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Secrets Revealed: Why People Cheat

Secrets Revealed: Why People Cheat | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Why DO people cheat? A loaded question? Well, yes and no.  There's no doubt about it, people do cheat and the numbers are rising.  Most people would automatically group cheaters into the "asshole" ...

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This photo is really cringeworthy...

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Great advice from Single Dating Diva! 

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Cheating

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Why does everyone think that cheating is bad? We believe that if you're going to do it, then there's no sense in drowning yourself in guilt.

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Correct! Guilt is pointless

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lots of great articles in here ...

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Should I tell my friend that his boyfriend has an affair?

Should I tell my friend that his boyfriend has an affair? | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Hello everybody, I have the following Problem: We invited my friend and her boyfriend to dinner las weekend. She is a very good friend, we used to (Should I tell my friend that his boyfriend has an affair?
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Keep your mouth shut and drink your wine..

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Katie Hopkins on adultery: "We're all cheats at heart"

Katie Hopkins on adultery: "We're all cheats at heart" | Infidelity | Scoop.it
However, she says she will not cheat again as she has "too much to lose".
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This woman is a born sexual cheat but gutsy with it

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4 Things to Do Now to Improve Your Online Dating Profile

4 Things to Do Now to Improve Your Online Dating Profile | Infidelity | Scoop.it
As an online dating coach, one of the biggest complaints I hear from men is that after a while, every profile they view looks the same. There are too many choices and their searching process becomes so blurry.

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Yeah - put effort into dating profiles it make a big difference

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Untrue.com Review – My True Experience with Untrue…

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Obviously another rubbish affiliate style adult dating site sucking money from hopeful punters.

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7 Ways To Divorce-Proof Your Marriage

7 Ways To Divorce-Proof Your Marriage | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Everyone knows that divorce is rampant in America; what they don't know is that many of those divorces could be avoided. Here are seven steps you can take to divorce-proof your marriage.
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How to Cuddle with a Woman After Sex

How to Cuddle with a Woman After Sex | Infidelity | Scoop.it

"You might've made her toes curl, but there's a good chance you're blowing what comes next, Captain DeathSpoon. Lindsay Nolan explains what it takes to make a woman happy in bed once the fun part's over"

 

Thousands of years, yet men and women still haven't figured out how to sleep together after we've slept together. I want to say that both sexes are equally to blame. But I've been with men who snored when drunk, who commandeered the thermostat, and who warned me that "the involuntary twitch in my left knee might result in me literally kicking your ass." Alas, I'm starting to think this is all you guys' fault.


Read More http://www.gq.com/news-politics/mens-lives/201308/how-to-cuddle-with-a-woman-after-sex-august-2013#ixzz2bRhWExjy

 


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Suprising how many men get this bit wrong

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Indonesian province bans female secretaries

Indonesian province bans female secretaries | Infidelity | Scoop.it

The governor of an Indonesian province on Saturday said he had ordered his top staff to replace their female secretaries with men following a string of extra-marital affairs.


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I have this vision of businesmen in Indonesia chasing secretaries around the desk - workplace harrassment?

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Anthony Weiner And The Embarrassing Problem Of 'Premature Explanation'

Anthony Weiner And The Embarrassing Problem Of 'Premature Explanation' | Infidelity | Scoop.it


"The world of out of control self-destructive sexual behavior is much bigger than the simple decision tree of addict or not, and if addict, in recovery or not."

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Not a sex addict more an idiot!

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Hacker Forces Colin Powell To Deny Affair

Hacker Forces Colin Powell To Deny Affair | Infidelity | Scoop.it
AUGUST 1--As a notorious hacker seeks to distribute “very personal” e-mails sent to Colin Powell by a female Romanian diplomat, the retired general is denying that he engaged in an extramarital affai...
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'I want a world where disabled people are valid sexual partners'

'I want a world where disabled people are valid sexual partners' | Infidelity | Scoop.it

Recent reports that a care home procured sex workers for its disabled residents and new film The Sessions have put disability and sex in the spotlight. But is the focus on prostitution helpful? 

 

Ash King felt as if he had spent his adult life searching for some sort of sexual intimacy. Born with a severe spinal and muscular condition, sexwas something he still hadn't experienced by the age of 35 and he was afraid that, with his disability making him increasingly weak, he never would. In 2010, after becoming isolated and depressed, King decided to hire a sex worker.

 

"I couldn't make someone fall in love with me," he says, "but I could at least learn about my sexual potential and more about women by paying a sex worker." Looking back at his first sexual encounter, King describes it as an "enlightenment".

 

The sexual needs of people with disabilities are under the spotlight like never before after the release of Oscar-nominated film The Sessions, which is based on the true of story of a man confined to an iron lung who loses his virginity to a "sexual surrogate". And last month, ex-staff from a care home in Eastbourne, in East Sussex, told the press they had allowed sex workers into the home at the request of disabled residents. Helena Barrow, ex-manager of the Chaseley, a nursing home for 55 people with neurological problems and learning difficulties, called it the residents' "special visit", and said it helped them to relieve a "primeval need they cannot fulfil".

 

The Chaseley Trust, which runs the home, denies procuring prostitutes for its residents. But its chief executive, Sue Wyatt, said in a written statement: "We are acutely aware of the rights of disabled people and where an individual expresses a wish to have a physical relationship and we can safely and legally support them with their partner, we will do so."

King found his sexual surrogate online, through the TLC Trust, a UK organisation that seeks to connect people with disabilities to sex workers. According to its founder, sex therapist Tuppy Owens, each of the 100 sex workers listed on the website could be seeing around eight disabled clients a month. "Finding a sex worker who will talk, teach, accept … is a bit of a boost of confidence and self-esteem," she says.

 

Becky Adams, who describes herself as a former madam, runs a not-for-profit, telephone-based service supported by TLC, and says she receives about 12 inquiries a week from disabled and vulnerable people looking for a trusted sex worker. She plans to open the first brothel designed for disabled clients in the UK next year. She says she wants to provide an environment in which people with disabilities can explore theirsexuality. "That can be sex," she says, "but also having a cuddle. It could even be someone having an hour cross-dressing who wouldn't normally have the privacy to. I've been overwhelmed by the response we've had."

 

One of her clients, Chris Fulton, 29, who has cerebral palsy and muscular dystrophy, has launched a campaign calling on the government to introduce a Netherlands-style grant scheme in which citizens with disabilities receive public money to pay for sexual services up to 12 times a year. But disability charities say the issue is not a priority. Richard Hawkes, chief executive of the disability charity Scope, says: "We need to break through taboos around disability and sex. But it's impossible to have any kind of relationship if you don't have the support you need to get out of bed, get washed and dressed, have a proper meal and get out of the house. At the same time, many disabled people are worrying how they'll pay the bills. Living costs are spiralling, jobs are hard to come by and the government is cutting disability living allowance and employment and support allowance."

 

In the UK, paying for sex is not against the law but it is illegal to solicit sexual services. Amanda Smith, an escort in her 40s from south London, who has a listing on the TLC website, says: "For some men, the only touch they've ever had is their mum bathing them." Talking about the practicalities of providing sexual services to disabled clients, she says: "I've lifted grown men who weighed less than a five-year-old from their wheelchair to the bed, and then back again, fully dressed for the takeover by carers or family."

 

Some of the bookings are made by the parent of the client, says Smith – typically fathers. "Sex is a need, like food," she says. "If you can't quell it, it should be taken care of. It's cruel not to."

 

It is language that is rarely used in reference to women with disabilities. Owens says she would like to see this change, and has known disabled women who have used male escorts. But she acknowledges that many disabled women feared the risk of being abused. They "don't trust male sex workers to be honourable", she says. A rare survey of disabled people's attitudes to prostitution, conducted by Disability Now magazine in 2005, found that just 19% of women said they would see trained sex workers, compared with 63% of men.

 

Mik Scarlet, a writer and campaigner in sexuality and disability, sees the use of sex workers as a potentially harmful development. "It's like the world telling you that disabled people are so unsexy that the only way they can have sex is to pay for it," he says. "If you're growing up as a disabled child or someone who's just come to disability, how does that affect how you feel about yourself? I don't want a world where it's easier for disabled people to visit sex workers, I want a world that sees disabled people as sexual and valid prospective partners."

 

Penny Pepper, author of Desires Reborn, a fictional depiction of the relationships of a group of disabled characters, agrees: "What disabled people need is full and equal rights. An inclusive society, which doesn't create barriers." Forming sexual relationships, casual or committed, with mistakes is part of that, she says.

 

Laurence Clark, a comedian who has cerebral palsy and featured, along with his wife Adele who also has cerebral palsy, in BBC documentary We Won't Drop the Baby as they prepared for the birth of their second child, says many people with disabilities are in emotionally and sexually fulfilling relationships.

 

Before getting married, he says he had mixed experiences of dating. "I found the traditional ways that people find partners, such as going to clubs and bars, didn't really work for me, as attraction in those sorts of environments is very much based on looks," says Clark. "But like lots of people, I tended to date through people that I met at work and people in my social networks."

 

He says the media greatly affects disabled people's self-confidence, rarely portraying them in relationships or even as having sexual partners. "It's a sad reflection on society when a disabled person thinks that a sex worker is the only option for them," he adds.

 

King says he has always wanted a girlfriend. The severity of his disability means he is able to do little for himself, though, and he needs a live-in personal assistant and close contact with his parents, who live across the street from him. "I have a lack of personal privacy that would seem to be essential for [a relationship]," he says. He jokes that there's also the small matter of his body not having the shape that draws "admiring glances". "I've always tried to make light of it," he says. "I've longed to be in a relationship ever since I can remember. It felt, and still feels, impossible."

 

For him, being with a sex worker was a way to have at least some sexual experiences. "To think I could have gone through my life never having known [what sex is like] is frightening," he says. "Nobody should ever have to do so. It's too much part of being human."

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Married dating - are you truly ready?

David from www.lovinglinks.co.uk gives advice on having an adulterous affair. In this intimate and powerful video David, the founder of the lovinglinks affai...
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Cheating

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Are you sure you didn't do anything wrong? Would your partner agree?

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This is a really good article - where is the borederline on cheating? It varies amazingly from relationship to relationship..

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Husband sets wife ablaze for questioning him over extra-marital affair

Husband sets wife ablaze for questioning him over extra-marital affair | Infidelity | Scoop.it
A woman died after she was allegedly set ablaze by her husband following an argument over his extra-marital relationship, police said on Friday. The incident took place in Karni Vihar area on Thursday night.
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Pasadena City College porn professor admits sexting, extramarital affairs, will take time off

Pasadena City College porn professor admits sexting, extramarital affairs, will take time off | Infidelity | Scoop.it
PASADENA - Pasadena City Colleges porn professor Hugo Schwyzer announced he will take time off from teaching to deal with the fallout from a sexting scandal involving an adult film actress who offered to have sex with him in the college classroom.

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GwynethJones's curator insight, August 9, 2013 5:14 PM

Scandal. Porn. Ethics. Staggaring Hubris. It's all here, folks. One of the biggest lessons to be learned from this amazing opera-esque cacophony of bad choices is:

 

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Taking to Twitter in the midst of a potential breakdown is also not what accountability looks like by the way. It's another manipulation.

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Probe calls Strauss-Kahn 'kingpin' of illicit sex parties

Probe calls Strauss-Kahn 'kingpin' of illicit sex parties | Infidelity | Scoop.it
FRANCE - Investigators looking into an alleged prostitution ring in northern France for which Dominique Strauss-Kahn faces pimping charges will present evidence that the former IMF chief knew that...
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5 Reasons not to sign up for JustHookUp.com

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This site seems so scam and bogus I have never heard a good word about them - sites like this give the whole married dating business a bad reputation

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Scandal Recovery Memo for Politicians: Stop Engaging in Scandalous Behavior | FrontPage Magazine

Scandal Recovery Memo for Politicians: Stop Engaging in Scandalous Behavior | FrontPage Magazine | Infidelity | Scoop.it
First Weiner failed to get the memo and now Spitzer
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Khloe Kardashian's marriage rocked by new infidelity claims as lawyer alleges she had 'six-week summer affair' with Lamar Odom

Khloe Kardashian's marriage rocked by new infidelity claims as lawyer alleges she had 'six-week summer affair' with Lamar Odom | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Lamar Odom has been hit with fresh infidelity claims, as RadarOnline.com claim to have proof that the professional basketball player cheated on wife Khloe Kardashian with lawyer Polina Polonsky.
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Who are these people and do I really care???

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Can oral sex ward off infidelity? - Newstrack India

Can oral sex ward off infidelity? - Newstrack India | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Can oral sex ward off infidelity?
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Washington, July 4 (ANI): A new study has suggested that one of the reasons men perform oral sex on their female partners is to minimize the risk of infidelity.
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» Don’t Call it Hypersexuality: Why we Need the Term Sex Addiction - The Impact of Sex Addiction

» Don’t Call it Hypersexuality: Why we Need the Term Sex Addiction - The Impact of Sex Addiction | Infidelity | Scoop.it
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Sex addiction is a fascinating area of study - but is it a workable excuse if you get caught cheating?

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The cruel reality of living in an open marriage: Novelist and mother Olivia Fane loved their Bohemian lifestyle... until her beloved husband fell in love with a mistress

The cruel reality of living in an open marriage: Novelist and mother Olivia Fane loved their Bohemian lifestyle... until her beloved husband fell in love with a mistress | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Fane was in open marriage with writer Adam Nicolson from the age of 22, after the pair met at Cambridge. He was allowed one affair a year, she was permitted 10 kisses.
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This is 'planet daily mail' parallel reality!

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Relationship advice: The dangers of dating married men - TeleManagement

Relationship advice: The dangers of dating married men - TeleManagement | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Tips and advice for women who choose to date married men. He’s perfect, EXCEPT for being married. It goes without saying that being married to an unfaithful man is a problem, but dating a married man holds myriad issues as well.
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Nobody said dating was simple ;-)

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How did prime-time TV become an adulterer's paradise?

How did prime-time TV become an adulterer's paradise? | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Adultery is nothing new on television, but the proliferation of cheating as a plot point is making prime-time TV look like an ad for Ashley Madison, the online dating service for married folks, where the message is, "Life is short. Have an affair."

On "Homeland," the Iraq War hero turned secret terrorist falls into a reckless affair. Central characters on "The Good Wife," "Revenge," "Boss," "Ringer," "Nurse Jackie," "Justified" and even "The Walking Dead" engage in infidelity.

Cynicism about marriage is one of the factors leading to an increased depiction of adultery. "People believe marriages don't work anyway, so seeing affairs on TV kind of serves as a model for how things can and will go bad," said Julie Albright, a sociologist at USC.


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Adultery is always newsworthy I guess.

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