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Is The Clothed Female Naked Male Fetish Feminist?

Is The Clothed Female Naked Male Fetish Feminist? | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Ever visited PornHub and spotted an incongruous image of a naked man surrounded by clothed women? Then you've stumbled upon the fetish of CFNM – Clothed Female, Naked Male.


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Red-Blooded Thing: Guitar Strap BDSM!

Red-Blooded Thing: Guitar Strap BDSM! | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Dave Navarro of Jane's Addiction is branching out in his creative endeavors - he has teamed up with the stockroom to produce a guitar strap that doubles as a BDSM-tie-me-up device. According to the p
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Talking Female Dominants & Male Submissives With Author Irv O. Neil

Talking Female Dominants & Male Submissives With Author Irv O. Neil | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Continuing my talk with Irv O. Neil (part one, part two), we now get to main course of the erotica feasts the author dishes up... Most of your stories feature dominant females ~ and you're not shy ...
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City in Ukraine Tied to Masochism Finds Link Painful, Sure, but Some Like It

City in Ukraine Tied to Masochism Finds Link Painful, Sure, but Some Like It | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Residents of the western Ukrainian city of Lviv are of two minds on the reputation of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch.
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Profanely Popular Hot Priests Calendar

Profanely Popular Hot Priests Calendar | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
The 2015 Orthodox Priests Calendar on sale now. Featuring nude and semi-nude homoerotic photographs of members of the Orthodox Church, this is one calendar that's sure to hit hot touch points ~ rai...
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Jian Versus the CBC

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The problem when you jump to defend the accused is it ends up making the accuser or victims feel like they’ve just been assaulted all over again. That’s easier to stomach when you can say “But HEY, they’re not coming forward, so they can’t be serious.” No, it’s you who can’t be serious. You can’t hear the accused’s spin-cycle and then make your decision then and there — but so many of you already have.


I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s look at this from all the angles.

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The not-so-voluntary sex confessions of fired Canadian radio star Jian Ghomeshi

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Sunday brought Ghomeshi's firing, threats of a $50 million lawsuit and a lengthy confession in which the star admitted he's into BDSM and "rough sex."
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I have no insights into the claims of assault or Ghomeshi's life at all; but this certainly is the stuff of BDSM folks' fears...

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Finland: Tom of Finland stamps are best selling ever

Finland: Tom of Finland stamps are best selling ever | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
A range of Tom of Finland stamps has launched in Finland to commemorate the “proud homoeroticism” of the influential gay artist, and has been the best selling in the country's history.
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50 Shades Of... Red!

50 Shades Of... Red! | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

I’m not the only one annoyed or downright fed-up with the 50 Shades phenom. There may be one good thing about all this mainstream glorification of 50 Shades: The subject of BDSM is no longer in the closet. However, the book (and upcoming film) isn’t accurate in its depiction of BDSM.

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Say It With Me Now: "BDSM Is Not Violence"

Say It With Me Now: "BDSM Is Not Violence" | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
The gruesome attack on adult film star and model Christy Mack certainly has exposed the horrible, ugly faces of misogyny, victim blaming, slut shaming, and the like. Right in the open, in the harsh...
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The Obligatory 50 Shades Of Grey Post (Includes Gender Rant & What Rocks My Heart-Shaped World)

The Obligatory 50 Shades Of Grey Post (Includes Gender Rant & What Rocks My Heart-Shaped World) | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
If you were under a rock last week, you missed all the ruckus surrounding the release of the trailer for the film version of 50 Shades Of Grey. (The film won't be out until Valentines' Day, 2015; b...
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Understanding (Some) Male Rape Fantasies

Understanding (Some) Male Rape Fantasies | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

When I asked Miss Pearl to write about male rape fantasies, she did a great job with A General Introduction To Rape Fantasies, particularly when it comes to male rape fantasies. However, one facet not discussed was the specific rape fantasies of sissies. In fact, this sort of forced feminization was what I had tucked away in the back of my mind when I wrote, “Humiliation of the male submissive can be just as much a part of the D/s turn-on as rape fantasies are for some women.”


I myself first discovered sissy fantasies and male rape fantasies when I was an escort, and it was a tricky thing to figure out at first. There are many misconceptions about these issues.


For those who are not familiar with what a sissy fantasy is, it’s one subset of crossdressing (which we’ve covered before here at SK in many articles) in which a straight male not only dresses up as a woman, but wants to live the role of a stereotypical sissy girl, often with a femdom creating the scene.

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Rape Fantasies Are Normal, Even If You've Been Raped

Rape Fantasies Are Normal, Even If You've Been Raped | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
If you were following along with the Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination conversation, you know that I asked Miss Pearl to write a bit about rape fantasies ~ specifically male rape fantasies....
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NWS, but great for those who have suffered rape or other sexual trauma -- or have partners who have.

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I Before E, Except After BDSM: Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination

I Before E, Except After BDSM: Lifestyle BDSM Vs Professional Domination | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

This is especially true when it comes to relationships ~ including those of professional variety, i.e. those involving the paid services of sex workers. After all, other than the golden rules of respect and consent, there are not as many hard and fast “rules” or “facts” when it comes to the ins and outs of human interaction as there are to the more physical ins and outs of screwing. With relationships, it’s even more like “I before E, except after C”. …And with D/s, it can get even weirder. (That’s a play on the spelling rule, not a judgement!) Be that as it may, I’ll try to clarify some of the rules of BDSM engagements based on the articles I recently discovered.

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Ello. | seductivedomme: I just need to taste you.

Ello. | seductivedomme: I just need to taste you. | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it
seductivedomme:
“I just need to taste you.
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Bondassage

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Ever wondered what it might be like to surrender and explore your sensual desires? Are you ready to discover a world of blissful intensity and intimacy? Bondassage combines innovative massage techniques with, rhythmic body percussion, slow luxurious flogging, and a delicious menu of skilled sensation play.


Bondassage takes the receiver on a journey of sensation surprises. With Bondassage you may have a receiver who is a seasoned traveler in the bdsm realm but wants something different, or they are brand new and want to be introduced gently to percussion play, anal exploration, and bondage. Either way, you can create the Bondassage session that best suits them. You will have all the tools and ideas to take those you touch toward their known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that is kind, safe, and full of surprises.


Elysium is also a journey of sensation, but based in relaxation. A gentle, supremely slow passage to the edge and back ~ over and over and over. It is a blend of light Swedish effleurage strokes, soft sensual music, and conscious touch with the intent to relax and simultaneously engage your partner’s nerve endings and pleasure response.

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Based on the book: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1937965198/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1937965198&linkCode=as2&tag=sexkitten-20


Training also available.

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CONSENT and BDSM: The State of the Law

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BDSM activity, even where clearly consensual, can be and frequently is prosecuted under state criminal laws dealing with assault, aggravated assault, sexual assault or sexual abuse. Such criminal prosecution can arise in various circumstances, including

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USA legal issues

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Ok Rain, seriously, what is with all the vomit?? | dirty words

Ok Rain, seriously, what is with all the vomit?? | dirty words | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

I DON’T have a puke fetish. Puke is nasty & messy & you have to stop everything to clean it up.


I have a CONTROL fetish. The concept of controlling someone so utterly that you literally control their bodily functions makes me hot.

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Black Leather Collar

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Soft black leather in a shirt collar design that has a velcro close and can be locked with the padlock. Collar is approximately 14 long (2
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Sexual Bondage: Arrow vs. Youtube

Sexual Bondage: Arrow vs. Youtube | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Which one of these images is an innocent Youtube video and which one is commercial bondage porn?


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For me the really spooky thing about these videos are wondering if any of them were made from women who were abducted and then filmed. I always think that, especially any for any more homemade looking video.
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Female Dominance Without Sneers

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Female Dominance Without Sneers: The thing I like about this femdom gallery is that Skin Diamond manages to slap and cane and generally dominate Sebastian Keys without ever once pulling out that tired old “femdom sneer”.
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Move over Fifty Shades, there's a brand new genre whipping the publishing ... - Evening Standard

Move over Fifty Shades, there's a brand new genre whipping the publishing ... - Evening Standard | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

“You will want to vomit.” That could easily have been the subtitle for Season to Taste, the novel — published later this month — that’s currently assuming “the next Fifty Shades of Grey” mantle. Instead, it’s a warning that the protagonist gives herself before she cooks and eats her husband. In fact, perhaps it should be pitched as a sequel to the Fifty Shades trilogy, where Ana finally snaps and turns Leatherface on her BDSM-loving beau. She did talk about Christian Grey-flavoured popsicles, after all.

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Bondage, surreal interracial sex and numerous sexual encounters, but Lars Von Trier’s Nymphomaniac is more Carl Dreyer than Russ Meyer

Bondage, surreal interracial sex and numerous sexual encounters, but Lars Von Trier’s Nymphomaniac is more Carl Dreyer than Russ Meyer | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

In advance of its arrival, Lars Von Trier’s two-part feature film Nymphomaniac has been generating huge amounts of controversy and speculation. The film is about the erotic life of a woman “from the age of zero to the age of 50.” And true to billing, it is very graphic in parts. It includes bondage, a surreal interracial sex sequence and footage of numerous other encounters.

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Review of the film.

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Acceptable Adult Pets

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“So, so, true. *Pets puppy’s head for being such a good boy and sending this to me*.
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Gloria Brame Discusses Sexual Freedom in America - Sex~Kitten.net

Gloria Brame Discusses Sexual Freedom in America - Sex~Kitten.net | Let's Get Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Gloria Brame, leading international authority on BDSM and fetish sex, talks culture and politics with Gracie.

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A few years ago, during the Bush administration, I asked Gloria the following: "In a time of vanilla politics, how would you evaluate the BDSM community reaction? Do you think folks are worried? Not taking it seriously? Is it an issue in your mind?"

 

I thought, given the times, it would be wise to revisit her response.

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