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Rentboy.com Gives Back To Escorts After Hurricane Sandy Shuts Down Operations

Rentboy.com Gives Back To Escorts After Hurricane Sandy Shuts Down Operations | Sex Work | Scoop.it

We’ve told you about some of the individuals, organizations and businesses affected by the unsolicited arrival of Hurricane Sandy last week. Among them was Rentboy.com (NSFW), one of the world’s biggest male-escort sites and producer of the annual Hustlaball here in New York.


“Our I.T. department always planned on a backup in the case of a natural disaster—they just never planned for 38 feet of seawater in the basement of our data center,” CEO Jeffrey Davids said. “There’s been chaos dealing with restoring power and a lot of extra stress for everyone. It was a crazy week for us, but we feel very fortunate. There are people without homes and there are lost lives.”


The power is back on, but that was a week that escorts around the world couldn’t make any do-re-mi. Well, Rentboy understands and is reaching out to help:


Rentboy.com understands that escorts around the world lost business during last week’s service disruption. Our IT and sales department are working full time this week to add back the lost time. Monthly ads will automatically receive 8 days added to their purchased ad time. Travel ads will automatically receive store credit for the days their individual ads were down.


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Makers And Stars Of Porn Being Turned Away By Some Banks

Makers And Stars Of Porn Being Turned Away By Some Banks | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Porn star Chanel Preston says that when she attempted to make a deposit into her new account, she learned it had been closed because of “compliance issues.”

 

She says that the manager who had helped her set up the account explained that the bank was worried about the live cam shows on her website and had decided to close the business account.

 

...Meanwhile, a former softcore porn producer in California is suing JPMorgan Chase after the bank refused to underwrite a loan for “moral reasons.”

 

The plaintiff — who actually sold his company several years ago — says it was the bank that had originally approached him about refinancing the loan, but after the refi got bogged down in months of delays, he eventually learned the truth.

 

In the suit, filed in Los Angeles Superior Court, the plaintiff states that Chase VP “finally informed plaintiff during a telephone conversation that plaintiff’s loan application was refused due to ‘moral reasons,’ because of JPMorgan’s disapproval of plaintiff’s former source of income and occupation as an owner of a television production company that produced television programs that dealt with the subject of human sexuality.”

 

He says the bank told him that Chase would be taking a “reputational risk” by going through with the loan.

 

“JPMorgan purports to be so ashamed of nudity and human sexuality that it cannot process a refinance of a home loan of plaintiff, secured by plaintiff’s house, because plaintiff’s source of income six years ago included production of television programs that contained nudity and human sexuality,” reads the complaint.

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Tasha Tells All...on the Love Affair Between Comedians and the Adult Industry

Tasha Tells All...on the Love Affair Between Comedians and the Adult Industry | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Comics are candid; they are raw and do not seem to filter themselves before speaking. They can think much quicker than other people, and come back with witty remarks that actually make sense--and society at large never like people who are TOO truth-telling.

 

Which leads me to something that I've discovered during my still-young career. For some reason, most comics I meet have an "adult actress" friend, and vice versa, and there's an uncanny parallel between the two industries. The obvious answer is that we're both professions that get naked for the public, but there's something deeper than that. Maybe it's wanting to hang out with people who are able to laugh at one's self, or find humor in being laughed at. Maybe it's a feeling of being a bit of a social outcast; maybe it's just the respective confidence that has developed over the years.

 

Or maybe it's that both of our professions always must suffer the browbeating of others.

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Google Glass, Porn: Will Wearable Technology Create A Sticky Situation For The Adult Industry?

Google Glass, Porn: Will Wearable Technology Create A Sticky Situation For The Adult Industry? | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Porn on Google Glass? Porn MADE with Google Glass? Until now, previews of Google's new eyepiece have revolved around ziplines, roller coasters and skydives, but the upcoming release of Glass (TBA) could find the product in places the sun doesn't shine. Talks of utilizing the cutting-edge gadget in the pornographic industry have circulated, as both porn directors and actors have poked around this idea.

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The New Flickr: What it Means for Flickr Pro Users

The New Flickr: What it Means for Flickr Pro Users | Sex Work | Scoop.it
Flickr made some big changes to its service; what do they mean for Flickr Pro users?

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Never paid for the service; even less likely to do so now.

Laura Brown's curator insight, May 22, 3:47 AM

 I've been a Flickr Pro user for years. I started paying so I could have unlimited uploads and storage, or at least enough for what I wanted. I also liked having the tag "Pro" on my name on the site. It was a small thing but something to know I was paying for what I was using and supporting the site. I would notice other "pro" users and tend to think of them as more serious and trust worthy when it came to sharing locations for urbex photos. This is one thing which Flickr is removing now that Pro users are being hustled off. I do feel we are being hustled. All the years I paid for my account, what was that for if they could have offered it all for free as they have done now? I'm not impressed. I have stood by and supported Flickr to friends and others who thought it was ruined by Yahoo or full of absent users. In my opinion, having my money back for a few months out of all the years I have paid is nothing. Pro users stood behind Flickr, supported the site and now we are nobody. Instead of paying for Flickr I could have spent that money on a new camera! I'm pretty disappointed.

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What a lot of people think cam girls do

What a lot of people think cam girls do | Sex Work | Scoop.it
 

What a lot of people think cam girls do:

get nakedmake money

What a lot of us actually do/ have to focus on/ have thrusted upon us:

photographyvideographysocial mediacammingdancingstrippingfetish workeditinggraphic designburlesquefake therapistpublicistSEO specialistpaperworkIT techphone sex operatorcommunicationsselling physical and virtual productsmakeupstylingDJfreelance or contract modelingprofessional insult taker

What else am I missing, ladies? Plenty I’m sure.


Try to remember that a lot of these women are also students, artists, mothers, family providers, live-in care assistants for family members, and are practically accountants who often have to balance 1-15 sources of income. Most cam girls have to supplement their income by working on multiple sites, running their own sites, and selling clips on every platform. 


The women in the adult industry are practically modern Wonder-women. They will never stop impressing and amazing me. And this is the most fascinating career I’ve ever been a part of. 

 

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1, 000 Lingerie and Boudoir Poses for Models and Photographers

1, 000 Lingerie and Boudoir Poses for Models and Photographers: D. D. Smith: Amazon.com: Kindle Store
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Currently available to borrow for free if you are an Amazon Prime member.

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Sex work should be legalised

Sex work should be legalised | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Sex work is just work. There is nothing so outrageous about the body being used as a means to generate income that the state must intervene to prevent us from doing so.

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Erotic Awards 2013: Shining a light on disabled sex

Erotic Awards 2013: Shining a light on disabled sex | Sex Work | Scoop.it
The sexual needs of disabled people are thrust into the spotlight at the 2013 Erotic Awards

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Thou Shalt Not Search Adult Tumblr Blogs

Thou Shalt Not Search Adult Tumblr Blogs | Sex Work | Scoop.it
Thou Shalt Not Search Adult Tumblr Blogs: If you’ve got an adult blog on Tumblr, there’s a good chance Tumblr uses robots.txt to exclude the search engines from indexing it. Did you know that?

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Veddy interesting... However, this does not prevent people from finding smutty adult blogs on Tumblr ~ and quite quickly, I might add.

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congrats: more search
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Victoria's Secret's Kylie Bisutti gave up her career for her faith on how modeling made her feel like a 'sex worker'

Victoria's Secret's Kylie Bisutti gave up her career for her faith on how modeling made her feel like a 'sex worker' | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Former Victoria's Secret star Kylie Bisutti, who gave up modeling last February because it clashed with her Christian faith, has told how the fashion industry made her feel like a 'sex worker'.


The five-foot-ten brunette, 23, who was based in New York but now lives in the quiet town of Big Fork, Montana, with her husband, Mike, said on the Today show: 'It definitely felt like I was being made to sell sex. I just really started to feel exploited and sexualized.'

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On one hand, we should be shocked that lingerie modeling ~ especially for VS ~ would be "selling sex'?! *snort*

 

Second of all, no one "made her" do this.

 

Third of all, does she have the right to say how a sex worker feels? ...It's pretty clear she means that in the derogatory sense.

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The Pornocalypse Comes For Us All – ErosBlog: The Sex Blog

The Pornocalypse Comes For Us All: Recently I’ve been seeing lots of tweets and headlines suggesting that Amazon is going through another round of cracking down on porn ebooks, generally burying them deeper and making them harder to f...

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See also: http://www.marketingwhore.net/2012/03/06/legal-censorship-the-marketing-whore-is-back/

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Sex probe: Revealing the bare facts of industry

Sex probe: Revealing the bare facts of industry | Sex Work | Scoop.it

The local sex industry has almost doubled in the past 20 years and much of it occurs between the sheets in motel rooms across the New England North West.

 

Sex workers steer clear of hustling work off the street because in order for them to make money in country areas, they must be discreet.

 

The claims might startle some but it’s just some of the cold, hard evidence that has landed in front of UNE expert Professor John Scott, who’s been researching the industry for almost 20 years.

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Dear John Letters: An Anthology of Stories from Hookers, Customers, and Assorted Sex Workers

Dear John Letters: An Anthology of Stories from Hookers, Customers, and Assorted Sex Workers | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Sex workers have become much more visible in politics and culture over the last couple of decades. Thanks to a surge of activism starting in the 1990s, memoirs and essays about sex work have become their own subgenre. Even in liberal circles, a lot of stigma still remains, but publicly admitting that you're an escort, stripper, or porn star is a lot more likely to be accepted as a valid choice.

 

But while the workers have been able to edge ever so slightly into the daylight, the clients have remained securely and silently in the shadows. With their new anthology, Johns, Marks, Tricks, and Chicken Hawks: Professionals and Clients Writing About Each Other,co-editors David Henry Sterry and R.J. Martin, Jr. are trying to shift the conversation to include both sides of the transaction. Sterry, and Martin will be reading at The Booksmith on Haight Street tonight along with several contributors. Sterry, who worked as a rent boy when he was 17, talked to us about sex, money, and how to be a good client.

 

Click to read the entire interview.

 


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Brent Corrigan vs. Sean Paul Lockhart

Brent Corrigan vs. Sean Paul Lockhart | Sex Work | Scoop.it

The adult film industry has always been replete with drama and taboo. Brent Corrigan's role in that continuing story is always evolving. Like the Corrigan character, actor Sean Paul Lockhart started in the industry when he was only 17 years old and has never looked back.

 

ChicagoPride.com first interviewed Corrigan in 2008. At that time he was producing and directing his own adult films. Today, Sean Paul Lockhart is involved in completely different work.

The actor, writer, producer and former adult star talks to ChicagoPride.com about his past, his future and his return to Chicago Memorial Day Weekend for the Grabby Awards.

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Oakland Prostitutes Being Forced To Rob Clients, Police Sting Reveals

Oakland Prostitutes Being Forced To Rob Clients, Police Sting Reveals | Sex Work | Scoop.it

A recent prostitution sting in Oakland has turned up a surprising new trend, some prostitutes are being forced to rob their clients when they don't meet their quota.

 

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According to police, if a prostitute has not made enough money, her pimp will force her to target her clients, taking the crime to a whole other level.

 

“And that level is robbery,” said Oakland Police spokesperson Johnna Watson. “They’ll take their wallet, money out of the ATM, and also their car.”

There is also a new twist. Pimps have been discovered selling whatever is stolen to the next john.

“Looking to capitalize from every angle possible,” Watson said.

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While this sort of prostitution is often less a choice than a circusmstance, this aspect is worthy of noting.

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Prostitute to be sentenced May 31 | SeacoastOnline.com

Admitted prostitute Alexis Wright will be headed to jail following her May 31 sentencing.

 

...Wright pleaded guilty one week to the day after her co-conspirator Mark Strong was sentenced to jail for being her pimp.

 

Strong, 57, of Thomaston, was found guilty in March of 13 counts related to promotion of prostitution. He was sentenced to 20 days in York County Jail, which was reduced by five days for good behavior. He was released April 5.

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Whatdaya bet she gets a much heavier sentence ~ and has to serve it all too

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Dear caring partners struggling with accepting your partners job...

Dear caring partners struggling with accepting your partners job... | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Partner, you don’t need to feel threatened by my job. Don’t listen to society, listen to me.

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Not sexy, but it’s all in a day’s work

Not sexy, but it’s all in a day’s work | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Decriminalisation, it is claimed, would also guarantee better working conditions, and allow sex workers to report brothel owners involved in such crimes as trafficking or exploiting children as sex workers. Furthermore, the commission argued, sex workers would also have to declare their earnings and pay tax - which would give a fresh impetus to the perennial complaint of being screwed by SARS.

 

Anyway, there was such an egalitarian wholesomeness to all this - and who’s not for giving everyone some of that human dignity? - that reporters were duly dispatched to street corners to speak to whoever they found there on the game. The story they came back with was not so much that the activities of, let’s say, Lebo (“not her real name”) or Lola (“not his real name”) should be decriminalised, but rather that we must do all we can to keep the police away from these people.

 

The Sex Workers Education and Advocacy Task Force - which scares the horses under the very unappealing acronym of Sweat - recently completed a national survey of sex workers and found that 76 percent of them claim to have been robbed, raped and unlawfully arrested by the police. Given that there are more than 150 000 sex workers in the country, that’s a pretty large chunk of alleged rape and robbery.

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$40,000-a-Night Escorts: Secrets of the Cannes Call Girls

$40,000-a-Night Escorts: Secrets of the Cannes Call Girls | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Every year, women ranging from what the French call putes de luxes (high-priced call girls), who charge an average of $4,000 a night, to local streetwalkers, who normally get little more than $50 or $75 an hour turning tricks in nearby Nice, converge on Cannes for what one Parisian hooker calls "the biggest payday of the year." The influx is hard not to notice. "Hookers stand out in Cannes. They're the ones who are well-dressed and not smoking," tweeted Roger Ebert in 2010.

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American Courtesans: Our Unsung Healers

American Courtesans: Our Unsung Healers | Sex Work | Scoop.it

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, central to my work is my mission to provide education and awareness of the value of sex work and the need for equal rights and protection for our sex workers to my professional and surrounding communities. Although there is a great need for educational material relevant to practitioners in my field, resources are rare, so I am eager to introduce a new film, American Courtesans, an invaluable resource for therapists, clients, sex workers, as well as the general public.

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LOWE: Language key in humanizing sex workers

LOWE: Language key in humanizing sex workers | Sex Work | Scoop.it

The term “sex work,” she argues, moves away from the realms of legality and morality to the world of economics. It steers the discussion away from whether sex work is right or wrong, and away from the law, toward the real way most sex workers see their trade — as work. “Good managers, bad managers, well paid, not well paid — it’s a job.”

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And that's why it's a lot more than just being "pc" to use the term ~ it's accurate.

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Gender group calls for decriminalisation of sex work

Gender group calls for decriminalisation of sex work | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Sex workers in Johannesburg are demanding fair rights to operate within their industry. The Commission for Gender Equality says it has embarked on an investigation into how the law affects sex work.

 

It has discovered that the current laws which criminalise sex work in South Africa have failed sex workers and perpetuate abuse of their Constitutional rights. The Commission was briefing the media in Johannesburg on Thursday.

 

The Commission’s Janine Hicks says that the correct approach is to regard sex work as ordinary work, and allow the industry to be governed by existing labour and business laws intended to prevent unsafe, exploitative and unfair business practices.

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Working The Cocktail Party

Working The Cocktail Party | Sex Work | Scoop.it

The World Wide Web is very much like a cocktail party: You aren't sure who you'll meet, & drinking is optional.

In the realm of the Adult Webmaster, this is especially true. For like most parties, there are always the concerns of under-age attendees, party crashers (hackers), and those dreaded conservative neighbors who may call the cops.

Like any good host (or guest), we must be wise about our guest list ~ we should never tease minors or lure them into our festivities. We ought to do our best to not only be on the look out for the uninvited, but have plans in place in the event we do need to toss someone out as well as repair the damage done by such unwelcome guests. And we should do our best to make sure our party doesn't disturb our neighbors, or otherwise incite them into causing us legal problems. And if one angry person does make the call, we should have all our necessary papers at the ready (2257 etc), so that the interruption doesn't last long.

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A piece a wrote a few years ago ~ still holds up.

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Apologise over sex work comments, women demand

Apologise over sex work comments, women demand | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Women in Japan's island chain of Okinawa have demanded an apology from an outspoken Japanese politician who suggested US troops there make use of its thriving sex industry.

 

The comments from Osaka Mayor Toru Hashimoto came after he said "comfort women" – who most historians agree were pressed into sexual slavery for the Japanese imperial army during World War II – served a "necessary" role by keeping soldiers in line.

 

"Regardless of whether it is war-time or not, a view to use women as a tool [to let out sexual frustration] is intolerable," said Masako Ishimine, a senior member of a local women's body, quoted by the Okinawa Times, the day after Mr Hashimoto spoke.

 

"Does he mean women should simply take it because men work hard?"

 

The outrage came on the day Okinawa marked the 41st anniversary of its reversion to Japan at the end of post-WWII US occupation and after comments on history that provoked ire in South Korea and China.

 

Up to 200,000 women from Korea, China, the Philippines and elsewhere were forcibly drafted into brothels catering to the Japanese military in territories occupied by Japan during WWII, according to many mainstream historians.

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History; note, however, distinctions between sex work and slavery.

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I am a male escort

I am a male escort | Sex Work | Scoop.it

Jamie Close opens the door in St Kilda, Melbourne, as if he were greeting a client, giving me a warm handshake and a kiss on the cheek. He's friendly, not sleazy, and is smartly dressed in a suit.

 

He's not wearing a tie; two necklaces hang around his neck instead, adorned with crystals, "to ward off negative energy".

 

It makes sense. The 42-year-old former stripper and ex-member of male erotic dance troupe the Chippendales has long been interested in holistic therapies and esoteric practices.

 

His latest project, as a male escort, is for a business with the slogan: 'Intimate male companions for the woman who knows what she wants'.

"Listening" and "communicating" are essential elements of the service, says Jamie, which is less wham-bam-thankyou ma'am and more dinner, dancing, talking - the whole package.

 

"It's not just, like, come to room 216 and let's get it on," he says.

But ladies who'd rather get straight down to business will find their needs met too. Jamie's practised tantric sex for years and runs workshops on how to achieve the full body orgasm.


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