you see the need for change so clearly, it’s killing you that they are not changing a thing. You take their change on as your personal mission and encourage them to change, tell them what they need to do, and practically beg them to make a shift yet for all of your pleas, they are not moving a muscle. What’s going on? Why is this person totally immune to your rational arguments, emotional plays and aggressive threats?