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Generation Hookup.

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“Romantic goals change from finding boyfriends to finding hook up buddies… a guy we don’t actually really like, but we think he is really attractive and hot and good in bed.”     ~ Student at University of Pennsylvania

 

"The death of love and romance for our youth is not really news. I have been witnessing the diminishing numbers of kids choosing to partner for over a decade within my own kids. They were among a small minority of their peers in high school that had steady boy and girl friends. As singles at the University, they both reported how dating was dead.

 

This generation of college students doesn’t believe in romance. How could they when everyone they know is hooking up? This new form of relationship is actually just sex without the relationship. "


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12 Subtle Signs You’re Being Manipulated By Your Lover

12 Subtle Signs You’re Being Manipulated By Your Lover | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Do you think you’re a victim of manipulation? Use these 12 subtle and yet shocking signs to find out if you’re being manipulated by your lover.

 

Sometimes, we end up manipulating our lovers to get things our way.

We may do it intentionally just for fun, in an obvious manner.

 

Or we may do it sneakily and subtly to get something without confronting out lovers.

 

And it’s all fun and games for a while, as long as both partners realize that one of them is being arm-twisted into giving in.

 

But where do you draw the line?

 

 


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Olympic transport boss accused of having nine-month affair with £140-an-hour prostitute

Olympic transport boss accused of having nine-month affair with £140-an-hour prostitute | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Rachael Grundy said she had a nine-month relationship with married Sir Peter Hendy, whose taxpayer-funded salary and bonus last year totalled more than £650,000.
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Mind-Reading: Don’t Try This at Home - Building Relationship Skills

Mind-Reading: Don’t Try This at Home - Building Relationship Skills | Infidelity | Scoop.it

Although most people realize that it is not reasonable to expect others to read their minds, that does not always stop them from becoming hurt or outraged when they don’t. Many of us possess an unconscious belief that when it comes to intimate relationships, mind reading is not only a legitimate expectation, and that it is also reasonable to to respond in accordance with unspoken needs and desires. Failure to do so can sometimes result in serious or even catastrophic breakdowns in one’s relationship. 


What we consciously think and what we unconsciously believe are often misaligned and in such cases, hidden expectations often trump rational thought. This can, as many of us have found out the hard way, lead to (ahem) “difficult” situations. For example:...


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I can read my girlfriend's mind and she isnt thinking about sex right now duh!

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10 Dating Rules That Have Changed Since You Were Married & Divorced

10 Dating Rules That Have Changed Since You Were Married & Divorced | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Dating after divorce sucks -- plain and simple. I am not speaking from personal experience, mind you. But at this point in my life, I have several clo...
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Most of these rules apply also to married dating 

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Fact behind Married Dating Men Find Women Online

Fact behind Married Dating Men Find Women Online | Infidelity | Scoop.it

Married dating solutions are ideal for those ladies who desire to connect and possess associations using other men, but at the same time do not want to wreck their marriages. The reasons why together men find women online on dating sites are mentioned here.

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The Increasing Number of Women Looking for Affairs | Visual.ly

The Increasing Number of Women Looking for Affairs | Visual.ly | Infidelity | Scoop.it
This is an infographic about the escalation of the number of women who get into affairs. According to UK surveys, 61% of women still find other men at
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Islamic Sharia Law Comes to Great Britain

Stoning for adultery. Amputations for theft. Death for apostates. And second-class status for Christians and Jews. This is life under Sharia law, the Islamic system practiced in countries like Iran, Saudi Arabia, and Great Britain.

Yes, Great Britain.


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Army relieves general following charges of adultery, involvement in physical altercation

Army relieves general following charges of adultery, involvement in physical altercation | Infidelity | Scoop.it
The Army is removing the one-star general in charge of its largest training post following his suspension in May over charges of adultery and involvement in a physical altercation.

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‘RHONJ’ Preview: Is Melissa Gorga Cheating On Joe? - TV Balla

‘RHONJ’ Preview: Is Melissa Gorga Cheating On Joe? - TV Balla | Infidelity | Scoop.it

Jan confronts Melissa at the Milania Hair Care event, where she accuses the ‘RHONJ’ star of meeting her ex behind Joe’s back! Is Teresa Giudice behind this latest accusation? Keep reading and watch the video!
Read more at http://www.tvballa.com/2013/08/105135/rhonj-preview-melissa-gorga-cheating-joe#o6OUMiX0KVHrgAml.99 ;


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Men obsessed with porn to meet the stars of sex films in Channel 4 date night

Men obsessed with porn to meet the stars of sex films in Channel 4 date night | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Frequent users of porn will be introduced to women who star in adult movies to see if they can distinguish between fantasy and real life.
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Like finding out that porn stars eat cornflakes for breakfast rather than start their morning with a blow job!!

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What to Do When an Affair Leads to a Relationship?

What to Do When an Affair Leads to a Relationship? | Infidelity | Scoop.it
LeAnn Rimes shook up her image last year when she started hooking up with Eddie Cibrian — who was married just like she was. Now that they're officially together, the newly divorced singer is facing some critics.
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Woman forced to remarry the husband who threw acid in her face after she divorced him for being unfaithful

Woman forced to remarry the husband who threw acid in her face after she divorced him for being unfaithful | Infidelity | Scoop.it
WARNING: GRAPHIC CONTENT. Nurbanu, 36 (pictured), was cooking at her home in Bangladesh when her ex-husband arrived and doused her with acid.

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15 Ways to Refuel the Relationship Tank.

15 Ways to Refuel the Relationship Tank. | Infidelity | Scoop.it

by Tawny Sanabria

 

"Ever wonder how your relationship went from kisses, smiles and fun, to way too much work?"

 

The good news is that you are not alone, and it’s pretty typical for the passion to wane as relationships grow in length.

We could look for the “why’s” in that all day long, but it really is not going to get us anywhere—and might even have us going ’round and ’round.

 

What we do know is that relationships ebb and flow. We've learned that the initial lust and passion that is felt at the beginning of the relationship is not sustainable and that love evolves throughout our lives.


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The Hoax of Digital Life

The Hoax of Digital Life | Infidelity | Scoop.it
The strange case of Manti Te’o's fake girlfriend reminds us why, when it comes to romance, eye contact is generally a good idea.
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Best Five Sites to Find the Perfect UK Hotel for a Romantic Affair

Best Five Sites to Find the Perfect UK Hotel for a Romantic Affair | Infidelity | Scoop.it
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So, you and your certain someone are planning a Mr & Mrs Smith reunion or holiday getaway. How exciting is that? If you an[..]
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How Self Respect Affects You and Your Relationship

How Self Respect Affects You and Your Relationship | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Self respect plays a very important part in relationships and happiness. Can you differentiate the line between giving in and losing your own respect?

 

by Allison Ricard

 

We’ve all heard this line before, that love needs understanding and compromise to be successful.


And it’s definitely true.


But love works best only when both partners understand each other and compromise for each other.


If you give while your partner only takes, no matter how compromising or caring you are, you can’t hold on to happiness forever.


And that’s where self respect comes into the picture.

 


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3 Little Words You Should Never Say On A First Date

3 Little Words You Should Never Say On A First Date | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Divorced or not, dating can be a daunting prospect in any circumstance. But there's one thing in particular that screams "RUN" that you should probably be aware of.

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TOPIC:  Obviously it's an excuse to take the bad first date stories.  Sidebar topic:  We had our first date and he/she never left my house and we have been living together ever since.

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'The bank gave me a mortgage as soon as I told them I was an escort', says prostitute who has slept with 900 men... as she reveals Valentine's was her busiest time - and her favourite client was a...

'The bank gave me a mortgage as soon as I told them I was an escort', says prostitute who has slept with 900 men... as she reveals Valentine's was her busiest time - and her favourite client was  a... | Infidelity | Scoop.it

Rebecca Dakin, 37, from Derbyshire, worked as an escort for nine yearsParents knew about her career - her mother dropped her at bus stop the day she saw her first clientCould earn £1,400 for one session. 'The bank gave me a mortgage straight away when they heard I was an escort,' she says
Once after sex a client called reception for champagne and clean sheets as his wife was due in 30 minutesThree years on Rebecca is a dating coach and author of a book on sex tips and infidelity

'If your man is not asking you for sex anymore, it means he's seeking it elsewhere. He's not going to accept being in a marriage without sex,' says ex-prostitute Rebecca Dakin, 37.


'I'm sure there are women who know that their man has been cheating but are happy because they don't want to have sex with him anymore. 


'They are probably relieved that he's not hassling them and just decide to turn a blind eye. Everyone always hates the escorts but you have to remember there are women are probably quite thankful that they're around.'


Valentine's Day evokes mixed emotions for Rebecca, reminding her of the nine years she worked as an escort and of the men who will cheat on their wives this February 14, many of them with paid companions.


These days, Rebecca works as an author, dating coach and infidelity expert - something she feels she has a unique perspective on. 

She says it is her duty to educate both men and women about the reasons married men seek out the company of escorts.


'About 60 per cent of the men I saw while I was escorting were married or had girlfriends,' says Rebecca. 


'Men cheat for different reasons. Some may be genuinely lacking intimacy at home but others just get off on the danger element of wondering whether they'll get caught.'


Valentine's Day can be a busy time for escorts. 


On one occasion, Rebecca spent the afternoon in a Newcastle hotel with a client. When they had finished having sex, he called down to reception asking for champagne and a change of sheets as his wife was arriving half an hour later for a romantic Valentine's evening with her husband.


'I was so angry,' says Rebecca. 'I think clients sometimes forgot that my loyalties lie with women. 


'I don't know why we always get the blame in these situations – it's the responsibility of the person in the relationship to be faithful. 


'Even if the hottest woman in the world comes on to your boyfriend, he should be strong enough to withstand it and, if he's not, she's done you a favour.'


Rebecca remembers another occasion on which she spent the night in London with a married client who had told his wife he was watching a football match in Manchester.


'In the morning he was he in bed reading the paper, catching up on the football results and memorising who had scored goals and what had happened during the match. Later that day, his wife called and I heard him telling her about the match – even what the weather had been like.'


Despite such experiences, Rebecca enjoyed her work from the moment she began escorting aged 25. After failing at college, struggling through a string of dead end jobs, and without any capital or training behind her, Rebecca decided that this was her only chance of making good money. 


The daughter of a navy navigator and a school teacher, Rebecca had an auspicious start in life, attending a convent school in Derbyshire and embarking on a fashion degree. 


However, after dropping out of university without finishing her course, Rebecca found herself in a cycle of boring, low paid jobs. By this time, she had already worked as a glamour model and a dancer so, for her, becoming an escort was the next step.


Since she was living at home at the time, Rebecca was honest with her parents about what she was planning to do.


'My parents had despaired of me,' she says. 


'I'd always been a rebellious child and at this point they just didn't know what to do with me. It would have been different if I was 18, but because I was 25 I think they realised I was an adult and they just wanted to let me make my own mistakes.

 

'It was not the job my mum would have chosen for me but once she saw I was going to really nice restaurants and hotels and meeting people like bankers and solicitors, I think she became marginally more comfortable with it.'


Rebecca's mum dropped her at the bus stop the day she went to see her first client, an accountant in Liverpool. While she barely had the money for a bus fare on the way to her date, on the way back Rebecca was £1,400 richer.

'I remember getting the train back and just counting all these notes,' she says. 'After working for as little as £100 a week in my previous job as a travel agent, I couldn't believe I'd just made so much money.'


Rebecca didn't look back and within three months of setting up her own business, she had a mortgage and was buying her own flat.


'The guy in the bank gave me a mortgage straight away when he heard I was an escort,' she says. 'He told me they never had any problem with girls in my profession.'


Because she chose always to work for herself rather than for an agency, Rebecca would spend the days looking for new clients, doing admin and organising her own advertising.


As she was highly selective about who she would see, Rebecca never spent time with more than 4 men a week and sometimes went for a month without a booking if she didn't feel comfortable about any of the potential clients who would get in touch.


When she did work, the rewards were great. Specialising in overnight stays, Rebecca frequently found herself whisked abroad, spending time with men in Hong Kong, Dubai, Italy, Paris and Switzerland. She saw some clients regularly and developed close relationships with them.


'My favourite was a guy in his 70s,' she says.

 

'He was married but his wife didn't want to sleep in the same bed as him anymore because he snored! He owned a factory and was loaded - he would spend thousands of pounds on jewellery and clothes for me. I liked him because he was a lovely guy though, very respectful with a dry sense of humour. We didn't even really have sex - it was more about the companionship.'


Although the money was good and Rebecca admits to getting a buzz from dressing up and walking into swanky hotels to meet her clients, eventually she decided enough was enough.


'I want to have kids and settle down and I didn't want to be working as an escort while I did that,' she says. 'I wanted to prove to myself that I could do something else and was capable of earning money in another way.'


Rebecca says that men cheat for myriad reasons. 'Some guys are just cheats,' she says. 


'Some are not confident about communicating with their other half. They think that if they tell her they want more sex, she'll be upset. 


'Some don't want to leave, as they love their wife, but they need more intimacy. By seeing an escort, they're just trying to find a way to stay with the woman they love.'


Although Rebecca does not condone cheating, in some instances she thinks it can be justified.


'I want to challenge women's point of view. I want women to read the stories in my book and think - I quite like this guy and understand where he's coming from.'


One man who has anonymously contributed to Rebecca's book is living with a wife who suffers from severe manic depression. 


He doesn't want to leave because he would have to take the children and his wife would be broken-hearted, but he still craves intimacy with a woman and has therefore decided to pay escorts for sex and companionship.


'You can't help but feel for him,' Rebecca says.


'Cheating is not black and white. There are some circumstances where people don't have any other options. My book will be really valuable insight into how men are thinking.'


It has now been three years since Rebecca worked as an escort and, although she sometimes misses the quick cash, her life has moved on. At the same time as writing her book on infidelity, she is putting together a book of sex tips, working as a media ‘sexpert' and running a dating coach service, charging men for Skype sessions in which she guides them through the minefields of flirting, dating and relationships using her training as an NLP Master Practitioner.


'Some women have a problem with me giving this advice because of the job I used to do but I've dated around 900 men and my knowledge comes from experience,' says Rebecca. 'I know what I'm doing is of value – I just want to help people stay in relationships.'




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Girl,14, lashed to death after being convicted of adultery

Girl,14, lashed to death after being convicted of adultery | Infidelity | Scoop.it

 

A little girl was arrested, charged and convicted of adultery, according to court proceedings in Bangladesh. Hena Akhter was only 14-years-old, the youngest of five siblings, who lived in Shariatpur, Bangladesh. Her problems began when her married cousin, Mahbub Khan, who was three times her age, re...


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Behaviors of a Cheating Spouse: Do You Know Them?

Dave Miller, thought leader in the cheating spouse private investigations industry, shares with his list the thoughts of cheating spouses.

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The New Age Sugar Daddy Relationship | Feeling Flirty? A flirty, sexy blog

The New Age Sugar Daddy Relationship | Feeling Flirty? A flirty, sexy blog | Infidelity | Scoop.it
A growing number of young women openly admit to preferring the company of an older guy on a date, rather than same age or younger. This present day Sugar Daddy
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15 Photos from Inside a Chinese Condom Factory

15 Photos from Inside a Chinese Condom Factory | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Reuters photographer David Gray took this fascinating series of photographs earlier this month inside the Safedom condom factory in Zhaoyuan, China.
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Understanding Infidelity: Why We Cheat | Tammy Nelson | YourTango

Understanding Infidelity: Why We Cheat | Tammy Nelson | YourTango | Infidelity | Scoop.it
Can you handle the truth?
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An article that asks some important questions about infidelity

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