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The Teen Test for Your Leadership Skills

The Teen Test for Your Leadership Skills | Leading Choices | Scoop.it

Just how good of a leader are you? A quick test may be how well you are “leading” with your teenage son or daughter.

 

Leading as a parent is one of the most challenging, purpose-filled jobs we have. Maybe it is just me, but parenting changes when your child is in the middle of those teen years. When they were younger, we could just tell them what to do, and they acted without too much fuss. When they were younger, they looked up to us almost with admiration.

 

Well, something happens to our child around the age of 16, and we change, too. We shift from an autocratic leadership model to a coaching one.

 

Here’s what I mean. Leading teens becomes about four key things:

 

1. Setting boundaries

2. Upholding accountability

3. Guiding, not telling

4. Inspiring

 

Read the article for insights on each of the four elements, plus the added input from other voices in the comments.

 

Angie Mc's comment, January 5, 11:34 PM
Excellant guidance to help parents & teens transition into adult relationships. Thank you, Jon!
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The reverse commencement speech to leaders | SmartBlogs

The reverse commencement speech to leaders | SmartBlogs | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
We are entering the time of commencement speeches. Some may go viral while others will evaporate as soon as the words are spoken. It is an important time,
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What might a millennial leader tell an audience of Gen X and Boomer leaders? This commencement address to older leaders may be the way.

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The Four Questions Great Leaders Ask

The Four Questions Great Leaders Ask | Leading Choices | Scoop.it

The Four Questions Great Leaders AskThe wisest leaders ask the best questions“Judge a man by his questions rather than his answers.” —Voltaire

 

Ever notice how great leaders ask the best questions?


Via Annette Swann
Peg Gillard's curator insight, June 16, 11:13 AM

I used this to come up with questions that I could ask myself and others as an educational leader. 

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5 Ways to Create a Winning Culture

5 Ways to Create a Winning Culture | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
A strong culture isn't something you wish into place, or even will into place. It's something you build. Here's how.

Via John Michel
Scott Span, MSOD's comment, May 15, 10:53 AM
All great points... particularly # 3. Without trust, not much else can happen.
AlGonzalezinfo's curator insight, May 15, 1:17 PM

Tpotally agree with Don on item #5.  I also like #3.

 

Create an environment of trust.

Many organizations believe internal trust is nice to have but not a key factor for bottom line profitability. That simply isn’t true. Trust directly affects speed and cost. When trust diminishes, speed goes down and costs go up. These economic factors are usually disguised as other things, but when there isn’t trust between team members, or between the company and its customers, it is impossible to achieve real success. The myths are that trust is built solely on integrity, that you either have it or you don’t, that if lost it can’t be restored, and that it can’t be taught. The realities are that trust is a function of both character and competency, it can be both created and destroyed, it can be restored (in most cases), and be taught and developed into a measurable strategic advantage.

Mark Gregory , Programme Innovator's curator insight, May 24, 6:47 AM

5 steps to defining your winning culture explained succinctly for any leader looking to change their own organisational culture.

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Millennial Leaders: Welcome to the Arena - Thin Difference

Millennial Leaders: Welcome to the Arena - Thin Difference | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Millennial leaders or Gen Y leaders have received a lot of attention, good and bad. The important lesson is to lead from within the arena and lead well.
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As a Millennial leader, the arena is yours, the good stuff and the challenging stuff. What you do while in it is up to you. You can let the critics distract you or you can lead with the purpose instilled within you. You can embrace the characteristics seemingly given to you or you can reach out to other generations and engage in meaningful conversations.

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9 Qualities The Most Successful CEOs Share

9 Qualities The Most Successful CEOs Share | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Here's what it takes to be in the top 10%.
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Is Transparency Situational?

Is Transparency Situational? | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
One of the buzzwords for Organizational Development these days is "transparency." The concept is that organizations can gain higher trust with all stakeholders if they are more open and less secret...
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An interesting discussion of transparency and how much is enough given certain situations.

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12 Signs of Cowardly Leadership - Forbes

12 Signs of Cowardly Leadership - Forbes | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Courageous leadership. You hear that term a lot these days. It is a call to commit and act; to make hard choices and take risks; and to do what’s unpopular and right. Language can be a funny thing though.

Via Susan Bainbridge
Esther Turón Perez's comment, May 15, 11:22 AM
Thanks Robin for comments an Rescoop, ;P, There are a lot of narcissist at the world, XD.
Esther Turón Perez's comment, May 15, 11:48 AM
Scott for who is the question?
Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, May 16, 8:58 PM

We need courageous leadership, but lack it.

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Compassion: An Invaluable Leadership Attribute - General Leadership

Compassion: An Invaluable Leadership Attribute - General Leadership | Leading Choices | Scoop.it

Recent research confirms that leaders who exercise compassion produce loyal, dedicated, and passionate employees.


Via John Michel
John Michel's curator insight, May 3, 5:30 PM

Recent research confirms that leaders who exercise compassion produce loyal, dedicated, and passionate employees. In fact, numerous studies have found that workplaces led by compassionate bosses enjoy increased rates of employee satisfaction, greater employee engagement, lower levels of overall stress and fewer reported sick days.

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Letting Go with Grace

Letting Go with Grace | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
It’s been a tough week. Our son - the most remarkable, capable, smart, fun, likable, insightful young man I know (a completely unbiased assessment) -  m...
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The Next Generation of Business Leaders

The Next Generation of Business Leaders | Leading Choices | Scoop.it

MBAs–both the degrees and the people who have them–are an obsolete waste of time and money. An irrelevant recipe for failure. At least that’s what all the cool entrepreneurs and venture capitalists are saying. So what’s next? Learning to code and “lean startups.” Accelerators are the new b-school.

 

There’s just one problem though.

 

While creating a product and starting a company have never been easier, building and sustaining a business have never been harder. And lean is not everything. That means business education has never been more important. But first, both b-schools and companies need to learn some new tricks.


Via Vicki Kossoff @ The Learning Factor
Robin Martin's comment, May 1, 12:40 PM
Wow...will we ever find the real "balance?"
Vicki Kossoff @ The Learning Factor's comment, May 1, 6:12 PM
Hmm, finding the real "balance"?? The illusive goal!
michaelpohl360's curator insight, May 3, 4:03 AM

Though I don't like statements such as one "must" and companies "have to", I believe that the overall view is correct. The world's changing, business environment is changing as well. New leadership skills are required that were not taught in public schools at all but neither at business schools yet.

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Shape Your Identity Or It Will Shape You

Shape Your Identity Or It Will Shape You | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
“Keep your identity small.” — Paul Graham“Identity” has become somewhat of a dirty word, especially in Silicon Valley circles. In many minds, the word “identity

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Wise Leader™'s curator insight, April 15, 11:28 AM

Have an identity and hold it loosely, but don't let your identity have you!

Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, April 15, 4:51 PM

I prefer the word 'mindful' rather than 'thoughtful'. It is a big difference. I see thoughtful as being part of mindful. The author makes a good point about networks and communities being different. This means we can behave and act differently. Networks may or may not be able to hold people to account whereas a community might be able to.

Rim Riahi's curator insight, April 15, 11:54 PM

“Keep your identity small.” — Paul Graham“Identity” has become somewhat of a dirty word, especially in Silicon Valley circles. In many minds, the word “identity

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A new view of Leadership

A new view of Leadership | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
For every Winston Churchill, there is a Fred Goodwin. What makes some leaders soaraway successes, while others crash and burn?
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Four Traits of Collaborative Leaders

Four Traits of Collaborative Leaders | Leading Choices | Scoop.it

Successful collaboration requires leadership. This excerpt from a book by Cisco executives Ron Ricci and Carl Wiese explains the key behaviors that leaders must exhibit to support and enhance collaboration.


Via Kenneth Mikkelsen
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Great traits:

- Focus on authentic leadership and eschew passive aggressiveness

- Relentlessly pursue transparent decision making

- View resources as instruments of action, not as possessions

- Codify the relationship between decision rights, accountability and rewards

Belinda MJ.B's curator insight, April 23, 9:14 AM

Values and energy based coaching enable individual to authentic leadership.

 

To overcome the limitations you must understand quickly what is at stake, how to build trust in a short period of time to collaborate and innovate in a fast moving globalized world.

 

www.equanimityexecutive.com

 

 

Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, April 23, 7:12 PM

I don't see much evidence in education that small groups are disrupting the status quo. It is more entrenched than ever.

 

Rim Riahi's curator insight, April 24, 12:10 AM

Successful collaboration requires leadership. This excerpt from a book by Cisco executives Ron Ricci and Carl Wiese explains the key behaviors that leaders must exhibit to support and enhance collaboration.

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Relationships Are More Important Than Ambition

Relationships Are More Important Than Ambition | Leading Choices | Scoop.it

Ambition drives people forward; relationships and community, by imposing limits, hold people back. Which is more important?


Via Kenneth Mikkelsen
David Hain's curator insight, June 16, 7:13 AM

Both!

John Michel's curator insight, June 16, 10:39 AM

In Canada and the United States, having frequent contact with neighbors was associated with higher levels of well-being, as was the feeling of truly belonging in a group. "If everyone in a community becomes more connected, the average level of subjective well-being would increase."

Carolyn Williams's curator insight, June 16, 2:00 PM

Great question

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When Stress Strikes: 10 Questions To Help You Take Better Care of Yourself

When Stress Strikes: 10 Questions To Help You Take Better Care of Yourself | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Self-care is the basis for our well-being. And when stress strikes, we especially need to attend to our emotional, physical and spiritual needs and practice nourishing, healthy habits.
But, for many of us, that’s exactly when our self-care dips.

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John Michel's curator insight, June 13, 11:53 AM

When you’re facing a difficult situation or any kind of stressor, it helps to know exactly what and who will bring you the most comfort and let you express your feelings healthfully and safely.

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Teaching is Leading

Teaching is Leading | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
In the Lead Change Google+ community, we host a Question of the Week. It is a time for people to stop, think, write, and exchange ideas and insights. It...
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Leadership in a Crisis – How To Be a Leader - Management - WSJ.com

Leading an organization through a crisis is a huge challenge for any manager. Here are seven key lessons for crisis leadership.
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7 great lessons in leading through a crisis.

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Leading Blog: A Leadership Blog

Leading Blog: A Leadership Blog | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
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"We must be able to experience ourselves in relation to other people if we are to have a genuine understanding of who we are and why we do what we do."

Eric Vanetti's curator insight, May 17, 9:50 AM

Highlights the impact of feedback on our self-awareness - a key characteristic of effective leaders.

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Leadership Innovation 2.0

Leadership Innovation 2.0 | Leading Choices | Scoop.it

Economic unrest, changing market conditions and tough competition mean companies have to change their approach to leadership and equip leaders to get by in a new business environment.


Via Kenneth Mikkelsen
Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, May 16, 8:46 PM

We need to do more than just get by. That is part of the problem.

Kenneth Mikkelsen's comment, May 17, 4:37 AM
Thanks for your comments, Ivon and John. Best, Kenneth
Peg Gillard's curator insight, May 18, 8:47 AM

As our culture changes, so too must our leadership.

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The Leader's Intellectual Health

The Leader's Intellectual Health | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Intellectual health flows from deep curiosity, an adaptive mindset & paradoxical thinking, helping leaders to create dialogue & insight for intelligent change.

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donhornsby's curator insight, May 12, 9:01 AM

(From the Article): Are you deeply curious? Do you respond to challenges with openness? Do you ask powerful questions? 


Or do you want just the facts? When challenged, do you defend yourself and attack the other person? Do you have more answers than questions?


I encourage you to cultivate your curiosity as a leader and to promote a spirit of inquiry among those you lead. Make extra effort to explore an issue before deciding. And, when someone disagrees with you, see that as a gift.

John Michel's curator insight, May 12, 11:18 AM

Intellectual curiosity, at its deepest, reaches outward and inward.

There is an external openness. The leader has a willingness to explore the unknown – seeking new situations, new data and new insights from others. When challenged, the leader wants to explore the differences.

And there is also be an internal openness to new ways of thinking. The leader is willing to challenge her own biases. The leader is willing to approach an issue with alternative perspectives.

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How positive psychology is transforming the way we think about leadership

How positive psychology is transforming the way we think about leadership | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Guest blogger: Bridget Grenville-Cleave, Open University Business School MBA Alumna, MAPP graduate of the University of East London, is a UK-based positive psychology consultant, trainer and writer...

Via Kasia Hein-Peters
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Innovation by Working Together

Innovation by Working Together | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Most companies continue to assume that innovation comes from individual genius. But most innovations are created through groups of people working in concert.
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Important insights on innovation, collaboration, and leadership. All are necessary components for successful organizations, teams, and individuals.

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Core Principles of Acceptance & Commitment Training (ACT)

Core Principles of Acceptance & Commitment Training (ACT) | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Overcome Negative Thinking & Emotional Barriers to Life Success

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Melanie Greenberg's curator insight, May 2, 12:03 AM

Tips and Tools to Help You Accept What You Can't Change and Commit to Changing What You Can't Accept

David Hain's curator insight, May 2, 1:30 AM

Very timely for me just now, and excellent advice!

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How to Really Understand Someone Else's Point of View

How to Really Understand Someone Else's Point of View | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
It's a necessary prerequisite for persuasion. (Good post on how to understand another's point of view.

Via Karen Dietz
SooJin-Stella Lee's comment, April 30, 7:08 AM
Thank you ^^ I definitely need these sort of information. And I learend lots of things from your strategies to do well in scoop.it.
Karen Dietz's comment, April 30, 11:47 AM
My pleasure Soo-Jin. Keep up the good work!
Alison Gilbert's curator insight, May 2, 4:24 PM

Put yourself in the other person's shoes.

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Servant Leadership: Authenticity and the Spiritual Journey

Servant Leadership: Authenticity and the Spiritual Journey | Leading Choices | Scoop.it
Leading with a Noble Purpose and pursuing a life of service to others only becomes authentic, dynamic and revitalizing when your spiritual practice evolves to the higher stages.

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