Many people feel great urgency these days around personal growth. They want to become better human beings and want to change something in their life. Realizing that life is not satisfactory, that the necessary fulfillment and happiness lacks, that we are not at peace with life, is the first step to a new awareness. An awareness that questions our former values, beliefs and ideas of life. And we come to the conclusion that everything we considered as important in our life is indeed meaningless.
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We have to learn …
We are responsible for our own luck
It is our own choice to find happiness in life. We have the steering wheel in hand if our life ends boring or if we leave a legacy. We have control over our life.
“I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.”
Inspiring words from the poem “Invictus” by William Ernest Henley (1849–1903) - words that motivate.
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
( William Ernest Henley )
Having understood that we can influence our own happiness …
Now we should gain clarity about us.
The 1st lesson for personal growth is …
Know thyself and gain self-awareness
The central questions would be:
1.) Awareness of Purpose:
What is important in my life?
What motivates me?
2.) Awareness of Values:
What are my values and beliefs?
3.) Awareness of Skills:
What is my greatest strength?
What is my greatest weakness?
4.) Awareness of Passion:
What passions do I have?
5.) Awareness of Gratitude:
What am I grateful for?
6.) Awareness of Legacy:
What shall be my legacy?
7.) Awareness of Fears:
What fears do I have?
8.) Awareness of Distraction / Excuses:
What distracts me in life?
What do I avoid doing?
9.) Awareness of Ego:
How important is my ego?
How important do I take me as human being?
10.) Awareness of Lessons:
What can I learn from my experiences?
11.) Awareness for Change:
Am I willing to change my life?
12.) Awareness for Patience:
Am I willing to be patient with me?
Sometimes the answers are not easy … knowing ourselves requires deep understanding …
“Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom.” ~ Lao Tzu
When we are aware who we are, aware what drives us and makes us unique, what makes our life worth living and interesting and what we can learn from our experiences, we have laid the foundation for a new life. A life as a better human being.
Are you ready for a new life?
You have nothing to lose …
You only gain …