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About sex work and help for sex workers, which includes escorts, professional service providers, erotica authors, phone sex operators, adult bloggers, etc. http://www.sex-kitten.net/blog/
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Ignore Me, I'll Pay You; Blackmail Me, I'll Pay You Again (About Financial Domination & Humiliation Fetishes)

Ignore Me, I'll Pay You; Blackmail Me, I'll Pay You Again (About Financial Domination & Humiliation Fetishes) | Sex Work | Scoop.it
"Whip me, beat me, make me write bad checks." It's a classic humorous line about BDSM (though the origins are murky), but that last bit would seem to hit at the heart of the plethora of financial g...
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I Before E, Except After BDSM: Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination

I Before E, Except After BDSM: Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination | Sex Work | Scoop.it

This is especially true when it comes to relationships ~ including those of professional variety, i.e. those involving the paid services of sex workers. After all, other than the golden rules of respect and consent, there are not as many hard and fast “rules” or “facts” when it comes to the ins and outs of human interaction as there are to the more physical ins and outs of screwing. With relationships, it’s even more like “I before E, except after C”. …And with D/s, it can get even weirder. (That’s a play on the spelling rule, not a judgement!) Be that as it may, I’ll try to clarify some of the rules of BDSM engagements based on the articles I recently discovered.

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For $350, Tata Will Slap You Until You're Sexy

For $350, Tata Will Slap You Until You're Sexy | Sex Work | Scoop.it
Tata told me to relax my jaw and close my eyes. She examined my face, found the spot she was looking for, and began smacking my left cheek with the back of her hand.
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Make Sure the Enema Hose is Clamped (And other words of advice from a sex worker)

Make Sure the Enema Hose is Clamped (And other words of advice from a sex worker) | Sex Work | Scoop.it

When people hear the phrase, "Sex Work," they often picture either a prostitute or a dominatrix. What are some other forms of sex work that people may not think of so quickly?

Cam girls, phone sex workers, fetish models, escorts, strippers, porn actors, massage parlor managers … I could go on :) It’s important to remember that “sex worker” is a self- ascribed term. A sex shoppe owner, for example, may identify as a sex worker, as may someone who runs the front office of an escort agency -- or, they may not.

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An interview with Sera Miles.

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5 Truths About Sexual Fetishes (A Dominatrix's Perspective)

5 Truths About Sexual Fetishes (A Dominatrix's Perspective) | Sex Work | Scoop.it

The stereotype goes that when it comes to sex, men are as simple-minded as dogs. As someone with a few years' experience as a dominatrix and phone sex operator, I'm here to tell you that could not possibly be more wrong.

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Overall a good article, tho I wish the word "fetish" would be used properly (these are fantasies, not necessarily true fetishes).

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Harlotry: I’m Going Independent As A Sex Worker And I’m Pretty Terrified

Harlotry: I’m Going Independent As A Sex Worker And I’m Pretty Terrified | Sex Work | Scoop.it
After having a madame in a fetish house, I am once again striking out on my own, leaving my brothel and becoming independent.
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Talking Dirty with Tonya Jone Miller

Talking Dirty with Tonya Jone Miller | Sex Work | Scoop.it
I was flipping through BUST magazine last month when I came across a story about a Portland-based phone sex operator who makes all sorts of cash talking about food fetishes.
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Emily Snow; Model, Photographer and Free Speaker About Sex (NSFW)

Emily Snow; Model, Photographer and Free Speaker About Sex (NSFW) | Sex Work | Scoop.it

She started out as a phone sex operator, and her work as a model was simply to a way to have more content for her phone sex site. Soon, she loved having her picture taking more than the product she was actually promoting and she decided to pursue that more fully. After she quit the phone sex gig, she found herself with a wealth of knowledge about human sexuality and nothing to do with it, so she partnered with Los Angeles-based painter Jaime Roxx to produces Nocturnal Addictions discussing sex and Houston nightlife.

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Paying Hundreds of Dollars for Used Panties? Secrets of the Underwear Fetishist

Paying Hundreds of Dollars for Used Panties? Secrets of the Underwear Fetishist | Sex Work | Scoop.it
Is it the scent, the material, the taboo, or the trophy aspect that used panties buyers find so enticing?

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Dominatrix Photography - Fetishes, Sexual Affairs & Sadomasochism | Aperture | Reserve Channel

Actor Eddie Steeples interviews distinguished photographer, Marla Rutherford, about the niche dominatrix photography scene. Rutherford explains her devotion ...

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Review: Don we now our Gay Apparel, by Shaun Cole

Review: Don we now our Gay Apparel, by Shaun Cole | Sex Work | Scoop.it

If there’s a predominant theme in Cole’s book on the history of gay fashion in the twentieth century, it’s that gay fashion is always imperfectly mimetic, a tangled mix of “passing, minstrelization and capitulation”, to quote sociologist Martin P. Levine (pg. 3)

 

Even before the trial of Oscar Wilde, there was the trial and acquittal of Ernest Boulton (aka “Fanny”) and Frederick Payne (aka “Stella”) in 1871, two homosexual men who were also crossdressers and sex workers (Pg. 15-16). Ever since, those three categories have been conflated in the public mind (sometimes with justification). Gay men have overlapped with and been in fashion dialectic with other marginal groups (sex workers, soldiers, sailors, aristocrats, police, punks, bikers, artists, etc) for a variety of reasons: camouflage, recognition both covert and overt, political statements, defensive intimidation, generational differentiation, heightening male beauty, conspicuous consumption, personal fetishes or parody.


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