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Getting into the Flow State: Motivation, Confidence and Imagery

Getting into the Flow State: Motivation, Confidence and Imagery | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

Have you ever been lost in the moment, completely absorbed in what you’re doing? This phenomenon is called 'flow'. It occurs when your skill level and the challenge at hand are equal.


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David Hain's curator insight, May 24, 1:14 AM

The beauty and benefits of going with the flow...

Carolyn Williams's curator insight, May 28, 8:33 AM

Keeping the flow

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Choose a 30 day challenge and change your life in a month

Choose a 30 day challenge and change your life in a month | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
Pick your 30 day challenge -- do it every day for 30 days -- change your life in a month

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Seven Ways to Make a Great First Impression.

Seven Ways to Make a Great First Impression. | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

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Alain Theriault MBA's curator insight, May 15, 8:33 AM

Yes it's back to basics but, if you think you are not making a good impression as you would like, take a good hard look at each of these and ask yourself, which one you should improve on!

Chuck Devers's curator insight, May 19, 5:09 AM

First impressions are critical- Remember, you can't "Un-ring the bell"

Joy Moore's curator insight, May 22, 4:46 PM

Great tips for both interviews and networking

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13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life.

 

Check out these things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become more mentally strong.


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donhornsby's curator insight, June 23, 6:10 AM

(From the article): Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive. They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.

Michael Binzer's curator insight, June 24, 12:33 AM

I like this article. In gives inspiration and highlights the need to be in touch with yourself

Joe Boutte's curator insight, June 24, 4:40 AM

Everyday leadership requires mental strength and stamina, or more simply, perseverance.  The 13 things that mentally strong people don't do is a great reminder of how to keep your wits about you and persevere through the daily struggles of life and leadership.

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Six Secrets to Winning at Office Politics

Six Secrets to Winning at Office Politics | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
The most qualified people don’t always get the most done or earn the best promotions. We all know someone who got promoted because they knew the right person. Being great at your job is essential, ...
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No Managers? No Hierarchy? No way! - Forbes

No Managers? No Hierarchy? No way! - Forbes | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
No Managers? No Hierarchy? No way!
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In networked organizations, where work is self-managed, there are still managers. The managers have become enablers of self-managing teams and networks rather than controllers of individuals.

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Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, April 19, 10:37 PM

The world is inherently hierarchical, but those hierarchies can be quite fluid. I wonder what schools would look like without managers, consultants, and outside experts?

Ali Anani's curator insight, April 20, 9:17 PM

Enablers are the new faces of managers

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3 étapes pour une détox mentale | Le Blog de Coaching Go

3 étapes pour une détox mentale | Le Blog de Coaching Go | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
3 étapes pour une détox mentale et enfin mettre au placard ses mauvaises habitudes !
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Looking To Motivate Someone To Change? Try Motivational Interviewing

Looking To Motivate Someone To Change?  Try Motivational Interviewing | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
You can't force anyone to change but you can influence them with motivational interviewing.

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Les 18 règles de vie du Dalai-Lama à partager le plus possible

Les 18 règles de vie du Dalai-Lama à partager le plus possible | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
  Le Dalaï-Lama, grand ambassadeur de l’humanisme dans le monde entier est une figure emblématique pour bon nombre d’entre nous. Ses philosophies sont évocatrices de paix de partage et d’échange.

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Christian Allié's curator insight, March 30, 5:40 AM

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3. Suivez les trois R : 

Respect de soi – La confiance est la clé de la réussite et si une personne ne se respecte pas, vous ne pouvez pas croire en elle. Ainsi, si vous ne vous respectez pas, vous ne pouvez pas réaliser de grandes choses puisque vous ne pouvez respecter les autres.

Respect des autres – Et vous serez respectés en retour. Si vous ne retournez pas le respect des autres, certains présumeront qu’ils ne valent pas la peine d’être respectés, et de ce fait, ils ne se respecteront pas.

Responsabilité pour toutes vos actions – Vous êtes seul responsable de vos sentiments, de vos actions, de votre réussite, etc. Vous contrôlez totalement votre vie, il ne faut pas essayer de blâmer les autres pour ses erreurs et ses malheurs.

 

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PhotoSphEric's curator insight, April 5, 1:51 AM

Règle N°5. Apprenez les règles pour savoir comment les transgresser correctement. 

Les règles sont faites pour être transgressées. La plupart d’entre elles sont mis en place par les anciens établissements corrompus qui ne cherchent qu’à asservir et maintenir leur propre pouvoir. Quand il s’agit de transgresser les règles, faites-le correctement pour éviter les répressions. Mais par-dessus toutes choses, assurez-vous que vous le faites dans les règles. Si l’autorité n’avait jamais été remise en question, nous serions une civilisation stagnante.

Claire Mignot's curator insight, May 14, 5:13 AM

.... et votre vie changera....

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These Simple 3 Words Can Change The Life Of All The Young And Ambitious

These Simple 3 Words Can Change The Life Of All The Young And Ambitious | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

Sometimes, the young and ambitious ones become frustrated as they see the world and face the reality. But don’t you get demotivated yet! I have three words to change your life: create, big, and defy. Have you got three minutes?


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Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, March 15, 10:50 AM

The article puts a different spin on the way we influence things. It is less about work and being in a personal creative space.

TonyDeblauwe's curator insight, March 21, 8:38 AM

Works for anyone I think - only control what you can

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Tapping the power of hidden influencers | McKinsey & Company

Tapping the power of hidden influencers | McKinsey & Company | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
A tool social scientists use to identify sex workers and drug users can help senior executives find the people most likely to catalyze—or sabotage—organizational-change efforts. A McKinsey Quarterly article.

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The Paradox of Choice

Psychologist Barry Schwartz takes aim at a central tenet of western societies: freedom of choice. In Schwartz's estimation, choice has made us not freer but more paralyzed, not happier but more dissatisfied.

 


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Ignasi Alcalde's curator insight, March 5, 4:27 PM

Elegir no nos hace libres.

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Comment gérer les six personnalités les plus courantes

Comment gérer les six personnalités les plus courantes | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
Besoin de sensations fortes, de reconnaissance ou de solitude... Chacun dans l'équipe a des moteurs puissants qui l'aident à s'épanouir au travail et à rester efficace. Comment les repérer et les stimuler ? Les conseils de Valérie Moissonnier, coach de dirigeants à l'Institut du Selfcoaching.

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Damien Colmant's curator insight, March 4, 4:17 AM

Excellent biller tiré de la Process Comm! Des astuces pour motiver et recarder chacun des 6 types de personnalité.

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RSA Animate - The Power of Outrospection

Introspection is out, and outrospection is in. Philosopher and author Roman Krznaric explains how we can help drive social change by stepping outside ourselv...

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How to Move People with Integrity: The Art of Persuasion, Animated

How to Move People with Integrity: The Art of Persuasion, Animated | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
"Like it or not, we're all in sales right now… whether we're teachers or art directors or in healthcare." "Temperament, whether individ (How to move people with integrity – Dan Pink on the art of persuasion, animated

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8 Really Effective Tricks to Boost Your Courage

8 Really Effective Tricks to Boost Your Courage | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

Is fear holding you back from trying something new or going after what you really want? Here are some ways to get past it.

 

I hate fear. Fear has cost me a hefty sum in dental bills from grinding my teeth. Fear interferes with sleep, digestion, and many other things that make life worth living. When you examine some of the worst things human beings have done, you'll often find fear as the root cause. There's no doubt about it: Fear sucks.

 

Here's what's worked best for me over the years. (And if you've found something else that works, I'd love to hear it!)

1. Ask yourself: Should I take action to solve this fear?


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Vicki Kossoff @ The Learning Factor's curator insight, May 8, 4:26 PM

No doubt about it, fear sucks. Here's how to put it in its place.

David Hain's curator insight, May 9, 3:21 AM

"Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear." ~ Mark Twain



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Are You Too Tentative? Four Ways To Take Smarter Risks, Not Just Safe Ones

Are You Too Tentative? Four Ways To Take Smarter Risks, Not Just Safe Ones | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
When weighing a risk, potential losses tend to loom larger than potential gains. That is, we tend to focus more on what might go wrong ? what we might lose or sacrifice ? than what might go right.

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What Strong Emotions Reveal About the Way You Work

What Strong Emotions Reveal About the Way You Work | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
These seven emotions tell you what you're doing wrong (and right) in the office.
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Ali Anani's curator insight, April 20, 9:14 AM

Are you doing OK in the office?

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The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg

The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
Award-winning New York Times reporter Charles Duhigg takes us to the edge of scientific discoveries that explain why habits exist & how they can be changed.

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Eric Van Camp's curator insight, April 15, 11:33 PM

Habits make or brake you. What habit do you want to change as a leader.
Is it the unintentionally provoking questions you raise every morning?
Is it the urge to micromanage every day, every hour, every minute?
Or are there any behaviors you would like to add....effortless.
Read the book, scan for your own patterns and add some strong new ones!

A book to read and to read over and over again!

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Définition du manipulateur

Définition du manipulateur | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
Définition du manipulateur en tant que personne utilisant et détournant certaines règles et normes sociales partagées pour son profit personnel (RT @Mlany4033: Définition du manipulateur http://t.co/kQgdlElCZS...

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Top 10 Ways to Make Your Boss Love You

Top 10 Ways to Make Your Boss Love You | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

Unless you're lucky enough to work for yourself, we all have a boss we have to answer to. Provided they're not the devil incarnate, there are quite a few ways to ensure you two have a good relationship.


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John Michel's curator insight, March 29, 12:52 PM

Unless you're lucky enough to work for yourself, we all have a boss we have to answer to. Provided they're not the devil incarnate, there are quite a few ways to ensure you two have a good relationship. Here's what you should keep in mind.P

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16 Body Language Tips to Improve Your Nonverbal Communication

16 Body Language Tips to Improve Your Nonverbal Communication | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

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Graeme Reid's curator insight, February 3, 3:10 PM

Some useful tips to communicate more powerfully.

Authentis Formations's curator insight, March 13, 1:38 AM

De bons conseils !

Richard Lock's curator insight, March 13, 1:59 AM

Think of reading body language as a detective trying to solve a crime. No one piece of evidence on its own is worth much. However, when several pieces of evidence point in the same direction - start paying attention.

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10 Simple Things You Can Be Grateful for Even When Times are Tough

10 Simple Things You Can Be Grateful for Even When Times are Tough | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
“Cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously. And because all things have contributed to your advancement, you should include all things in your gratitude.” Ralph Waldo Emerson Some

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Angie Mc's curator insight, March 13, 8:23 PM

Sweet, personal account of gratitude.

Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, March 14, 10:15 AM

It seems easier to complain than accept what we have with gratitude. This is an excellent article in pointing out was to life the ordinary to the extraordinary.

Vilma Bonilla's curator insight, March 18, 11:15 AM

Good stuff!

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3 Forces That Shape Character

3 Forces That Shape Character | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it

The input we consume - The relationships we pursue - The habits we acquire.


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Choose wisely !

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Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, March 4, 10:15 AM

There is a lot of truth in these three things. What we take in is often reflected in our interactions with the world and people.

Vittorio Grieco's curator insight, March 5, 8:01 AM
1. IDENTITY THE HABIT YOU’D LIKE TO TRANSFORM AND SET THE INTENTION.2. OBSERVE WHAT THE OLD HABIT OR PATHWAY IS DOING IN YOUR LIFE.3. SHIFT YOUR FOCUS.4. USE YOUR IMAGINATION.5. INTERRUPT YOUR THOUGHTS AND PATTERNS WHEN THEY ARISE.6. USE AVERSION THERAPY.7.  CREATE A SPECIFIC PLAN AND CHOOSE WHAT TO DO INSTEAD.8. TRANSFORM THE OBSTACLES.9. CONNECT WITH YOUR HIGHER SOURCE FOR INSPIRATION AND SUPPORT.10. TRANSFORM AND MAKE THE SHIFT.
MyKLogica's curator insight, March 6, 6:34 AM

#Leadership #Liderazgo


Un gran artículo, 100% recomendable con 3 claves claras y sencillas para ayudarnos a modelar nuestro carácter y personalidad.

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The Science of Emotion in Marketing: How We Decide What to Share and Whom to Trust

The Science of Emotion in Marketing: How We Decide What to Share and Whom to Trust | Influence vs manipulation | Scoop.it
To understand emotion in marketing, we have to understand the four emotions. Here's how happiness, sadness, fear and anger motivate us to action.

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