Lady parts are, as always, the only part of a woman that really matters.
Milena Marinkovic of Serbia had a very specific dying wish: to make sure her husband didn't look at any other women, even when she was dead.
I think her surviving hubby is admiring another pair of labia as I write while her grave stone is probably being humped by some horny passerby. The moral of this story is that one can not control the living from beyond the grave, nor should one aspire to. The memory of you is supposed to live on in people's hearts, not in your engraved privates.
Out of sight, out of mind, Melina.