I was brave recently, and asked a friend if they had a relationship with God. That person said they picture Jesus sitting next to them in their car. That's good. I actually like to think of Him driving my car.
I heard Bishop TD Jakes say once,
"Wonder how much peace we had in our own lives if we stopped setting our own goals and said, it's doing exactly what it's suppsed to do. If it's working, it's working because it's supposed to. If it's not working, it's not supposed to. It's doing exactly what it's supposed to do."
Wether it's a relationship, a job, or a dream. If it's working, it's because it's suppsed to. If it's not working it's not supposed to.
Your time is too precious to spend on something that is not your passion, and is not your purpose.