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Catching Women. A Guide For Trappers and Hunters.

All this is about sex as warfare or as a hunt.  The beautiful women are the prey, the object is to get them in bed, and the advice the PUAs give is all about that.  The scoring is based on how many one-night stands a man can get, preferably with women who weren't that much into him in the first place.  And the basic trick is male dominance.  You pretend to be a dominant alpha male, and then you get all the pu**y that rightly belongs to you.

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Sonya - Vampire Mistress Of The Night Plush Sex Doll

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Sonya - Vampire Mistress Of The Night

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How to stay obsessed and enamored: The best way to save a marriage is sex

How to stay obsessed and enamored: The best way to save a marriage is sex | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Some octogenarians recently told the Pope that sex is the key to marital success--and research shows they're right

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10 more strange facts about penises

10 more strange facts about penises | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
From a fish with genitals on its head to four-headed privates, we bring you more odd trivia about the male member
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Coercion Dressed Up As Compassion for L.A.'s Teen 'Sex Trafficking' Victims

Coercion Dressed Up As Compassion for L.A.'s Teen 'Sex Trafficking' Victims | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Teenagers may not have the full capacity to consent or bear as full a responsibility for their actions as adults do, but they're not mentally incapacitated. The government shouldn't be able to lock up a 15-year-old girl 'til her 18th birthday to stop her from having sex in a way of which it disapproves. 

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Exclusive Kaylee Pond Interview Part Four: What Women Want To Know About Being A CamGirl

Exclusive Kaylee Pond Interview Part Four: What Women Want To Know About Being A CamGirl | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
We've been talking with the lovely 26 year-old webcam model, and self proclaimed geek, Kaylee Pond. In this last part (yes, I know; it's sad to see it end!), Kaylee answers some more personal quest...

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When men who abstain from pre-marital sex get married - The Week Magazine

When men who abstain from pre-marital sex get married - The Week Magazine | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Young men who take abstinence pledges have trouble adjusting to sexual norms when they become husbands

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No Shame Movement's curator insight, October 5, 1:23 PM

Study finds that men struggle to adjust viewing sex as something healthy and not taboo after marriage.

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Uterus Cross Stitch Pattern

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Uterus cross stitch pattern. Download in PDF format. Stitch Count: 105 x 74 Design Area: 4.5 by 6 on 14 ct. Made with DMC floss. The finished product
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If Buying Condoms Was Like Buying Birth Control

Safe sex isn’t always easy. Share on Facebook: http://on.fb.me/1vFVmq6 Like BuzzFeedVideo on Facebook: http://on.fb.me/18yCF0b Share on Twitter: http://bit.l...
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No Shame Movement's curator insight, October 10, 2:08 PM

great role reversal 

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When Porn Stars Have To Teach You About Body Image

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Porn stars are often criticized for, well, just about everything. In this case, we're talking about how they (like nearly every mainstream model, actress, or celebrity) are blamed for perpetuating ...

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Sean Pusol's curator insight, October 5, 9:43 PM

interesting read 

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Sex On The Rag

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A decade ago, Vixen wrote about coitus during menses (yes, Sex Kitten is that old ~ older even!). Since then, sex during menstruation has moved from a taboo to a fetish. Not for everyone. And certa...

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Activists Use 'Classic Porn' Imagery To Promote Consent At Colleges

Activists Use 'Classic Porn' Imagery To Promote Consent At Colleges | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Women's advocacy group UltraViolet launched a new campaign Thursday to promote consent before sex among college students and to keep pressure on college rankings publisher Princeton Review to survey students about sexual assault.

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Calling All Superheroes - We're Looking for 2014's Top Sex Bloggers

Calling All Superheroes - We're Looking for 2014's Top Sex Bloggers | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

It’s that time of year again and we’re on the hunt for the Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2014. We’re looking for writers with charisma and courage, writers who are on a mission to promote sex positivity and save the world from bad sex. Because when you think about it, that job is pretty damned heroic. After all, the vast majority of people would choose rushing into a burning building over uttering words like "orgasm" or "clitoris" or "anal sex" in a public setting.


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Leave a comment to nominate &/or state why you are voting for a specific sex blog/sex blogger.


And this is where you can vote for @Gracie Passette's blog: http://www.kinkly.com/top-sex-bloggers/sex-kitten

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Leave a comment to nominate &/or state why you are voting for a specific sex blog/sex blogger.


And this is where you can vote for my blog: http://www.kinkly.com/top-sex-bloggers/sex-kitten

likeyoumeanit's curator insight, September 30, 1:39 AM

Okay well that's good

Gracie Passette's curator insight, October 1, 2:08 PM

Leave a comment to nominate &/or state why you are voting for a specific sex blog/sex blogger.


And this is where you can vote for my blog: http://www.kinkly.com/top-sex-bloggers/sex-kitten


(If you do vote for my blog, thank you!)

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Spanking Is Great for Sex. Which is why it’s grotesque for parenting.

Spanking Is Great for Sex. Which is why it’s grotesque for parenting. | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Once again, I’ve been accused of pedophilia. Well, to be technical, my sexual identity was called “somewhat pedophilic.” But we’re talking about one of the most loathsome things a person can be accused of, so why split hairs? I’m also regularly told that my sexuality is “repulsive,” “damaged,” and “abusive.”...
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Beware Popular Lies About Sex

Beware Popular Lies About Sex | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Not “myths,” but lies.


Katie Couric recently embarrassed herself during an interview with psychologist David Ley about pornography. When he calmly described to her what a range of scientific studies say about porn’s effects on behavior and our brain—that it’s minimal—Couric raised her voice, rolled her eyes, and said she was sick of science. “Can’t we use some common sense here?”


Actually, no. Common sense clearly tells us that the Earth is flat. Want some science with that, Ma’am?


In contrast, Couric believed the fact-less, emotional rantings of her other guest—because they fit Couric’s existing beliefs. Like all morning TV hosts, her job is to say bland things, not to think. At least Couric didn’t lie; she’s just uninterested in facts.


Some people do lie. Here are some popular lies about sex that are easy to believe because they make “common sense”—and because some people are making a lot of money and maintaining large support bases promoting these lies.


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The Gender Book

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The Gender Book
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“ A gender 101 resource for anyone and everyone!
Fully illustrated and colorful resource that’s a 09-page hardback book, and available online for free or your love donation....
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What does it mean to live in a society where 1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted and we have a book that eroticizes violence against women and thus renders that violence invisible?

What does it mean to live in a society where 1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted and we have a book that eroticizes violence against women and thus renders that violence invisible? | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
“ BBC Radio 5 Live: 50 Shades of Controversy
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Faking Orgasms?

Faking Orgasms? | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Faking orgasms; we've all done it. It's not that you don't like sex, but maybe you're not that interested in sex right at the moment. Maybe you'd just rather watch your favorite TV show. Maybe you'...

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Beware Popular Lies About Sex

Beware Popular Lies About Sex | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Not “myths,” but lies.


Katie Couric recently embarrassed herself during an interview with psychologist David Ley about pornography. When he calmly described to her what a range of scientific studies say about porn’s effects on behavior and our brain—that it’s minimal—Couric raised her voice, rolled her eyes, and said she was sick of science. “Can’t we use some common sense here?”


Actually, no. Common sense clearly tells us that the Earth is flat. Want some science with that, Ma’am?


In contrast, Couric believed the fact-less, emotional rantings of her other guest—because they fit Couric’s existing beliefs. Like all morning TV hosts, her job is to say bland things, not to think. At least Couric didn’t lie; she’s just uninterested in facts.


Some people do lie. Here are some popular lies about sex that are easy to believe because they make “common sense”—and because some people are making a lot of money and maintaining large support bases promoting these lies.


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“We thought we’d be safe”: Islan Nettles, the New Jersey 4 and the illusion of security for LGBTQ people of color

“We thought we’d be safe”: Islan Nettles, the New Jersey 4 and the illusion of security for LGBTQ people of color | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
A frightening look at what happens when LGBTQ women of color refuse to accept street harassment and other violence

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Why We Need More Erotic Photos Of Older Women (& Lots Of Other Awesome!)

Why We Need More Erotic Photos Of Older Women (& Lots Of Other Awesome!) | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Recently a blogger of note accused me of 'pandering to men'. Keep in mind that 'pander', to be precise, means to 'gratify or indulge (an immoral or distasteful desire, need, or habit of a person with such a desire).'...

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Gracie Passette's curator insight, August 14, 7:29 PM

Also worthy of reading because even blogging about sex makes you a sex worker...

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Studying The Unicorns: Hypersexual Women

Studying The Unicorns: Hypersexual Women | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
The findings of a "hypersexuality and women" study were published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in June. The fact that women alone were studied could make the news all by itself, right? But bef...

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In Defense of Johns

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I'm not ashamed to pay for sex—and other men shouldn't be either

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Gracie Passette's curator insight, August 7, 6:21 AM

This is brilliant! (Save for the sex addiction thing; I'm not a fan of that excuse.)

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Meet the Modern-Day Masters of Sex

Meet the Modern-Day Masters of Sex | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Talking with today's top sex researchers about where sex is headed.


Nobody plans on being a sex researcher when they grow up. Nobody plans to work a strain gauge between splayed legs as they measure changes in penis circumference during sexual stimulation. Nobody dreams to sit across from over-caffeinated college students who are looking to make a quick buck, having to prosaically ask, “When’s the last time you’ve had oral sex?” and then wait for the answer to scrawl on a clipboard.


Yet, sex research remains a growing field. The average annual salary of a sexologist or sex researcher can range anywhere from $40,000 to $63,000, according to modest estimates, but with potential for that number to skyrocket if the person in question takes on sex therapy, blogging, and, of course, the celebrity of television “sexpert” appearances. Beginning as a scientific discipline in the classical Greek period, there are currently over 20 schools and institutes that provide higher education for those wishing to start a career doing clinical, survey, observational, or experimental sex research.


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Christy Mack's Assault Exposes Misogyny, Victim-Blaming, & Sex Worker Shaming

Christy Mack's Assault Exposes Misogyny, Victim-Blaming, & Sex Worker Shaming | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
By now you've probably hear about the brutal attack on sex worker Christy Mack alleged to be the work of her ex-boyfriend, Jon Paul Koppenhaver aka War Machine. The model and adult porn star releas...

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Will There Be Satisfaction In Sex Work?

Will There Be Satisfaction In Sex Work? | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Thursday night, USA aired the pilot episode of Satisfaction. It was pretty clear from the heavy promotion, that this show was going to be about a married man who discovers his wife is using the ser...

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TheBodyHouse.biz's curator insight, July 23, 6:13 PM

This is a new show I haven't seen yet. The article is interesting and addresses the many reasons why so many people enter the sex work industry..... Hint- it's not just for money and desperation. Amen.


If you're a frequenter of sex services... be they erotic bodyrubs or full service escorts or anything in between, this article may be enlightening.


The fact is, sex work is real work. Treat your provider as the business person they are. If they are professional and serious about the service they offer then they may just rank up their with your therapist and doctor.


Is this a grandiose notion? Well, if you think of the time, money and effort some clients put into receiving sex services then no, it isn't.


Sex work may even be the "apple a day" that keeps clients healthy enough to stay out of the doctor's office and out of the therapist's chair.


Why do I say this?


Well, it could be because I'm in the sex industry and I know most of my clients let go completely with me. They are looking to "let go" fully with someone on every level, not just sexually.


Most of us hold something back from doctors and therapists, right? But, why hold back with a sex worker? It's as primal as it gets.


It's the oldest profession and like death and taxes we can always count on it being there no matter how far underground it's driven. 


So have a look at "Satisfaction" a new show about an old industry. You might have fun watching and learn a little something too. ;)



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