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Men Telling Women To Smile = Unpaid Emotional Labor

Men Telling Women To Smile = Unpaid Emotional Labor | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Charlie Glickman talks about the difficulty many men have with managing their own emotions, and the expectation that women will do it for them.
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Please Stop Asking if My Students are Hot

Please Stop Asking if My Students are Hot | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Pat Brothwell on why this question bugs him so much.
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Feminism, According to Stock Photography

Feminism, According to Stock Photography | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
A slideshow of inadvertent memes created by stock-photo websites.

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Chinese Sex Ed Cartoons: No Kids, You Didn't Come From a Garbage Dump

Chinese Sex Ed Cartoons: No Kids, You Didn't Come From a Garbage Dump | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
It's no secret that sexual education in China is not all that it could be. Open discussion about sex isn't just avoided at parties - it's avoided altogether. The topic is considered so uncomfortable by many Chinese parents...
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Deanna Dahlsad's curator insight, November 24, 2013 12:55 PM

Glad these are catching in the US too. Yea, Internet!

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Using Tinder to find a date would be a lot cuter in real life

Using Tinder to find a date would be a lot cuter in real life | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Dave and Ethan just proved there’s a way to make a respectful pickup video on YouTube.

 
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Dance, Ballerina, Dance (Remembering Kathy Keeton; Gone To Soon & Forgotten Even Faster)

Dance, Ballerina, Dance (Remembering Kathy Keeton; Gone To Soon & Forgotten Even Faster) | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

Who was Kathy Keeton? For starters, Keeton was Guccione’s longtime girlfriend and eventual wife. But she ought to be remembered for far more than that.


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Deanna Dahlsad's curator insight, November 11, 2013 5:19 PM

This woman ought to be among the largest names in feminism and publishing -- and an icon of the 1970s - 1980s.

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You Are Your Own Worst Enemy

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Dr. NerdLove wonders if you're truly ready to get out of your own way to finding love.
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Orgasm for dummies: Neuroscience explains why sex feels good

Orgasm for dummies: Neuroscience explains why sex feels good | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
New brain studies explain how pleasure really works -- and the amazing science behind amazing pleasure
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50 Things I've Been Meaning To Say About Sex

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There is no easy set of steps for giving or receiving pleasure. There is no finish line. Your triumphs and your traumas will impact your sexuality. Sex itself can be a source of triumph and trauma....
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PS: The Female Sex Hotspot You Haven't Heard of ... Yet

PS: The Female Sex Hotspot You Haven't Heard of ... Yet | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
If you have a female body (or have ever been in bed with one), odds are you’ve heard of a couple of spots to touch to make things feel good. So, there’s the clitoris. Of course. Then there’s the G-spot.
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Getting Over Shame Through Nude Photography

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Philip Werner helps men and women learn to love their own bodies.
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Deanna Dahlsad's curator insight, November 7, 2013 1:28 AM

Visual assistance in addressing body image -- which, of course, helps with confidence in relationships and sexuality.

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F*#k The Tatas, Save The Woman

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Alyssa Royse thanks you for loving breasts, but when it comes to breast cancer, she wants the attention where it's really needed.
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What You Can Learn From Open Relationships | Good Vibrations Blog

What You Can Learn From Open Relationships | Good Vibrations Blog | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
People ask me everyday about open relationships and polyamorous relationships. Here's what you can learn from open relationships.
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Dangerous Lilly | Shiri Zinn Cupcake Vibrator – Gag Gift or Sex Toy?

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How One 65-Year-Old Spent Years Making Porn -- With His Wife's Blessing - Huffington Post

How One 65-Year-Old Spent Years Making Porn -- With His Wife's Blessing - Huffington Post | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

Although Gordon toyed with the idea of becoming a rabbi, he ditched it upon discovering he'd have to study Aramaic for two years. After graduating from Antioch College in Ohio in 1970, he met his wife Carly -- who would go on to become a therapist -- and had a different kind of religious experience: "wife at first sight."

 

But something was missing from Gordon's fairly idyllic existence.

"I had my wife and I had all the love I needed. But sexually speaking, I wanted to explore something else," Gordon, now 65 years old, said. "I wanted to have a sexual experience that had nothing to do with love or relationship. I wanted some sex as 'recreation' and I wanted one of those 'bad' girls'."

 

And so, with his wife's blessing, Gordon went on to become one of the biggest porn stars of the 1970s and 1980s.


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Please Be That Guy! 7 Men Who Are Transforming Masculinity

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Jamie Utt offers a list of seven guys who are turning their backs on old stereotypes to be advocates for equality.
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I Was Set to Fathom Sex Without Ejaculation | Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

I Was Set to Fathom Sex Without Ejaculation | Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
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It involves pajamas and pancakes and equality.

It involves pajamas and pancakes and equality. | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

A 4-Year-Old Girl Asked A Lesbian If She's A Boy. She Responded The Awesomest Way Possible.

Ash Beckham is awesome. She also happens to be gay, and she thinks it's hard for straight people coming out of the closet.


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Deanna Dahlsad's curator insight, November 14, 2013 12:22 AM

This not just about being gay -- it's about the hard conversations we all face, the fact that not having those conversations is killing us, that living with any sorts of stress and fear is being closet.

Deanna Dahlsad's curator insight, November 14, 2013 12:23 AM

This not just about being gay -- it's about the hard conversations we all face, the fact that not having those conversations is killing us, that living with any sorts of stress and fear is being closet.

Deanna Dahlsad's curator insight, November 14, 2013 12:23 AM

This not just about being gay -- it's about the hard conversations we all face, the fact that not having those conversations is killing us, that living with any sorts of stress and fear is being closet.

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Touch Isolation: How Homophobia Has Robbed All Men Of Touch

Touch Isolation: How Homophobia Has Robbed All Men Of Touch | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
The sooner being gay is deemed completely normal, the sooner homophobic prohibitions against male touch will be taken off straight men as well.
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The MPAA’s backwards logic: Sex is dangerous, sexism is fine

The MPAA’s backwards logic: Sex is dangerous, sexism is fine | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
If only the ratings agency looked as closely at gender bias as it does at consensual sex, it might do some good
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Moving in with polyamorists

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We were newly married when we came to live in their home -- and realized how badly we were failing at love
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Why do women love talking about sex online? And why is it 'more shocking' when mums do it? - Telegraph

Why do women love talking about sex online? And why is it 'more shocking' when mums do it? - Telegraph | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
In the aftermath of Mumsnet's 'penis beaker gate', Rebecca Holman explores why women love sharing the intimate details of their sex lives online and why anyone cares.
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Why I’m Not Bisexual (Even Though My OKCupid Profile Says So)

Why I’m Not Bisexual (Even Though My OKCupid Profile Says So) | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Saul of-Hearts thinks his definition of bisexuality doesn't really match up with anyone else's. And that's more than ok.
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Asexuality and Sexual Fluidity | Good Vibrations Blog

Asexuality and Sexual Fluidity | Good Vibrations Blog | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
I once knew a guy who started every one of our few and far between conversations with this line: “So, are you still asexual?” The third or fourth time he asked me that question, I got irritated and asked him to stop saying it every time we spoke.
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7 Things To Know About Orgasmic Meditation

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In a brave and epic fashion, Gawker writer Nitasha Tiku attended AND participated in an OM conference, living to pen the tale. For those of you who are not
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