First of all, it is NOT a crime if you choose not to be a parent. The fact is, some people simply should not be parents. Some because they make the choice because they know themselves well, and others because they don’t know themselves at all and don’t have what it takes for a lifetime of parenting.
How does that sound? A lifetime of parenting? When you become a parent, you have given up your single, carefree life. You have given up any selfish behavior in exchange for putting another person ahead of yourself.
As a parent, another person becomes more important than yourself…or they should be.