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Five Ways to Attract Women with Your Personality
How do I really attract a woman?
This is a question that is on every man's mind or has been at least once in his lifetime. It’s the 69 million dollar question isn’t it; how do you get her to not just dig you, but find you absolutely irresistible? How do you create a charismatic persona that she can't break away from?
Well gentlemen, not only is it possible, it's something that you CAN learn in a very short period of time, and it ain’t no parlor trick. It's just simple techniques that any man can master on his way to becoming the ladies' man that is hiding inside of you.
So What Exactly Do Women Look For in a Man?
What is it that women are looking for in a potential partner? Good looks you say.. No doubt that looks certainly help, but they are not the primary attraction factor. A good job? Sure, women appreciate a guy who has all the material comforts, but more than that, they love men who are driven and have a lot of passion for what they do. They will take a man who loves his low-paying job over a man who hates his high-powered gig any day.
A cool ride and a nice pad? Again, they don't hurt, but at the end of the day what do women really want in a man?
The Power of Personality
What women really want in a man is a winning personality (I know this sounds clichéd and you’ve heard it a gazillion times, but stay with me here). Ladies are starving for a man with wit and charm and a lively sense of humor.
But what are the ingredients that make this "great personality?" What does it truly mean when you get down to it? Let’s go through the five top ones…
Sense of Humor: "Sense of humor" tops the polls in all women's magazines and for a good reason. How many times have you heard women say that they want a man who can make them laugh?
A sense of humor isn't just highly attractive in its own right. It also helps women to relax, have fun and be themselves, particularly in the crucial early stages of a relationship.
Sense of Adventure: Are you providing women with opportunities for exciting activities and adventures that are out of the ordinary?
You need to get out the same old same old rut man, even if it's just an imaginative date idea. You need to win her over by bringing some excitement and spontaneity into her life. This is a crucial element of having a first-class personality.
Sense of Empathy: When you listen to her do you really listen? And are you SHOWING her that you listen? Are you involved in the conversation and relating back to what she just said to you?
Women want to be heard, but they also want you to show them that you're listening. If you do this, you can make an impression as the man who really "gets" her. Nothing is going to win you more points in her book than that.
Sense of Confidence: A confident man is someone who doesn't need anyone else to tell him that he's “good enough”. He already knows that he’s the man. This is attractive to a woman subconsciously. Look at any historical figure of grand repute (like Napoleon, Beethoven, Shakespeare) and you will find that these men did not seek out approval, but rather went about their confident ways
Men who lack confidence are often "awkward" or even "creepy" to be around. Their constant quest for validation takes energy out of the interaction and sets everyone else on edge.
Sense of Purpose: Again, it's not important that you be the CEO of a Fortune 500 company, or be a grand-slam winning athlete. What matters is that you LOVE what you do and that whatever you are doing fills you up with pride and passion. This is a contagious feeling and women will be compelled to ‘join you for the ride’.
This is what is meant by a sense of purpose and it's the truest form of "success." After all, your vision of where you want to be is not, nor should it be, someone else's. You need to know where you want to go, how YOU are going to get there and be on that path. That's all.
Try these out and see what kind of results you get. Compare them to what you've been doing in the past. I can say with certainty that with just a little bit of effort, your interactions with women will really take off into the stratosphere
Author bio: Max Ikbal is a writer on the Art of Seduction blog. Find more of his writing at http://www.infobulb.com/theartofseduction