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Have Compassion For Your Inner Critic: The Reasons Why We Beat Our Selves Up

Have Compassion For Your Inner Critic: The Reasons Why We Beat Our Selves Up | Self-Compassion | Scoop.it
Don't beat yourself up for beating yourself up in the vain hope that somehow it will help you stop beating yourself up. Instead, take a step back and give your inner critic some slack.
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Self-Compassion Newsletter

Self-Compassion Newsletter | Self-Compassion | Scoop.it

The quickest path to self-compassion is through soothing touch.  As mammals, our bodies are naturally comforted by warmth and gentle pressure.  This ability evolved so that mammalian young would stay close to their mothers and remain safe from predators.   When we experience tender touch, therefore, our internal care-giving system is automatically activated and we start to feel calmer and more secure. One of the easiest, most effective exercises taught in the Mindful Self-Compassion program (an eight-week self-compassion skills training workshop developed by Chris Germer and myself) is simply putting one’s hands on one’s heart.  When you’re suffering, you can acknowledge this and comfort yourself by putting one hand over the other, feeling the warmth of your hands and noticing the rising and falling of your chest.  If you use words of kindness toward yourself (e.g., I'm sorry this is so hard right now...) it makes it even more effective.  And if you’re in public you can use what I call the “surreptitious self-hug.”  This involves folding your arms and giving them a gentle squeeze.  As long as there is the intent to express self-compassion it works, and no one needs to know!

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Self-Compassion: Kristin Neff

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Self-Compassion: Stop Beating Yourself Up and Leave Insecurity Behind. Kristin Neff From leading psychologist Dr. Kristin Neff comes a step-by-step guide explaining how to be more self-compassionate and achieve your dreams in life.Dr.
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Why Caregivers Need Self-Compassion

Why Caregivers Need Self-Compassion | Self-Compassion | Scoop.it
Although the term "compassion fatigue" is well-known, some psychologists are starting to argue that the term should be changed to "empathy fatigue."...
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Mindfulness-Based Professional Training Retreats

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This workshop will provide simple tools for responding in a kind, compassionate way whenever we are experiencing painful emotions. We all want to avoid pain, but letting it in—and responding compassionately to our own imperfections without harsh self-condemnation—are essential steps toward living happier, more fulfilling lives.

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Have Compassion For Your Inner Critic: The Reasons Why We Beat Our Selves Up

Have Compassion For Your Inner Critic: The Reasons Why We Beat Our Selves Up | Self-Compassion | Scoop.it
Don't beat yourself up for beating yourself up in the vain hope that somehow it will help you stop beating yourself up. Instead, take a step back and give your inner critic some slack.
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