I'm not very fashionable. I am, however, verbally fashionable. I notice and analyze language, its cadence and connotation, both spoken and written.
Ivon Prefontaine's insight:
Yes, we do need to pause, but it is not just the young people. I know one highly regarded blogger who is not a young person. He is approaching 40 and I am not sure from what side. The only adjective he knows is 'amazing'. We all need to pause. Children to learn. Adults to set the right examples and be strong role models. When this was pointed out by me to this highly regarded educational blogger and advocate of change, he attempted to bully and threaten me electronically.
“Before we can teach a kid how to academically excel in school, we need to teach him how to have stillness, pay attention, stay on task, regulate, make good choices,” said Larochette. “We tell kids be quiet, calm yourself down, be still. We tell them all these things they need in the classroom, but we’re not teaching them how to do that.”
Asking questions and waiting for answers is incredibly challenging work. Too often, we lose sight of this in the busyness of work. I found it was important to ask, listen, wait, and create spaces for students. It was easy to tell them what good questions were, but modeling it was more important and hard work.
By Daniel Goleman Today's executives operate in an atmosphere of distraction more intense than ever. HR can help keep these workers focused, but in order to see solutions, they need to first analyze the problems.
We do have to be careful that the corporate bottom line does not become the focus. Mindfulness is about being a better person and helping create a better world. That might result in a better corporate bottom line, but that is not the objective.
I took a doctoral level course called the Tao of Leadership and it was an incredibly insightful course. I wrote a capstone paper about teaching as a spiritual calling and used Taoist philosophy to support my thinking.
Much attention is paid to the tactics of ethics – the ethics codes, compliance plans and such. We can easily begin to think that ethics is something we can see and touch. Something finite. Something written in stone. Something outside of ourselves.
Ethics is what we bring to the table and conversations that result. We respond in responsible ways. I was discussing this today about being a teacher. Pressed for time, teachers sometimes forget who they are, what they contribute to conversations, and the importance of setting an ethical example.
What goes around comes around. We create the world we live in and at the same time the world creates us. We are not separate, but are part of this world. This is what makes the role of School so interesting. It is as if we can separate teachers and students from life and it has no consequences.
It’s an awkward moment; after explaining that mindfulness techniques in the workplace have moved a long way from their Buddhist meditation roots, the instructor of our small introductory class rings a …
Compassion is hard work and complements passion. Without the two, teaching becomes technique and is about inputs and outputs. With them integrated, teaching is relational and moves beyond inputs and outputs.
Meditation is a great mindfulness practice. The idea is to learn to focus solely on the present by paying close attention to your breath. Well, the great thing about focus is that if you really focus on one thing, you can’t be focused on anything else, right?
Dentist chairs are not my favourite place, but, after I began meditating regularly, I found I was calmer in the chair. Students who struggle with their learning might be helped through meditation as well.
In a sense education is a spiritual event. We are always being and becoming in the world. This connects us and we are trying to be a 'better' person. I don't see the current school model is serving the purpose and, in fact, see it as a barrier.
Which do you want first: the good news or the bad news?
I guess it’s conventional to share the not-so-good news with you first, so here it goes. I’d like to share a shocking statistic with you about something I read.
The National Science Foundation has recently discovered that we have between 30,000 and 70,000 thoughts in a day, and it has been estimated that the ratio of these thoughts which are negative could be somewhere between 60 to 80 percent.
Of course this figure depends very much on a person’s particular state of mind. I usually consider myself to be a particularly positive person but when I read these statistics, I was staggered.
What on earth are we thinking about?
Now I know that readers of this site are always in favor of tipping the scales towards the positive, so the good news is that there are plenty of ways for us to stay out of the negative thought zone. So without further ado, here are my top three: 1) Don’t Join The Conversation
This first tip sounds like I am suggesting we become somewhat antisocial, but what I am really suggesting is staying away from “toxic conversation content.”
Let me explain.
Have you ever noticed that when people you know get together in groups, the conversation often turns around to things such as bitching about the opposite sex, their job security and how much they hate the government?
Unfortunately, it’s such a common feature of our modern social life that we become oblivious after a while. But it’s funny how the words that other people speak on a regular basis have a tendency to find their way into our consciousness.
We all use conversation to satisfy some subconscious needs including looking for validation of our limiting beliefs, so it’s a good idea to be mindful of the conversations that are happening around us. You may need to distance yourself from some people. This may make you a little unpopular at first, but you’re not doing anyone any favors by joining in.
Offer something positive instead, or ask your friends (in a nice way) why we often choose to share negative news. You’ll find that it’s really only the hard cases that will react badly to your suggestion (and they probably annoy everybody anyway). 2) Re-frame any negative situations
Another way to stop negative thoughts from overtaking you is to use a technique I borrowed from NLP called reframing. It basically means finding a different context for a disappointing experience. Let’s consider the example of a breakup. When something like this happens—sure it’s bad but rather than reveling in the misery of it, we can choose to re-frame it.
Let me tell you something. I had a little breakup recently. Okay, it was only a little one, no drama, but I could have gone to pieces over it. But the way I looked at it was that it gave me time to re-group, get cracking on some of my projects and, most importantly, clear the air for other things to come along.
I always believe that when something like a relationship decides to leave my life, then it is really clearing the air for something better to come along or that I am one step closer to meeting my ideal mate. This process is called re-framing and it’s the best way to nip a negative thought in the bud before it becomes a big issue. Of course sometimes we want to feel sad for a couple of days, and it is okay to go with it, but we should make sure we observe what’s going on inside in order to get a better perspective. 3) Hold onto a positive thought for seventeen seconds
There’s a Law of Attraction guru out there called Esther Hicks who recommends this for being able to manifest things we desire. While I believe this is true, I also think it’s one of the best antidotes to negative thinking there is.
According to her, if you can hold a thought consistently for seventeen seconds, at that seventeen second point, another thought of the same vibrational frequency will join it.
Because these two thoughts are vibrationally the same and the longer you do this technique, the more positive thoughts you will create and this happens exponentially.
Now that’s quite a claim and if you are like me, you’re probably wondering how on earth they were able to discover this. But is it really important how? I have tried this exercise and I can tell you that when I finally achieved a 17-second thought, I felt supercharged with positive energy, so thinking positively just came naturally after that
So there you have it. Three effective strategies for preventing negative thoughts from sabotaging your life. Of course, there are others such as the Sedona technique, but these three are the ones I have always found to be the most effective. Oh, and one more piece of advice:
Don’t stress about having a negative thought. It’s normal to think negative thoughts sometimes and that is Okay. You are human. Stressing about having negative thoughts will just lead to guess what? That’s right, more negative thoughts and these ones will be supercharged because stress is a low-energy vibration. Instead, acknowledge them and then try to move into a state of relaxation while you try one of the techniques mentioned above.
These techniques ought to nip those negative thoughts in the bud.
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