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Ignore Me, I'll Pay You; Blackmail Me, I'll Pay You Again (About Financial Domination & Humiliation Fetishes)

Ignore Me, I'll Pay You; Blackmail Me, I'll Pay You Again (About Financial Domination & Humiliation Fetishes) | Sex Work | Scoop.it
"Whip me, beat me, make me write bad checks." It's a classic humorous line about BDSM (though the origins are murky), but that last bit would seem to hit at the heart of the plethora of financial g...
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5 Truths About Sexual Fetishes (A Dominatrix's Perspective)

5 Truths About Sexual Fetishes (A Dominatrix's Perspective) | Sex Work | Scoop.it

The stereotype goes that when it comes to sex, men are as simple-minded as dogs. As someone with a few years' experience as a dominatrix and phone sex operator, I'm here to tell you that could not possibly be more wrong.

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Overall a good article, tho I wish the word "fetish" would be used properly (these are fantasies, not necessarily true fetishes).

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Commandments of FinDom*

Commandments of FinDom* | Sex Work | Scoop.it

I am helping My friend get into FinDom, and I realized that there were not comprehensive tutorials on how to avoid very common FinDom problems, all in one place. Without further ado:

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Another Phone Sex FemDom on the "What It Is That I Do" Meme

Another Phone Sex FemDom on the "What It Is That I Do" Meme | Sex Work | Scoop.it
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“ Because I think there are some common misconceptions about what I do, I thought i’d do my part to explain.
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Dominatrix: What It Is That I Do

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“ Since it’s easy to criticize, but it’s hard to do, I did a do. Here is the do on What It Is That I Do. YMMV, of course.
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Contemporary Courtesan Kitty Stryker on being a feminist, dominatrix and professional sex worker

Contemporary Courtesan Kitty Stryker on being a feminist, dominatrix and professional sex worker | Sex Work | Scoop.it
The Californian dominatrix reveals more about her fascinating (and very kinky) career...
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Why do some men need a dominatrix?

Why do some men need a dominatrix? | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Fmr. dominatrix: 'My clients would pay me to enact role play scenes that they spent a lot of time fantasizing about'

 

Melissa Febos became a dominatrix at age 21 and worked in what she calls an upscale New York dungeon for four years.

She is the author of "Whip Smart," which chronicles her years as domineering mistress. She explained to HLN’s Dr. Drew what guys wanted from her.

“My clients would pay me to enact role play scenes that they spent a lot of time fantasizing about,” she said. “Most of these scenes involved me playing sort of an iconic female role -- either mommy, babysitter, cheerleader or the essential sort of dominatrix character with the thigh-high boots and the corset. But there was no sex and no nudity. It was really sort of a private acting job.”

She added, “Most [of my clients] were upper-middle class New York city residents -- a lot of stock brokers, probably because it is an expensive hobby to have, but they really sort of ran the whole spectrum. There were professors and doctors and police officers and just about everybody you can think of.”


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I guess neither of the hosts have heard of the new studies about BDSM
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Putting a much-needed smile into S&M

Putting a much-needed smile into S&M | Sex Work | Scoop.it

IT IS a first, as I have not before been taught the finer points of dominatrix phone sex. My teacher is sassy Jassy Mackenzie, whose book, Folly, is selling up a storm.

 

We are sitting in the sunny garden of a coffee shop with little children whooping around us and Mackenzie, who has the perfect voice — clear, sharp, dictatorial — is trying to convince me I’d be perfect for the job.

 

"You revolting little worm, get down on your knees, lick my shoes and then clean the house, it’s filthy." She’s describing a typical dominatrix chat. She has had male callers vacuuming their homes at 3am in response to her commands.

 

"You have to humiliate them, shout at them, and slap your hands together to count down the blows. It’s easy because it is they who have made the call, wanting to submit."

 

The male callers tend to be bosses who crave a balance in life, she says, and submitting helps them to attain that. It is fascinating that a man with workplace authority wants to be dominated to such a degree — "They have to have the power in order to give it away," she says.

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Stupidity, Optimism, and Little-Head Thinking – ErosBlog: The Sex Blog

All that is by way of speculation as to what makes this paragraph necessary to include in a guide for newbies who want to hire a dominatrix:

 

No, you cheap fuck, she probably doesn’t want you as her personal slave.

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Brilliant ~ both the intro and the info referenced.

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Truth in Deviance: My Career as a Craigslist Dominatrix

Truth in Deviance: My Career as a Craigslist Dominatrix | Sex Work | Scoop.it

“Becca” responded to a Craiglslist ad for a “fit, hot, athletic woman" ... which led to a career as a dominatrix.

 

...Cash cannot fully explain why I donned leather boots, skimpy bras, layers of lipstick and eye-shadow, or the occasional slutty nurse outfit to embody the vulnerably intimate depths of men’s fantasies. Yes, it paid the bills. Yes, it helped offset the costs of my future goals — including graduate school, a future family, and world travel. But as much as this work excited, elucidated, and satisfied the desires of my clients while being a boon to my bank account, it also fulfilled many of my own psychological needs.

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Being Arrested Made Me Believe So Much More In My Sex Work

Being Arrested Made Me Believe So Much More In My Sex Work | Sex Work | Scoop.it
This week, Cate gets arrested and thinks about life while waiting behind bars: it also renews her beliefs that sex work should be safe and legal for all.
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The Thrilling, Messy Lives of New York's Freelance Dominatrices

The Thrilling, Messy Lives of New York's Freelance Dominatrices | Sex Work | Scoop.it
'None of my clients know who I am completely. There's always an air of fantasy and mystery.'
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Enter the world of Mizz Barbie Bitch, and BDSM in Toronto

Enter the world of Mizz Barbie Bitch, and BDSM in Toronto | Sex Work | Scoop.it

The metal kitchen chairs with soaring backs did seem an odd decorating choice, particularly with bright pink boas draped over top.

But it was the medical equipment in the kitchen that really tipped one off that this was no ordinary condo. There, beneath a large pane of glass, was a stretcher doubling as a dining table.

“It’s actually a post-mortem table, for autopsies,” a woman later explained in a Yonge Street coffee shop. “And those chairs, as soon as you walk in, they’re there to tell you you’re just a little man in a big place.”

Mizz Barbie, we’ll call her (she has asked that her real name not be used for security reasons), has worked as a dominatrix for 20 years, tying up, whipping, humiliating and fulfilling strange desires.

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Real Life Stories: Diary of a Mistress Part XXXVI

Real Life Stories: Diary of a Mistress Part XXXVI | Sex Work | Scoop.it
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Real Life Stories: Diary of a Mistress Part XXXVI
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I know, from experience, that guys like Hottie will have been cheating since the wedding, and beyond.

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