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Empathetic learning is all the rage in the Common Core.

Empathetic learning is all the rage in the Common Core. | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Empathetic learning is all the rage in the Common Core.  They call it SEL (Social & Emotional Learning).  Sort of like the newfangled “empathetic medicine” where I suppose the surgeon feels the pain of the patient.  Hopefully, not while operating.   Yup, put yourself right into someone else’s shoes, literally.  Not sympathy where I feel your pain but rather, I KNOW your pain.  Yup, empathy.  Well, your 9-year-old better have a whole lot of it 10 months a year, Monday through Friday between the hours of 8am-3pm   because, like with everything else in CCSS (Common Core State Standards), empathy’s been revised, rebranded and repackaged for the 21st Century classroom...

 

But what CASEL calls empathy isn’t empathy at all.  It’s sympathy.  You can feel or project feelings onto another person’s situation without ever experiencing it. 

 

Fred Brownbill

 

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To Newspaper Front Page: All Sections

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Move Over Self-Esteem: Self-Compassion is the Real Key to Strength & Success

Move Over Self-Esteem: Self-Compassion is the Real Key to Strength & Success | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

The Challenge: No matter how hard we try, no matter how successful we are, it’s not good enough. So what do we do?


The Science: Self-esteem can actually make us weaker at times, but there is an alternative!


The Solution: Practice self-compassion – it’s the key to resilience, happiness & success.


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One of the most insidious consequences of the self-esteem movement over the last couple of decades is the narcissism epidemic

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BY KRISTIN NEFF 

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This sounds like a reasonable alternative to all the downsides of the self-esteem movement. -Lon

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Building Vibrant Communities: Activating Empathy to Create Change - YouTube

Ashoka - Packard Foundation 

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Empathy and its Application Within the Care Environment: A Detailed Exploration of How to Nurture Empathy as a Carer

This booklet addresses the issue of empathy in the care environment, for paid carers or volunteers. 

Empathy allows you to have a better understanding of the person you are caring for. This booklet covers four practical ways to get you thinking along the lines of empathy, with helpful examples from within the home-care environment. 

Some people are blessed with a natural gifting (or ability) of empathy. For the rest of us, empathy is something to learn – a new way of thinking. It is getting outside of our own emotions, behaviours and feelings and considering things from another persons point of view.


This booklet guides you in the first steps towards having more empathy with those you care for. 

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How to teach kids empathy

How to teach kids empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Empathy is a character trait that must be nurtured. Start teaching children when they are young and they will grow up being able to understand others who are struggling.


Discuss empathy in everyday situations

When you first begin to teach your young children about empathy, you will have to explain what it means. For example, if your toddler hits a playmate and takes his toy, discuss with her how she would feel if a friend did that to her. Point out people who are feeling sad and discuss why they might feel that way. Ask your children what they could do to help. If a family member is sick, encourage others to help him or her in little ways.


Making your children more aware of times they should be empathetic will help them learn to feel empathy on their own. Be open to the things and experiences they discuss with you.


They will have disagreements with friends and feel wronged. Help them see both sides of the situation and apply empathy.


By: Amy Peterson, 

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Naropa to host Radical Compassion Symposium in October, featuring Joanna Macy, Dan Siegel, Vandana Shiva, Bernie Glassman, Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche, Lama Tsultrim Allione, Noah ...

Naropa to host Radical Compassion Symposium in October, featuring Joanna Macy, Dan Siegel, Vandana Shiva, Bernie Glassman, Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche, Lama Tsultrim Allione, Noah ... | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Join Joanna Macy, Dan Siegel, Vandana Shiva, Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche, Lama Tsultrim Allione, Noah Levine, Shambhala Sun Editor-in-Chief Melvin McLeod, and other international activists, contemplatives, and scientists for this gathering focused on one of the most dynamic and critical topics of our time: compassion. (See the complete list of presenters here.)


Compassion is “radical” when it moves beyond “being nice” or giving to our favorite charity, and becomes the very foundation of all our actions, the signature of our society.


Living with an open heart, meeting the world as it is, and cultivating compassion in action – these are some of the themes of this transformative weekend.

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Bill Gates and Bill Drayton Make the Case for Empathy

Bill Gates and Bill Drayton Make the Case for Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
It might have been pure coincidence, but last month, Bill Drayton, speaking at Toronto's MaRS Discovery District and Bill Gates at Stanford University in California, made separate cases for why empathy is so important to the social change movement.

 

Before I zoom in on the specifics of what Drayton and Gates said, here’s a bit of background. The term ethical empathy has its roots in philosophy, the premise being that without the capacity for empathy, individuals may inadvertently harm others. In the healthcare field, the concept has been utilized in the training of physicians for some time, the focus being on developing doctors with a high capacity for empathy, ensuring they put themselves in their patients’ shoes when making critical health decisions and ultimately providing the best care possible. 


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In a recent speech to the graduates of Stanford University, Bill Gates made this observation:

 

"Optimism can fuel innovation and lead to new tools to eliminate suffering," he said. "But if you never really see the people who are suffering, your optimism can’t help.”

 

This article uses this speech as a point of reference to discuss the need for empathy in business today. 

 

The author discusses an intriguing way to measure empathy in the interactions between doctors and patients.  This scale may prove useful in business as a whole.  Periodically through the day, stop to contemplate where your interactions fall on the "empathy scale" below.

 

0 - responses were a rote compliance simply based on rules

1 - responses had the tone of treating them as a friend

2 - responses were couched in treating others the way I would like to be treated

3 - reponses were based on the other's perspective with consideration of them as a whole person and their current situation

 

Now, shoot for a level 3!

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How To Be An Empathetic Parent Even When It Feels Hard

How To Be An Empathetic Parent Even When It Feels Hard | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Being more empathetic is one of my parenting and personal goals this year, so I started digging more deeply into this concept to understand how to put empathy into action....


The thing is, though, I know how to be empathetic -- as a psychotherapist and parenting educator, I teach others how to do it.


Empathy is a parenting cornerstone, it provides the foundation for emotional development in children.


Some days, even though I know how to do it, it takes a long time for my own instructions to turn into action. I have stared at my melting-down children and glazed over, momentarily not even caring how they felt.


Andrea Nair 

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Understanding Gobal Compassion Webisode 4: Proximal and Distal Compassion - YouTube

Fourth in a series of webisodes -- excerpts from Dr. Ekman's conversations with the Dalai Lama. Dr. Ekman and the Dalai Lama compare and contrast proximal an...
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The Limits of Empathy: “Eyeless in Gaza”

The Limits of Empathy: “Eyeless in Gaza” | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

President Bill Clinton—who invented the role of the president as “Empath in Chief”—is the great exemplar of both the strengths and the weaknesses of political empathy.


In domestic politics, “I feel your pain” worked great for him at the ballot box. But in foreign policy—after the initial success with the 1993 Arafat-Rabin signing on the White House Lawn—the failure at Camp David in 2000 demonstrated how empathy could not bridge fundamental disagreements between adversaries.


From Israel’s perspective, the trouble with Kerry’s urgings that it—once again—empathize at all costs with Palestinians is that empathizing with a psychopathic enemy like Hamas, blinded by hatred to everything but revenge for real and imagined grievances, is that you, too, will end up blind to your own self-interest including your interest in self-preservation.

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Does Empathy Have Role in Fostering Racial Justice?

Does Empathy Have Role in Fostering Racial Justice? | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Can racial injustice in America be overcome by fostering more empathy in our culture? Perhaps, but there’s a lot more to it than that, panelists said at a Fordham event on Feb. 24. 


“All of the efforts of generations of civil rights activists to transform the American conscience cannot succeed without empathy,”


said theologian Rubén Rosario Rodríguez, one of the panelists. While empathy is not sufficient by itself, he said, “empathy is not something we’ve tried hard enough. Empathy is something that needs to be nurtured over time, and it cannot be legislated.” 

The event, titled “Is Empathy Enough? Racial Justice and the Moral Imagination in the 21st Century,” posed questions about why racial injustice persists 50 years after the passage of the landmark Civil Rights Act. 

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(Empathy and) The Difference Between 'I'm Sorry' and 'I've Been There'

(Empathy and)  The Difference Between 'I'm Sorry' and 'I've Been There' | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

There's a huge difference between sympathy and empathy, between "I'm sorry" and "I've been there." It's not that sympathy is bad, not at all. It's just that empathy invites a connection sympathy simply can't.


Sympathy says, "I feel sorry for you," while empathy declares, "I am you." Sympathy requires you to find compassion -- from a distance -- for another's misfortune. Empathy demands that you revisit your own pain in order to relate to someone else's.
 Scott Stabile 


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The next time you're inclined to sympathize,
see if there's really an opportunity
to empathize 

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How to Use Empathic Listening to Create a Blog

How to Use Empathic Listening to Create a Blog | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

You can use empathy and listening skills to build a tight and faithful audience. Check out my stories and tips to guide you.



Empathy is the foundation of society and commerce

What you will learn about empathy and blogging communities:

  1. Examples of empathy and empathic listening.
  2. The foundation of human communication in social environments is empathy and listening.
  3. Successful blogs have strong communities with members who feel like they belong and are important because they are heard.
  4. Empathic listening means to hear the intent of your readers and respond with sensitivity for their thoughts and feelings.
  5. You can improve your empathic listening skill with exercises,  an innate human ability that can be enhanced with practice.


BY DARIN L. HAMMOND

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Book Review of The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison

Book Review of The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

This week I’ll be reviewing a collection of nonfiction essays called The Empathy Exams by New York author Leslie Jamison. The book was published this year and won the Graywolf Press Nonfiction Prize. Jamison has also written a novel, The Gin Closet, which was a finalist for the Los Angeles Times First Fiction Prize.


Jamison derives the book’s title from her time as a medical actor, when she was paid to act out symptoms for medical students to diagnose.


In her subsequent assessment of how the medical students did, there is a section that asks if he or she ‘Voiced empathy for my situation/problem.’


This is a springboard for and perfect introduction to the book. It begs the question of how we feel and respond to other people’s pain.


by emadigan,

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Positive Intent and Empathy in Guiding Young Children – TRAINING INFORMATION

Positive Intent and Empathy in Guiding Young Children – TRAINING INFORMATION | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Examine how empathy wires the brain for self-regulation, allowing children to access higher cognitive processes.


Examine strategies for teaching empathy and positive thinking when reacting to children’s behaviors.


Apply a variety of approaches, words, and activities to encourage positive self-image and development of empathy.


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How expansive is Your Circle of Empathy?

This is "How expansive is Your Circle of Empathy?" by Wendy Addison on Vimeo, the home for high quality videos and the people who love them.
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5 principles of raising empathetic children

5 principles of raising empathetic children | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
by Mary Pearson and Jessica Himmer

Applying these five principles will help your children become empathetic adults that are sensitive to the needs of others.


Empathy is the ability to feel what another person is feeling. When you think of parenting and discipline, instead of thinking just of correcting misbehavior, think about all of your long-term goals for your children — helping them become kind, civic minded and empathetic people.


1. Be sensitive to your child’s emotions...
3. Teach through example...
4. Listen...
5. Set limits...



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Strategies for Self-Compassion

Strategies for Self-Compassion | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Ralph Waldo Emerson, one of the New England Transcendentalists, was very influential for me as a teenager. I have found many of his essays and aphorisms to be very useful, both personally and professionally. The one pearl I have gotten the most mileage out of is from his essay Love, written in 1841: “Each man sees over his own experience a stain of error, whilst that of other men looks fair and ideal.”


When we compare ourselves to others,
we may feel better or worse
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It may be more useful to minimize comparison and instead consider our connections to one another and all life forms on the planet if we are working toward building a healthier relationship to the self.


By FRANCES L. HENNESSEY, LICSW 

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James Doty talk about his journey to compassion and his work in CCARE

 Dr. James Doty talk about his journey to compassion and his work in CCARE on Andaaz TV

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Raising Empathetic Children

Raising Empathetic Children | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
PRACTICAL WAYS TO PROMOTE EMPATHY

Although some of these growing pains are unavoidable, there is a great deal that parents and other influential adults can do to encourage steady growth in empathy, which is a key component of other-awareness and relational wisdom.


Here are few practical tips on how to help children develop this quality.


  • Recognize your unique role as a parent...
  • Weave the gospel into daily life...
  • Use Bible stories to illustrate empathy and show that this quality is pleasing to God (e.g., Ruth 1:7-191Sam. 20:41)....
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by Ken Sande

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Can Narcissists Learn Empathy? - NLP Discoveries

Can Narcissists Learn Empathy? - NLP Discoveries | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it



To examine whether narcissists could be capable of empathizing with another person’s suffering, they asked study participants to read an excerpt describing the break up of a relationship.


No matter how severe the hypothetical scenario was, high-narcissists did not show any empathy for the subject. This was true even in situations where the subject of the excerpt suffered overwhelming depression.


Researchers then asked study participants to take the perspective of the target person. .....


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This indicates that it may be possible for narcissists to empathize with others in the correct circumstances. They key is encouraging

them to consider the situations from

another point of view.

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By MIKE BUNDRANT

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A Simple Experiment in Empathy

A Simple Experiment in Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

 by Peter Himmelman

I decide to conduct an experiment, a simple experiment in empathy. I ask myself, is it possible, in spite of how insane and dead-wrong this storeowner is, that I could -- in some way -- begin to empathize with him? Just before bed, I write a list of how I imagine he might be seeing the issue -- and at first, it's physically painful to write:


1. Though I totally disagree with his policy and his intransigent stance, I must also admit that I don't know a damn thing about running a store.


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After the phone call I feel like a tiny tear
in the fabric of my own humanity has
been restored. All through this
simple experiment in empathy....

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Engineering Empathy: Tears and Fears at Dev Bootcamp

Engineering Empathy: Tears and Fears at Dev Bootcamp | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Bishay built the empathy program for three reasons:

  • Most projects fail not because of tech, but because of the team, the “human element.”
  • A diverse group of people looking to change careers are signing up for the bootcamp, and the usual “brogrammer” culture would be problematic.
  • And, as a pastoral counselor, he saw an opportunity to coach a needy population.


Many students spoke of the empathy training, which involves intensely personal and difficult emotional sharing that leads to tears on a nearly daily basis, as a spiritual and emotional experience.


By Nellie Bowles

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The Future is Human: Realising Empathy for Change | Australian Design Alliance

The Future is Human: Realising Empathy for Change | Australian Design Alliance | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Australian Design Alliance: promoting the use of design to boost Australia's productivity through innovation.


Registration is now open for Series 4 of the University of Technology Sydney’s Creative Intelligence Labs (UTS:CI Labs).  


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The theme of Series 4 is
The Future is Human:
Realising Empathy for Change,
co-directed by globally recognized innovation
and creativity leaders
Annalie Killian and Craig Davis.

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The UTS:CI Labs is a dynamic, immersive, studio-style program designed to introduce the practices of creative innovation by allowing participants to experience them through the context of real problems and projects.  Participants explore with us new ways to think, drive change and innovate, to develop better solutions to the complex problems we face in today’s world.

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Empathy: The Missing Ingredient

Empathy: The Missing Ingredient | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

At the conclusion of a new one-day course I just finished leading (an Introduction to Emotional Intelligence), I asked the participants to take a few minutes to assess the class and their biggest value of the day so as to help me as I continue to refine the class content.



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The role of empathy in peace negotiations

The role of empathy in peace negotiations | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

I am raising the subject mainly because the idea of empathy needs to be more embedded than ever as we negotiate a very difficult peace process. The negotiations no longer exist in theory; they have become a reality. I am still aware of a lack of empathy among some of the stakeholders in the negotiations.


Empathy is about getting to the heart of the problem.


It is associated with a willingness to reach a negotiated settlement, which is in turn associated with the possible cost of a failure to achieve an agreement. 


Aung Naing Oo is the associate director, Peace Dialogue Program, Myanmar Peace Center.


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