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Mediocre Me - How Saying No to the Status Quo Will Propel You from Ordinary to Extraordinary! (A Book by John Michel - Copyright 2013)
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First 5 Steps to Achieving Great Things

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Greatness doesn't just happen. The best leaders take steps to ensure that when they do something, they do it better than anyone else.

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You're good. You wouldn't be where you are if you weren't. But you know you're capable of better than good. You're capable of achieving truly great things. Problem is, days go by, then weeks, months--maybe even years--and you're still cranking out good. You've yet to design that unbelievable product, write that great novel, dominate that market. Everyone admires you, but you've a growing sense of disappointment in yourself.

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How to Apply Transformational Leadership at Your Company - CIO

How to Apply Transformational Leadership at Your Company - CIO | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
CIO How to Apply Transformational Leadership at Your Company CIO These leaders are on a mission to effect positive change for both the organization and the people they work with, and their energy and passion help fuel cohesion among peers and team...
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Some people are just born with leaderships skills and the rest of us have to work at it. You've seen them before--the charismatic leaders who have a way of motivating the people around them. They instill a feeling that we are all accountable and that if one of us fails, we all fail.

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Finally, a real-life application of the principals of Transformational Leadership...

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Top 5 Skills That Make a Great Leader - Fox Business

Top 5 Skills That Make a Great Leader - Fox Business | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Top 5 Skills That Make a Great Leader
Fox Business
A few years ago, I saw a video by a Harvard professor on competences for adapting to a changing world. Frankly, it was embarrassing.

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5 straight up skills all leaders would be wise to pay attention to.

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Emotional Intelligence ~ 20 Years On | The Intentional Workplace

Emotional Intelligence ~ 20 Years On | The Intentional Workplace | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
In 1995, Emotional Intelligence: Why it Can Matter More than IQ by Daniel Goleman was published. The introduction of Emotional Intelligence (EI) generated a great deal of excitement and hope. Nearly twenty years later, ...

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Daniel Goleman has written that the third decade of EI must be about expanding its application. The goals are noble and worthy. But are organizations and their leaders really ready to accept the implications of a workplace that reflects the values of an EI enlightened workforce?

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David Hain's curator insight, June 19, 2013 3:16 AM

Writing about the future of EI, Joshua Freedman writes, “The third decade of emotional intelligence is about application. These are the foundational skills for human interaction, so in this third decade we’ll see emotional intelligence woven more deeply and powerfully into the fabric of our institutions and lives. It’s time not just to know, or to value but to practice.”

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Eight Ways Goofing Off Can Make You More Productive

Eight Ways Goofing Off Can Make You More Productive | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
One of my colleagues used to head to the men’s room and brush his teeth every time he felt a surge of writer’s block. He swears it did the trick. Another exits the building and walks around the block to clear his head.

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A growing body of research suggests that the longer you keep your rear end in your chair and your eyes glued to your screen, the less productive you may be. Getting up from your desk and moving not only heightens your powers of concentration, it enhances your health.

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Culture Eats Strategy For Lunch

Culture Eats Strategy For Lunch | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Culture like brand is misunderstood and often discounted as a touchyfeely component of business that belongs to HR. It's not intangible or fluffy it's...

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An outstanding article on culture...read it not once, but twice..it is that relevant! 

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John Michel's curator insight, June 18, 2013 9:15 AM

Culture, like brand, is misunderstood and often discounted as a touchy-feely component of business that belongs to HR. It's not intangible or fluffy, it's not a vibe or the office décor. It's one of the most important drivers that has to be set or adjusted to push long-term, sustainable success. It's not good enough just to have an amazing product and a healthy bank balance. Long-term success is dependent on a culture that is nurtured and alive. Culture is the environment in which your strategy and your brand thrives or dies a slow death. 

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The Two Most Underrated Leadership Skills - Forbes

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The Two Most Underrated Leadership Skills
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Leadership is changing. A big part is the impact of the Millennials. They are less apt to respond to command & control and respond much more positively to a different kind of leadership.
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Leadership is changing. A big part is the impact of the Millennials. They are less apt to respond to command & control and respond much more positively to a different kind of leadership.

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A Leadership Book Author On Why You're Better Off Reading Fiction For Lasting Lessons

A Leadership Book Author On Why You're Better Off Reading Fiction For Lasting Lessons | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Craig Chappelow has written about how leaders can be more successful. But he'd crack One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest before the latest business book...
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Good advice about how we really learn...and how little learning comes from leadership books. 

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Coaching: Beyond the Sports Icon

Coaching: Beyond the Sports Icon | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Often, the sports metaphor doesn't work so well in business coaching. Here's why.
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If your responsibility is to lead, manage, and supervise people on a daily basis, the sports model of coaching isn’t necessarily going to get you there. It’s crucial that leaders coach, but not necessarily along the lines of a hard-nosed athletic director.

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Writing: Change Yourself, Change the World - Lifehack

Writing: Change Yourself, Change the World - Lifehack | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Writing lets you experience many beautiful things. Discover the ways it can change not only you, but the whole world you live in.

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Personal growth implies changing things about yourself, whereas personal evolution implies radically accepting who you are and allowing changes to occur naturally.

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Practice Improvisation to Become a Faster and More Creative Thinker

Practice Improvisation to Become a Faster and More Creative Thinker | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
If spontaneity is something you need to work on, consider trying out some of these improvisation exercises to get your mind thinking more quickly and creatively.

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We can’t completely plan out everything that happens in our lives. Instead a lot of the situations we find ourselves in we have to respond to spontaneously – which requires a certain amount of fast and creative thinking on the spot.


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Seven Paths to a Meaningful Life

Seven Paths to a Meaningful Life | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
A giant in the field of social psychology draws on five decades of teaching and research to reveal the secrets of a fulfilling life to today's graduating seniors.

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Teachers who inspire their students are everyday heroes, who should be more treasured by our society, as should parents and guardians like you here today who have sacrificed much for the well-being and success of your longtime students.

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Smart Leaders Engage Tomorrow's Workforce

Smart Leaders Engage Tomorrow's Workforce | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
I'm off to Chicago for #SHRM13 and am very excited to see everyone and for all the events. The topic most pressing on my mind today is the battle for young, emerging talent and how fierce the competition is these days in certain sectors.
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The great (not so) secret driver of Millennial (and every generation btw) engagement is emotion. In order to hook this free-spirited talent you need to win their hearts and souls, as well as their heads. Research has shown that emotional commitment is four times as strong as rational commitment (i.e. just a paycheck) in motivating stellar performance.

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Ask Great Questions: Leadership Skills of Socrates - Forbes

Ask Great Questions: Leadership Skills of Socrates
Forbes
Building a successful venture means consistently making good decisions. The question is how to become great at making good decisions. The answer is to look to Socrates.
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Socratic cultures are intense, engaging and driven. They are on a quest to create the best possible outcomes. They are willing to dig deep, take decisions and iterate ever better decisions through the ongoing Socratic method.

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6 Conversations You Need To Have With Yourself

6 Conversations You Need To Have With Yourself | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Practical Tips for Productive Living
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What can you tell yourself that you don’t already know?  A whole lot. In the privacy of your mind you constantly talk to yourself.  Your inner monologue might seem pointless at times, but the truth is the act of talking to yourself can help you learn and maintain a positive lifelong trajectory.  Therefore, collected below are six effective topics for self-talk, so the next time you talk to yourself you will know exactly what to say.

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LuAnne Holder's curator insight, June 21, 2013 6:48 PM

In the privacy of your mind you constantly talk to yourself.  Your inner monologue might seem pointless at times, but the truth is the act of talking to yourself can help you learn and maintain a positive lifelong trajectory.  Therefore, collected below are six effective topics for self-talk, so the next time you talk to yourself you will know exactly what to say.

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The Importance of Scheduling Nothing

The Importance of Scheduling Nothing | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it

Via Daniel Watson, David Hain
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The most important reason to schedule buffers is to just catch your breath. There is no faster way to feel as though your day is not your own, and that you are no longer in control, than scheduling meetings back to back from the minute you arrive at the office until the moment you leave. I’ve felt the effects of this and seen it with colleagues. Not only is it not fun to feel this way, it’s not sustainable.

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Tiffany Crosby's curator insight, June 9, 2013 6:23 PM

I'm also an advocate of scheduling nothing, especially soon after you've returned from a training event. Use that time to reflect back on your training and how well you've incorporated new behaviors. Use it to set goals for the upcoming week on how you will continue to grow on those new behaviors. Change takes time. Purposeful time.

EnglishWizards's curator insight, June 10, 2013 5:55 PM

the importance of balance ... 

David Hain's curator insight, June 19, 2013 4:19 AM

Invest in time doing nothing!

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Take A Risk: The Odds Are Better Than You Think

Take A Risk: The Odds Are Better Than You Think | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
When weighing up whether to take an action that could leave us vulnerable to failing or some other form or loss (of reputation, money, social standing, pride etc), science has shown that we have an innate tendency to misjudge four core elements in...
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Often we know what it is we want to do, but we still don’t do it. Why? Because we are innately risk averse and afraid of putting our vulnerability on the line. The status quo, while not particularly fulfilling, can seem like an easier, softer, less scary, option.  Indeed, advances in brain imaging technology can now verify that we human beings are wired to be risk averse. In other words, we find it much easier to settle with the status quo, keep our mouths closed and our heads down rather than make a change, take a chance,  or speak up and engage in what I call a “courageous conversation.”


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Humility: Bending Your Light

Humility: Bending Your Light | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Choose to make humility a hallmark of your approach to leadership. I promise you that it will pay dividends for generations to come.
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Researchers confirm that to put humility into practice is to possess an accurate sense of one’s abilities; to have an openness to new ideas; to appreciate the many different ways that people and things contribute to our world; as well as the ability to acknowledge one’s mistakes, imperfections, gaps in knowledge, and limitations. In other words, to be humble is to be free of thinking about ourselves so we can focus on what matters most—serving others.


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John Michel's curator insight, June 18, 2013 10:25 PM

The most effective leaders I’ve ever encountered are those who were not slaves to the spotlight. They are content to willfully surrender any desire for recognition, comfort or control and strive to selflessly serve those placed in their care. So be it as a parent at home, a worker at the office, a lay person in your church, or as a government official serving your community, choose to make humility a hallmark of your approach to leadership. I promise you that it will pay dividends for generations to come.

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How to Scale Your Leadership Style | The Intuit Network

How to Scale Your Leadership Style | The Intuit Network | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
I've been asked how I think about scaling leadership. To answer the question, I first need to share my view of leadership, which is grounded in the belief that it is not a leader's job to put greatness into people.
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Superb advice on how to scale your leadership.

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Ask Great Questions: Leadership Skills of Socrates - Forbes

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Ask Great Questions: Leadership Skills of Socrates
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Building a successful venture means consistently making good decisions. The question is how to become great at making good decisions. The answer is to look to Socrates.
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Building a successful venture means consistently making good decisions. The question is how to become great at making good decisions. The answer is to look to Socrates. This ancient philosopher holds the key to an essential leadership skill: ask great questions. The challenge is that too few leaders, managers and employees ask great questions. This is a big problem. Cultures that embrace a culture of questioning thrive and those that fear it either fail or are doomed to mediocrity.

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The Four Questions Great Leaders Ask

The Four Questions Great Leaders Ask | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Ever notice how great leaders ask the best questions?

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Ever notice how great leaders ask the best questions?

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5 Transitions Great Leaders Make That Average Leaders Don't - Forbes

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5 Transitions Great Leaders Make That Average Leaders Don't
Forbes
The secret to leadership is there aren't any real secrets. The best leaders have simply gone to school on improving their tradecraft.
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Some leaders hit their stride early in their career, others find their path later in life, and regrettably, far too many leaders never seem to get their footing. Great leaders discover pivot points and transitions that create a certain rhythm and balance, while average leaders tend to be somewhat tone deaf and awkward. We all recognize great leadership when we see it, but many fail to see what it is that actually makes the leader great. Following are 5 key transitions great leaders make that average leaders do not.

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Irene Immink's comment, June 17, 2013 12:48 PM
Indeed, good point Philippe
AlGonzalezinfo's curator insight, June 17, 2013 6:48 PM

Thanks to John, David and Wise Leader!  Great scoop.

 

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Develop Awareness– Great leaders are self aware, organizationally aware, culturally aware, contextually aware, and emotionally aware. They value listening, engaging, observing, and learning over pontificating. They value sensitivity over insensitivity and humility over hubris. Leaders who come across as if they know everything haven’t fooled anyone – except themselves.

 
Doris Palomino's curator insight, June 18, 2013 10:24 AM

The 5 key transitions the author proposes make you think about how great human beings we expect great leaders to be: (1) find purpose, (2) people first, (3) develop awareness, (4) shun complexity, and (5) get personal. And I could not agree more about the fact how many people assume the responsability to lead but only a few can do it well: "Average leaders spend time scaling processes, systems, and models – great leaders focus on scaling leadership".

 

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Personal Evolution Versus Personal Growth

Personal Evolution Versus Personal Growth | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Chris Akins writes a great post for CYT on the difference between personal growth and allowing yourself to evolve into who you truly are.

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Personal growth implies changing things about yourself, whereas personal evolution implies radically accepting who you are and allowing changes to occur naturally.

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Embrace positive attitude to get life moving in the right direction - The Cairns Post

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Embrace positive attitude to get life moving in the right direction
The Cairns Post
MANY people feel that they can't get their lives moving in the right direction. If you embrace a positive attitude, you'll find it easier to get where you want to go.

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MANY people feel that they can't get their lives moving in the right direction. If you embrace a positive attitude, you'll find it easier to get where you want to go.

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14 Things Successful People Do On Weekends

14 Things Successful People Do On Weekends | Mediocre Me | Scoop.it
Ever wonder how successful people spend their weekends? Here are 14 things they do (or should be doing).
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Penelope Trunk, a career coach and author ofBrazen Careerist: The New Rules for Success, adds: “A highly successful person is very focused on what they want to be doing. The weekend and the week look very similar: They are focused on creating the life they want.”


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