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Hi. So, um, I noticed you post a lot of sexy fat women. I've been having a crisis of confidence in regards to my weight, and I was just wondering what about them do you find attractive? I like sex,...

Hi. So, um, I noticed you post a lot of sexy fat women. I've been having a crisis of confidence in regards to my weight, and I was just wondering what about them do you find attractive? I like sex,... | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Anonymous asked: Hi. So, um, I noticed you post a lot of sexy fat women. I've been having a crisis of confidence in regards to my weight, and I was just wondering what about them do you find... (Anonymous asked: Hi.

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Of Feminism & Inequality In Porn & Sex Work

Of Feminism & Inequality In Porn & Sex Work | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
The Feminist Times has an excellent series on sex work, covering a diverse range of issues. (Sadly, it is only found by searching for the hashtag #SexIndustryWeek, as if finding it on Twitter was more important than a person being able to find all the discussion on the site.) Because it is a diverse series, there are plenty of articles I do not agree with; but that’s what makes it a good discussion, so, please, do take the time to read them. However, there’s one article in particular that raised my hackles and prompts me to write today ~ primarily because it has gone without comment. Such absence of comment might make people think it is “right”. And it is not.The article is #SexIndustryWeek: Dworkin Was Right About Porn, by VJD Smith of Glosswatch. In it, Smith uses the words of Andrea Dworkin to align all porn as patriarchal misogyny abusing and raping female victims:
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What Happens When Hipster Dudes Imitate Miranda Kerr's Super Sexy GQ Spread? -

What Happens When Hipster Dudes Imitate Miranda Kerr's Super Sexy GQ Spread? - | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Miranda Kerr's GQ shoot is undeniably hot. But what happens when an Aussie hipster decides to duplicate the shots... starring himself?
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My Penis and I » Watch Full Documentary Online

My Penis and I » Watch Full Documentary Online | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
My Penis and I documentary film » Watch the best full length Sexuality documentaries online for free on B D O | Penis, People
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The Myth of Porn's Perfect Bodies

The Myth of Porn's Perfect Bodies | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Among the complaints I repeatedly hear about porn is that it features perfect female bodies, which supposedly makes male consumers lose interest in normal, imperfect bodies. Normal imperfect bodies...
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Porn Studies journal publishes its first issue

Porn Studies journal publishes its first issue | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
It’s one of the most controversial cultural conversations in today’s society, with campaigners on both sides of the fence vehemently arguing their stance.
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Women Don't Like Porn According To Statistics-Misuing Authors

Women Don't Like Porn According To Statistics-Misuing Authors | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
The authors of "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" have used extremely dodgy research to back up their assertions that men and women are different. And they've flat out lied about ForTheGirls.com in the process.
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I'm Finally Revealing My Name and Face As the Duke Porn Star

I'm Finally Revealing My Name and Face As the Duke Porn Star | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

I've never been told to die in quite so many ways.

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I Don’t Care About Clients

I Don’t Care About Clients | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

The point I am trying to make here is that if clients were contributing something valuable or even something innocuous to our movement, I could deal. Instead, they are perpetrating whorephobia. I fear that people who don’t know better will see posts like this and think these men somehow have more knowledge of our lives and the realities of our work than we do. After all, the conversations surrounding punters and activism are largely cisheteronormative, and most of these men bring their male privilege to the table, while not even being aware of these advantages.


Beyond that, this issue seems to cause a divide between sex workers and, as evidenced by my anon friend, makes those of us who don’t subscribe to this thinking feel isolated, as if we’re doing something wrong. As if it’s our responsibility to listen and care about what men have to say. After all, it’s part of our socialization as women and marginalized people to listen to men, just as it’s part of our male clients’ socialization to speak over us and for us.


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Deanna Dahlsad's curator insight, March 3, 2014 10:09 PM

Interesting points about male advocates for female issues.

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Why I'm Still A Fan Of Separate Bathrooms

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Could you ever have an article with the headline: How to shower in the presence of a male stranger? I suspect not and here's why.
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USA: Male Privilege of Not Knowing - The Good Men Project

USA: Male Privilege of Not Knowing - The Good Men Project | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Joe Samalin explains how his male privilege allows him to choose to ignore the reality of street harassment, simply because he can.
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How many people have seen you naked?

How many people have seen you naked? | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
How many people have seen you naked?This was a question posed on the BN forum by ‘Geordie’. My first reaction was “who cares”, but on reflection I th...
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Masturbation Helps Cultivate an Intense Desire for Life | Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

Masturbation Helps Cultivate an Intense Desire for Life | Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

"If both men and women masturbate more, they can bring more harmony to how they see the World."

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Sex Life for Disabled People

Sex Life for Disabled People | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
“Though people think a disability will end your sex life, nothing is further from the truth. Don't be a prisoner of sexual myths: Indulge your senses.”
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A Look Inside A Phone Sex Hobbyist's Mind

A Look Inside A Phone Sex Hobbyist's Mind | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
When phone sex operator come phone sex consultant Lynn met Tom, a man with some pretty strong phone sex calling habits (he has over 500 phone sex operators in his list of favorites alone!), she dub...
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Gracie Passette's curator insight, April 6, 2014 5:49 PM

Phone sex, sex addiction, hobbyists...

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Spouses in Happy Marriages Cheat. What Are We All Looking For?

Spouses in Happy Marriages Cheat. What Are We All Looking For? | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
We would all like to believe that affairs are the refuge of the discontented, that only people in unhappy marriages cheat. But “happy,” it turns out, is not a sufficient antidote to affair. We may be in a golden age of marriage, when elites at least are more likely to...
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Emily Reads 50 Shades Part 1: What is it about elevators?

Emily Reads 50 Shades Part 1: What is it about elevators? | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Plenty has been said about what's wrong with 50 Shades of Grey - in fact, y'all pointed me to several examples of bloggers blogging their reads, like Pervocracy's, a chapter-by-chapter account that...
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The First Annual X-Rated Mud Run

The First Annual X-Rated Mud Run | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
The inaugural X-Rated Mud Run event is just around the corner. This is going to be an amazing event, created to promote sexual positivity and healthy living.
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Politician tries to censor ‘nude’ children’s book, booksellers strip in protest

Politician tries to censor ‘nude’ children’s book, booksellers strip in protest | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
You could say they laid bare their concerns.
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Doughnut on a Penis: The Weird History of Cosmo's Most Infamous Sex Tip

Doughnut on a Penis: The Weird History of Cosmo's Most Infamous Sex Tip | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

When Kate White became editor in chief of Cosmopolitan in 1998, she worried that she’d quickly run out of ideas to fill the magazine’s monthly quota of blissfully sinful secrets that will blow your man’s mind. In White’s 14 years at the helm, the magazine valiantly reached for an electric toothbrush, a string of pearls, a hair scrunchie, a handful of refrigerated marbles, edible body paint, tomato sauce, and “a small bit of mango” to introduce Cosmo readers—and their unsuspecting boyfriends—to unprecedented levels of sexual innovation. But in the summer of 2003, White landed on a sexual accessory so unforgivably weird that it would come to exemplify the ludicrousness of Cosmo sex tips forever. “99 Ways to Touch Him: These Fresh, Frisky Tips Will Thrill Every Inch of Your Guy,” White wrote on the magazine’s June cover, then teased: “(Our Favorite Requires a Glazed Doughnut).”


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Do women want sex as much as men? Real women answer | Playboy

Do women want sex as much as men? Real women answer | Playboy | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it

Female comedians, writers, editors, adult film stars & pornographers on the real truth about women & sex. Read more on Playboy.com

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The Trouble With Virginity: What America’s Sexual Language Leaves Out

The Trouble With Virginity: What America’s Sexual Language Leaves Out | Love n Sex n Whatnot | Scoop.it
Our limited concept of "losing your virginity" ignores the importance of consent.
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