A new study asserts that interpersonal dynamics deserve our attention, not only because friendships make us feel good, but because they actually play a large role in our health, well-being and even survival.
Studies have shown how we are more likely to remember negative events than good ones, which may be a factor in the media’s focus on bad news. But good news does more than simply cheer us up; new research shows how it also affects behaviour and benefits society
Giving, taking, and matching are three fundamental styles of social interaction, but the lines between them aren’t hard and fast. You might find that you shift from one reciprocity style to another as you travel across different work roles and relationships.
GenMe's focus on the needs of the individual is not necessarily self-absorbed or isolationist: instead, it's a way of moving through the world beholden to few social rules and with the unshakable belief that you're important. We speak the language of the self as our native tongue. So much of the "common sense" advice that's given these days includes some variation on "self:"
Worried about how to act in a social situation? "Just be yourself."
What's the good thing about your alcoholism/drug addiction/murder conviction? "I learned a lot about myself."
Concerned about your performance? "Believe in yourself." (Often followed by "and anything is possible.")
Should you buy the new pair of shoes or get the nose ring? "Yes, express yourself."
Why should you leave the unfulfilling relationship/quit the boring job/tell off your mother-in-law? "You have to respect yourself."
Trying to get rid of a bad habit? "Be honest with yourself."
Confused about the best time to date or get married? "You have to love yourself before you can love someone else."
Should you express your opinion? "Yes, stand up for yourself."
Move over, Descartes: The debate over whether the mind and body are separate is officially finished. During the past 50 years, scientists have discovered not only that the mind and body are connected, but that they are intimately and inextricably intertwined.
Over the winter I moved from New York City to Portland, Ore. The reasons for my move were purely logical. New York was expensive and stressful. Portland, I reasoned, would offer me the space and time to do my work. Upon arriving, I rented a house and happily went out...