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Cardinal negotiating information
1 Phases of a negotiation – your deals become a gem!
- D-Distil Inform yourself, internally, externally, look for positions, interests, strategies, use the seven elements preparation tool of Harvard
- E Embark Start the negotiation with positions, interests, visions, targets
- A Argument Argument, decide on priorities
- L Look into What is of value, explore, give proposals, alternatives
- G Give & take Do some concessions from both sides
- E End Install a deadlock of necesary
- M Mark Come to an agreement
2 Phases of negotiation – dirty tricks
- D Distil Throwing in some bait, warn for non existing dangers
- E Embark Extreme point of view, take it or leave it, the ultimatum
- A Argument Agenda manipulation, our standard conditions, change of persons, hesitation to decide, misusing deadline of others,
- L Look into Good cop & bad cop, want but cant,
- G Give & take salami technique, escalation of demands,
- E End
- M Mark Extreme position that is slowly becomming less extreme, as if negotiation, I don’t have authority, small incremental demand, differences in negotitation
3 The seven elements prep tool – c⊃2;arbon
- C Commitment What will your commitment be next time?
- C communication How will you communicate
- A Alternatives What is your Alternative(s) besides this solution?
- R Relation How is your relationship? Improvements?
- B Based on needs What is your need?Need of other party?
- O Options What options are available
- N Norms Which standards, laws, contracts, rules
The most effective presenters use the same techniques as great storytellers: By reminding people of the status quo and then revealing the path to a better way, they set up a conflict that needs to be resolved.
Via Kenneth Mikkelsen
You have probably heard about or read Blue Ocean Strategy by W. Chan Kim and Renée Mauborgne. It has been translated into 42 languages and sold over 2 million copies – so it fair to say it has made quite a splash. The authors came in a second spot on the Thinkers 50 for 2011. Their ocean metaphor is compelling – most businesses form strategy to compete in the red ocean. There is intense competition and there’s blood in the water. The smart ones migrate to new market spaces – the blue ocean. It is exciting to look at this book through the lens of sustainability. A central concept is value innovation. A part of the process is driving down costs and increasing customer benefits, creating a new market space. The sustainability connection is the social good created.
Via W. Robert de Jongh, Koen Vanderhoydonk
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Robert Cialdini was a professor of psychology at Arizona State University until late 2009, when I believe he retired.
Via Gilles Jourquin
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Via ThinDifference, David Hain
14 must read Leadership books
- The power of a positive No - William Ury, PH.D.: As a leader you will probably have to say no a lots of times. Some leaders do effectively and other just mess things up. Willium Ury gives you a powerfull 3 step process to empower your no!
- Influence - Robert B. Cialdini:: Lead, inspire, influence...Elements that should normally blend in your leadership. The influencial shorcuts though which are triggered automatically are very well explained by Robert Cialdini. A must for everyone who needs more insight in influencing in an ethical way.
- People, Planet, Profit & Prophecy - Ilse C. ten Berge: Sustainable leadership is all what this is about. Some companies already made the mental switch and are rewarded by higher profit. Others just do the old " squeeze and profit" thing and lose in the long run. In this higly interesting economic times we need to reinvent the economy itself. The 4P model helps companies to make this leapfrog move to an new and sustainable economy!
- The 7 habits of higly effective people - Stephen R. Covey: I read this book over and over again on my traintrips to the various places where I needed to work. It inspired me, it helped me to get my priorities right. ( and apprantly not only me, over 15 million copies sold worldwide). Although Steven sometimes get the critique of haing too much "mormon" inspired thinking, I think this book has made a dramatique effect in business relationships and relationships in general.
- Priorities - Stephen R. Covey: I could say exactly the same as from book number 4. Must read when setting priorities is a challenge for you.
- 8 to be great - Richard St. John: What are the main characteristics of very succesfull people. What model can we adapt to be as successful as them. Very readable book, quick to learn. 8 cardinal traits for being succesful!
- The 8th habit, from efficiency to inspiration - S. R. Covey: Stephen goes on a journey to find why you are effective. it is all about discovering your own voice, staying with it and promoting it for yourself and for the community you live in.It helps you unveiling your creativity and your real success.
- The emotionally Intelligent Manager - David R. Caruso & Pter Salovay: In short " learn to use your emotional skills to become a more effective manager". A book from 2 people who have really discovered the power of e-motions!
- Social Intelligence - Daniel Goleman: Mr Goleman expands his view on emotional intelligence through this book. He claims that we are really wired to connect. The book helps you with massive scientific data on how people really connect, uncounsciously to eachother. For those who think that emotional intelligence is a soft skill and fuzyy!
- Primal Leadership, Learning to lead with emotional intelligence - Daniel Goleman: My favourit author on leadership, this time integrates emotional intelligence as a cardinal competency for leaders.
Sometimes, we persist with actions or activities that we would have stopped long ago, if we were to have stepped back and realised we were getting nowhere. Being too close or too committed, leads to denial and ongoing persistence, in the face of mounting evidence that a particular course of action is not delivering the required returns. This excellent short article, suggests that to find your best you need to let go of your mediocrity, and it suggests ways to stop what isn't working for you in order to redirect your efforts.
Via Richard Andrews, Daniel Watson, Koen Vanderhoydonk
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Via Richard Andrews, David Hain
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