Here is something that a qualified sex therapist from Boston and elsewhere knows, which the general public doesn’t: There are many situations in which erectile instability is caused by something transitory and situational. Contrary to what big pharma would like you to believe, it is possible to get over E.D. without the use of drugs, and in some cases, this is a much better choice.
Because of male socialization, men do not really tell other men the truth about their sexual experiences. (If you want to read an oldie-but-goodie great book on male sexual socialization, read Bernie Zilbergeld’s book, “The New Male Sexuality.”)