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Problem Solving Versus Empathy

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A classical relationship problem is the dichotomy between solving a problem and providing empathy. If you really want to understand this, spend two minutes and watch the awesome "It's Not About The Nail" video below...

 

If you are an entrepreneur, CEO, or VC take a moment and think. Do you ever focus on “empathy” rather than “problem solving.” If you want to see an example of this in action, watch Jerry Colonna’s brilliant interview with Jason Calacanis. There’s a lot of incredible things on display in this interview, including plenty of empathy.

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John Michel's curator insight, July 3, 2013 10:35 PM

 If you are an entrepreneur, CEO, or VC take a moment and think. Do you ever focus on “empathy” rather than “problem solving.” If you want to see an example of this in action, watch Jerry Colonna’s brilliant interview with Jason Calacanis. There’s a lot of incredible things on display in this interview, including plenty of empathy.

Pål Dobrin's curator insight, July 4, 2013 3:13 AM

A lesson worth remembering for all you guys out there. It´s not about the nail. Hahahaha Funny and full of wisdom...

Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight, April 14, 2015 6:57 PM

The title reminded me of David Bohm, Richard Rohr, and Parker Palmer. Quite often, we treat paradox like problems and try to solve them rather than holding the tension paradox offers. Empathy calls for dialogue rather than assumptions.

 

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Empathy Movement Magazine

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Digital natives risk losing empathy for real people

Digital natives risk losing empathy for real people | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Time spent online has high opportunity costs, especially at the expense of face-to-face interaction, according to Prof Sherry Turkle.


The main takeaway from Prof Turkle's study is that digital culture, despite its many virtues, has major downsides, the most serious of which relate to its dehumanising tendencies. Bluntly put, our close embrace of, and increasing reliance on, electronic technology has impaired our ability to relate to one another, particularly in face-to-face conversational settings.

Because such conversations are vital to our moral development -without them, humans have trouble establishing bonds of empathy with other people - life online is impoverishing our lives offline. How?

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Empathy tells us something about nonviolence--Daily Metta

In this video Michael discusses the fact that modern science specifically neuroscience, specifically mirror neurons confirm that fact that we feel one another's pain.


This is important because important because if people were more aware of this, they would be much less likely to hurt others, i.e. be violent. 

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Bringing Empathy into Your Classroom

Bringing Empathy into Your Classroom | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Edutopia recently curated several recent resources on empathy.


Lauren Owen has a piece titled, “Empathy  in the Classroom: Why Should I Care?”...


That year, empathy became a central component of my classroom instruction. Given that I taught history, empathy naturally lent itself to discussions of varying perspectives about and intentions of history’s key players. The deeper our discussions went, though, the more convinced I became that empathy needed to be a central piece in every school setting.


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New Empathy Education Program Teaches Kids About Veganism | Latest Vegan News

New Empathy Education Program Teaches Kids About Veganism | Latest Vegan News | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
The importance of empathy cannot be overstated. Researchers have found that empathy skills lead to a reduction in racism and bullying, better work environments, improved health care, and a laundry list of other positive outcomes.

Magaly Madrid is the founder of the Empathy Project, an organization dedicated to fostering this crucially important trait. As part of her efforts, she’s created Everyday Humane, a program designed to improve children’s empathy skills by teaching them about the experiences of animals.
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Improve empathy in the workplace by increasing self-awareness

Improve empathy in the workplace by increasing self-awareness | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Being empathetic starts with improving your self-awareness, according to new research from the University of Missouri


 Often we associate empathy with selflessness, but according to the MU News Bureau, recent research out of the University of Missouri in Columbia suggests the opposite might be true. Instead, MU researchers have determined that individuals who have a higher sense of self-awareness are more prone to feeling empathy.


Researchers used MRI scans of peoples’ brains and found that those who felt more empathy had increased function in the segment of their brain that was associated with a sense of self. So, increasing your self-awareness might result in an improved ability to empathize with those around you

by: Katlynn Beck


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Smiling IS infectious: We mimic other people's expressions to show empathy.

Smiling IS infectious:  We mimic other people's expressions to show empathy. | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

It's not just yawning - smiling and frowning are contagious too! We mimic other people's expressions to show empathy.


  • Scientists say we unconsciously 'simulate' the facial expressions of others
  • Studies have shown it may help us understand how someone else feels
  • People who cannot mimic a facial expression struggle to detect subtle cues
  • Further research could help the treatment of social disorders like autism



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Jostein Solheim Of Ben & Jerry's: Empathy Is Not Simply The Flavor Of The Month

Jostein Solheim Of Ben & Jerry's: Empathy Is Not Simply The Flavor Of The Month | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Jostein Solheim is CEO of Ben & Jerry’s Homemade Inc., one of the world’s most iconic ice creams and a company that is formally committed to growing its social impact even more than its profits. Jostein (pronounced ‘Yo-Stein’) joined Ben & Jerry’s six years ago from Unilever Ashoka’s Michael Zakaras recently sat down with him to discuss how business is changing and the skills – including empathy – that are needed to thrive in an interconnected world with customers demanding more of business each year...

I wasn’t thinking about empathy consciously at the time, but there’s no question that it was an implicit goal of the learning, and it grew from connecting with people across cultures, languages, perspectives. You know, it’s quite easy to empathize with those in your clique – in your immediate circles – but the key is practicing this outside that narrow group so you can really connect with others and absorb and appreciate their experiences and the way they see the world. It’s still a learning journey for me. 



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Compassionate Conservatism Roars Back John Kasich Surprises In New Hampshire

Running on a message of civility, empathy and moral purpose in a race dominated by fear and race-baiting, Ohio Gov. John Kasich surged to a second-place finish Tuesday night in New Hampshire, becoming the latest in a long line of long-shot presidential candidates to use the Granite State’s famously unpredictable and independent-minded electorate to stake out a place in the primary contest.
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Importance of Empathy

Importance of Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Empathy bridges the divide between separate individuals, allowing them to connect and form a bond.

How is a lack of empathy expressed in a relationship by a partner who has Asperger’s Syndrome?

These NT partners of people with AS describe it best:

“Sometimes a lack of empathy, no matter what the cause, can honestly make you feel as if you are with an enemy rather than a friend! When illness strikes and say, for example, my spouse comes home to find me coughing, congested and moving slowly due to aches and pains, I expect an empathic response. My toddler hears me cough and says ‘You okay, Mommy? You okay?’ But my aspie spouse may not even think to ask ‘How are you feeling?’ once throughout my illness. This can be extremely depressing and upsetting. I try to remember that it just doesn’t come naturally for an aspie to have the typical empathic response. But when I am sick or weak and am not offered any help or emotional support I tend to be filled with grief, anger and self-pity at how lonely and uncared for I feel.”
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The Best Way to Stop Bullying Is to Teach Empathy

The Best Way to Stop Bullying Is to Teach Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Following a rash of tragic suicides by bullied adolescents and teenagers, schools around the world have devoted more attention to trying to prevent bullying from happening in the first place. Though schools have experimented with a number of different approaches to reduce bullying, research hasn’t been able to verify that these programs are actually successful at changing social dynamics.

Finally, however, researchers at UCLA have identified one specific course of action that seems to actually make a difference: providing kids with empathy and intervention training.


According to the data, schools that take this approach can have as little as one-half the rate of bullying that occurs at schools with bullying programs that focus on convincing would-be bullies to not be so cruel.

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Resources for Teaching Empathy: Empathy in the Classroom: Why Should I Care?

Resources for Teaching Empathy: Empathy in the Classroom: Why Should I Care? | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Resources for Teaching Empathy
So now what? You're convinced that empathy is important to integrate in your curriculum, but where do you start?

Fortunately, other educators have wondered the same thing, and many already provide lesson plans and ideas for how to incorporate and increase empathy in the classroom.


Here are a few:

Miranda McKearney and Sarah Mears suggest incorporating reading in their article "Lost for words? How reading can teach children empathy."


Empathyed.org offers lesson plans centered around empathy.


Ashoka lists different strategies to incorporate empathy across different educational contexts, as well as a toolkit for increasing empathy within schools (PDF).


Dr. Karyn Gordon provides some practical tips in TEACH Magazine's article "Dr. Karyn Gordon: Creating Empathy and Gratitude in the Classroom."


Teaching Tolerance describes a variety of strategies for helping to build a positive classroom culture that can include empathy.
Do you teach empathy in your classroom? Please tell us about your experiences in the comments section below.


LAUREN OWEN


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    Teaching cops empathy to deter use of force

    Teaching cops empathy to deter use of force | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    A class being given to police officers in San Diego was lauded in a recent national conference as an example of what departments need to do to better control the use of force.


    At the heart of the approach is emotional intelligence, basically, being self aware and empathetic.


    The conference, titled “Use of Force: Taking Policing to a Higher Standard,” was held in Washington, D.C., Jan. 29.


    About 200 officials from police departments across the nation, including officers from San Diego and Chula Vista, gathered with federal officials, academics and community leaders to find ways to staunch what has been a rolling national controversy since the shooting of Michael Brown in Ferguson, Mo.


    By Lyndsay Winkley

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    Martin Hoffman's Three Stages of Empathy Development

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    Clinical Empathy: A Neglected Force for Improving Care

    Clinical Empathy: A Neglected Force for Improving Care | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    'When clinicians learn techniques that foster communication with patients, the results can be greater compliance, improved outcomes — and even increased physician satisfaction. 


    At A Glance

    • Empathy and better communication from healthcare providers are associated with better patient outcomes.
    • Responding to patients’ facial expressions and body language, asking open-ended questions, and exploring their motivations can establish a rapport that increases patient compliance.
    • Physicians trained in effective communication techniques report greater satisfaction themselves.


    Better Outcomes with Empathy

    A Joint Commission on Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations report found that communication failures were a root cause of more than 70% of serious adverse health outcomes in hospitals.


    And conversely, studies have shown that clinical empathy is clearly associated with better patient outcomes. In two studies of diabetes patients, researchers administered the Jefferson Scale of Empathy to physicians and grouped them according to whether they scored high, medium, or low on empathy skill. The researchers studied diabetes because it has clear patient outcomes that can be tracked in electronic health records.


    By Eric Seaborg

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    Empathyed.org

    Empathyed.org | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    Empathy is the ability to look at a situation from another point of view. It is the basis of caring relationships and allows us to connect and understand those who may be different from ourselves.


    Empathy is an integral part of education, and should be a schooling goal for future students. This site has been created to support educators build classrooms where empathy is the underlying foundation of their students’ interactions, as well as a goal of their education.


    This website contains:

    • A Definition of Empathy
    • A discussion of empathy as a skill necessary to the Conceptual Age as described by Daniel Pink in his book A Whole New Mind. 
    • Reasons that empathy should be incorporated into the classroom and integrated into the goal of schooling for our students.
    • Empathy Lesson Plans and Activities 
    • A News Feed with current empathy and education news feeds.
    • A Discussion Forum where users can share their experiences with empathy or lesson plans.
    • Web links and Empathy Resources.
    • There is also a Reference Page with a list of the sources for the informati
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    How Teaching Soft Skills At My Coding Bootcamp Improved Diversity: How Teaching Empathy Improved Diversity

    How Teaching Soft Skills At My Coding Bootcamp Improved Diversity: How Teaching Empathy Improved Diversity | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it


    When I came to Dev Bootcamp, I wanted to bring what I'd discovered about training developers in soft skills to the company’s existing "whole-person" approach to learning. Together, we worked to answer the following questions: How do you teach empathy? How do you teach people to understand and share the feelings of somebody else?

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    Empathy: The Trait That Saves Us From Us - The Spectrum

    Empathy: The Trait That Saves Us From Us - The Spectrum | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    Empathy is one of the greatest things one can learn.

    Empathy is one of the most important skills vital for survival. However, it appears this vital skill is lacking among many in today’s society....


    Empathizing with another person or group does not mean that we condone their actions or agree with their ideas – it means we are able to understand why they did what they did or their logic behind their ideas. If more people were able to understand others, that would go a long way in reducing the problems between different people.


    by Alen Fejzic

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    Artificial Intelligence Will Have A Heart: AI technologies will enable virtually any product to realistically mimic empathy. Forbes

    Artificial Intelligence Will Have A Heart: AI technologies will enable virtually any product to realistically mimic empathy.  Forbes | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    What do we mean when we say that a person has a lot of heart? I think we mean that a person has a lot of empathy.


    Empathy means understanding someone else’s emotions, to the point where one can imagine experiencing what the other person is experiencing.  Empathy isn’t feeling happy or sad for someone, it is feeling happy or sad with someone...


    Within the next five years, AI technologies will enable virtually any product to realistically mimic empathy. From virtual pets to cars to smart homes, our products will sense our emotional state and provide human-like empathy to their owners.


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    Why Basing Morality on Empathy Does Not Work

    Why Basing Morality on Empathy Does Not Work | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    An Atheist announced on an internet discussion board, “Atheists are good without God!” It was not the first time I had heard it. Over the past twelve years, on the many atheist forums I had visited, the atheists and even some professing “Christians” had made this claim.


    To support their assertion, they posted a few “studies” that showed how atheist ethics (devised from their own empty non-belief system) were superior. Atheists had lesser numbers in prison, they claimed, a lower divorce rate, less crime in secular countries, and better raised children because they taught their children (the atheist ethics of) tolerance (which excluded Christians), anti-racism and the “Golden Rule” or empathy.


    Empathy, they avowed, was the best guide for morality. Empathy, in fact, would create the Utopia the world has, since the Garden of Eden, yearned after for so long.


    This godless form of morality was purportedly superior to all notions of cold and rigid religious dogma and objectivity.


    By Pennie Lee
    image https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/God 

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    Want Students to Succeed? Teach with a Tough Empathy

    Want Students to Succeed? Teach with a Tough Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    I first stumbled upon the phrase “tough empathy” when reading “Why Should Anyone Be Led by You” by Robert Goffee and Gareth Jones. In their essay, Goffee and Jones state that “real leaders empathize fiercely with their followers and care intensely about their people’s work.


    They’re also empathetically ‘tough.’ This means giving people not necessarily what they want, but what they need to achieve their best” (2000). Sound familiar? It should, because it’s what our best teachers do every day. They practice a tough empathy pedagogy.


    Teaching with tough empathy is not a soft pedagogy.


     David J. Kimball

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    Even Some Rodents Display Empathy

    Even Some Rodents Display Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

    Chimpanzees console each other by touching, hugging, and kissing. To researchers, this behaviour indicates empathy. Monkeys, however, show a limited display of empathy, not to the degree great apes do.


    When even these intelligent creatures appear insensitive, it comes as a surprise when scientists recently declared that prairie voles comfort their friends and mates.

    The prairie vole is a brown mouse-like creature, smaller than a palm squirrel. It’s among the few animals that are monogamous for life. What made scientists from Emory University, Georgia, U.S., look for empathy in these little rodents? 


    BY JANAKI LENIN


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    Reimaging Empathy: The Transformative Nature of Empathy | Paul Parkin | TEDxUVU

    Paul Parkin is a teacher, speaker, and researcher that focuses on relational communication. With over 10 years’ experience teaching at various universities, he began teaching at UVU in the Fall of 2014. His doctoral dissertation research focuses on the power of empathy

    Paul has a passion for teaching and for facilitating transformative change in and out of the classroom. He has won multiple teaching awards, the most recent being the prestigious University of Utah Student's Choice Teaching Award (2013). He has a Master's Degree from California State University, Sacramento, in instructional and leadership communication, and will graduate this year with a Ph.D from the University of Utah. As a speaker, Paul has presented to a variety of groups across the U.S. and has provided communication, leadership, and personal growth trainings for various companies and corporations.

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