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The 'Soft Skill' That Pays $100,000+ - empathy will emerge as a "must-have" job skill by 2020

The 'Soft Skill' That Pays $100,000+ -  empathy will emerge as a "must-have" job skill by 2020 | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

If you're an empathetic person -- good at connecting with other people's feelings -- can that help you win prestigious jobs that pay $100,000 a year or more? Or will you be stuck at the low end of the pay scale, doing a lot to promote rapport and smooth out problems in your field, but never earning a big salary for your trouble?

 

Earlier in June I wrote a piece for LinkedIn Influencers, arguing that empathy will emerge as a "must-have" job skill by 2020. The article attracted more than 890,000 readers, and lots of kind words. (Wow! -- and thanks.) In that piece, I cited lots of fast-growing, middle-tier careers where empathy matters, such as sports coaching, nursing and financial planning. But I didn't look at the empathy's relevance or irrelevance at the high end of the job market.

 

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To Newspaper Front Page: All Sections

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How Stress Kills Our Ability To Feel Compassion

How Stress Kills Our Ability To Feel Compassion | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

The researchers studied the phenomenon known as "emotional contagion of pain," a key component of empathy which has to do with our ability to experience the pain of strangers.

Previous research by the same team has shown that both mice and humans have this ability, particularly when the person in pain is somebody they know. That research also showed that stress levels rose in mice and humans when they were around strangers, inspiring the researchers to investigate a potential link between stress and empathy.

In the first part of the experiment, the researchers gave mice metyrapone, a stress hormone blocker, which caused the mice to react to strangers in pain the same as they responded to cagemates in pain -- thereby suggesting a boost in empathy. Another test found that when the mice were put under stress, they showed less empathy towards their cagemates.


By Carolyn Gregoire

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Compassion education class teaches middle schoolers empathy, good citizenship

Compassion education class teaches middle schoolers empathy, good citizenship | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

From left, Dominique Edwards and Emma Malzacher, both 12, pet Schatzi as he sits in on their compassion education class. School Resource Officer Rob Tallion of the Kearney Police Department brings animals into the classroom to help students learn empathy.


Dominique is the daughter of Abigail Edwards, and Emma is the daughter of Brian and Sara Malzacher.


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Research results from Madison schools suggest compassion, kindness can be taught

Research results from Madison schools suggest compassion, kindness can be taught | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

As soon as teacher Kim Smith mentioned “belly buddies,” 16 little bodies dropped to the classroom floor and fell silent. The children arranged themselves in a circle on their backs. Smith gave each one a small rock — the belly buddy — to rest on his or her stomach.

“Watch it go up and down as you take your belly breaths and calm your body,” said Smith, who teaches 4-year-old kindergarten at Stephens Elementary School in Madison.

The exercise, done regularly in Smith’s classroom, is part of a “kindness curriculum” developed at UW-Madison. By helping children focus on what’s happening to their bodies, the hypothesis goes, they will learn to respond with more compassion and less anger when they’re frustrated


The empathy these children are beginning to show is really amazing for 4-year-olds,” she said. “If someone drops a bucket of crayons, practically the whole class rushes to help out.”


 By Doug Erickson


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For Your Daughter to Have Self-Compassion, She Must See It In You First

For Your Daughter to Have Self-Compassion, She Must See It In You First | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
In a world of perfect images, competition and constant critiquing of everything from social behavior, body image (diet and exercise advertisements), celebrity and so on, it is difficult to step back and listen to your own inner voice.


Compassion and empathy for yourself are easily taught. We are social animals and we learn from social modeling, practicing and rehearsing.

Self-compassion, empathy, and self-esteem all have things in common, although they are not equal in outcome. Self-compassion and empathy require self-knowledge.


By Dr. Gail Gross 


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Restorative Justice Extending Empathy Workshop One

Restorative Justice Extending Empathy Workshop One | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Program 

http://www.rj4all.info/content/restorative-justice-empathy-rehabilitation-globaly


The overarching theme is to explore what is state of the art in Restorative Justice (RJ), today and what are future ambitions for engagement with other disciplines.


The workshop will provide the opportunity to bring together academic researchers from the RJ, Theatre and Design professions who are concerned in their existing practice with building empathy. How empathy is built by each profession and the methods they use are likely to be the subject of lively discipline exchange.

Restorative Justice-Empathy-Rehabilitation: Globaly
http://www.rj4all.info/content/restorative-justice-empathy-rehabilitation-globaly


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The role of Empathy in Restorative Justice Processes

The role of Empathy in Restorative Justice Processes | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Simon Baron-Cohen, a professor of developmental psychopathology at the University of Cambridge, recently wrote a book entitled “Zero degrees of empathy: a new theory of human cruelty”. While I have only had the opportunity to read reviews of this book, the comments have prompted me to think of the role of empathy in restorative justice processes.

For those of you who try to implement the principles of restorative practice into your daily lives and interactions with others, I wonder how frequently you think about empathy (see below for a definition). In many circles, we talk about the offender taking “responsibility” for his/her actions. In work and community contexts, we invite people to be “curious” about the other, to withhold judgment.
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Empathy and Restorative Justice: Why foucus on empathy, Gamman

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Global Picture of Empathy and Restorative Justice by Dr. Theo Gavrielides - YouTube

The presentation given by Prof. Theo Gavrielides, during the first workshop of the Restorative Justice Extending Empathy project, held at Canterbury Christ Church University, Canterbury, UK on January 12th.


The speech addresses and reflects on global perceptions of empathy as well as its links to rehabilitation and restorative justice. 

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About Empathetic Presence

About Empathetic Presence | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Empathetic Presence teaches us to be present with our core feelings and needs so that we can more positively and actively engage in the world. Unconsciously, we hold many feelings, needs, and beliefs that, unexplored, manifest into countless difficulties throughout our life.


Empathetic Presence is not about pushing to become who we want to be; Empathetic Presence is about being empathic with who we are.


Through becoming more in tune with our presence—our most current feelings, needs, and desires—we are able to see through the veil of our past memories and future projections that keep us locked out of being who we truly are…now.

As we practice attuning to what arises in each moment, we discover the contours of our individual inner landscape. Through that understanding, we have the ability to cultivate self-compassion and acceptance. Based upon this idea, Empathetic Presence is a coaching method of inquiry where we do not diagnose or label any ailments, but aim to be more present and open to what is.

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Raising Compassionate Boys Means Having Compassion for Boys

Raising Compassionate Boys Means Having Compassion for Boys | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
I'm not advocating for a free-for-all of dysfunctional or hurtful behavior. Interventions and limit setting are vital. First and foremost we need to keep everyone safe.


But we can't just be compassionate when it comes easily. Having compassion requires taking a virtual trip into the dark depths of those who do wrong by us, or by others, learning their stories, letting go of anger, disappointment or embarrassment, and moving on.

Easy to do, no? But necessary in teaching our boys about compassion.


We, adults, are often limited in our ability to be compassionate with those who break certain social norms, and in my life as the mother of three boys and an advocate for young boys and their parents this often looks like a jab, a grab, a hit, a loud voice, a big movement, an inappropriate joke, or a joke at an inappropriate time... the list is long.


Tosha Schore,

Teaching parents how to handle those rip-out-your-hair parenting moments.

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Empathy in Relationships | Ontario Association for Marriage & Family Therapy

Empathy in Relationships | Ontario Association for Marriage & Family Therapy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
There is a lot of confusion these days regarding the meaning of the word empathy and how empathy can be demonstrated in a relationship. Oftentimes we hear of a comparison between empathy and sympathy, which regards the latter as a less heartfelt response to a situation or to a partner’s feelings.


I am not quite sure if comparing those two words is of much use in the context of this article. There are times where one or the other is a more appropriate response to any specific situation. However, in a loving partnership, where effective communication, safety, and validation of feelings are some of the cornerstones of a healthy relationship, empathic responses, rather than responses of sympathy, are decidedly more valuable.


So what is empathy?


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Empathy is waiting in the shadows - you have the power to release its full potential

Empathy is waiting in the shadows - you have the power to release its full potential | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

It is the Environment and Nurturing of the Adult who has an ability to develop Empathy and this impacts on Epigenetic and Neurological Development of children.

This impact is unleashed in conditions of relaxation, wellbeing and appropriate levels of challenge. It grows in an environment of love, care and compassion.It is nurtured over time and space and by those in a position of power who are able to relinquish this, who are able to empower and to feed the growth though intention and understanding and care.  Stress in children releases neurone inhibiting chemicals into the brain, cortisol. It suppresses the development of emotions and empathy.


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Fearless Empathy | Vanessa Inn | TEDxBayArea

This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Vanessa Inn demonstrates how to overcome fear, uniting “heart & spine” to achieve a state of fearless empathy.
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A Question of Empathy - Are There Positive Effects from Gaming? - YouTube

Many studies have investigated whether or not there is a link between video games and violence, but few have looked at the bigger picture. What is the correlation between video games and empathy?


Since games put us, as players, in the role of characters who are not ourselves, asking us to understand their situation and the problems that they face, they have the potential to teach us about how to empathize with others.


While many gamers have anecdotal evidence about games that made them feel a character's pain, there's a disappointing lack of formal studies into that side of the question.

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The Epidemic of Facelessness

The Epidemic of Facelessness | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

The connection between the face and ethical behavior is one of the exceedingly rare instances in which French phenomenology and contemporary neuroscience coincide in their conclusions. A 2009 study by Marco Iacoboni, a neuroscientist at the Ahmanson-Lovelace Brain Mapping Center at the University of California, Los Angeles, explained the connection: “Through imitation and mimicry, we are able to feel what other people feel. By being able to feel what other people feel, we are also able to respond compassionately to other people’s emotional states.”


The face is the key to the sense of intersubjectivity, linking mimicry and empathy through mirror neurons — the brain mechanism that creates imitation even in nonhuman primates.


The connection goes the other way, too. Inability to see a face is, in the most direct way, inability to recognize shared humanity with another. In a metastudy of antisocial populations, the inability to sense the emotions on other people’s faces was a key correlation.


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Having Trouble Getting Unstuck? Find Self-Compassion

Having Trouble Getting Unstuck? Find Self-Compassion | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Feeling stuck is hard. You want to move forward, but you can’t find the motivation to change. Or perhaps you don’t know how to change! Even in therapy, the very place you expect to see growth, you end up spinning your wheels. Nothing seems to be working, and you begin to wonder how you will ever make progress.

What do you say to yourself when you are mired in uncertainty and disappointment? Do you call yourself a failure, stupid, or worthless? Do you question the value of your dreams or life in general? Or do you offer yourself patience and kindnes
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AI should be 'human-like' and capable of empathy to avoid existential threat to mankind

AI should be 'human-like' and capable of empathy to avoid existential threat to mankind | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
By creating some form of homeostasis within the AGI, Shanahan believes that the potential of AI can be realised without destroying civilisation as we know it.


For an AGI to be able to understand the world in the same way as humans do it would involve certain pre-requisites, including the capacity to recognize others, the ability to form relationships, the ability to communicate, and empathy.

One way of creating a human-like machine is through mimicking the human brain in its design, as Shanahan pointed out, "we know the human brain can achieve this". Scientists are, however, still some way from even mapping the brain, let alone replicating it.


By Anthony Cuthbertson

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(Leadership) Best Advice I Ever Got: Make Empathy Your Superpower

(Leadership) Best Advice I Ever Got: Make Empathy Your Superpower | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

As a business leader, here are some ways to harness empathy and make it your superpower, too:

1. Use empathy to create your vision.
Empathy is commonly explained by the phrase "walk a mile in someone else's shoes." But it's more than just that. It's walking side by side with someone, listening with intent, and using the knowledge gained to create your vision.

2. Use empathy to become mission-driven....3. Use empathy to inspire loyalty....4. Use empathy as a your default communication tool....

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Empathy and restorative justice | Justice Requires Empathy

Empathy and restorative justice | Justice Requires Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Empathy is poised to become the buzzword of the 21st century– the defining trait of our social and political evolution.  Empathy will be to this century what “rights” was to the 20th century and “equality” was to the 19th century. 

As a word, a concept, and a goal empathy is omnipresent.  From parenting newborns to teaching college students, to training doctors and employees of profit-driven ventures, to effecting radical political and social change, empathy is becoming the prevailing philosophy. 

Organizations, such as Roots of Empathy and Seeds of Empathy, design and bring to schools programs aimed at teaching primary school children and preschoolers to have more empathy
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European Picture of Empathy and Restorative Justice by Tim Chapman - YouTube

European Picture of Empathy and Restorative Justice by Tim Chapman
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How Paying It Forward Makes You More Empathetic

How Paying It Forward Makes You More Empathetic | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

by Lindsay Holmes


Cultivating empathy and connection is a critical component of stress management, yet far too many people dismiss it as unimportant compared to getting this or that done.


Fact is, research shows that people who are more connected in life report greater life satisfaction and show much greater resilience, meaning that they bounce back from adversity more quickly and easily.

The trouble is, when stress rises, empathy wanes, the Wall Street Journal reported.

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This Professor Uses Slave Narratives To Teach Empathy To Future Public Servants

This Professor Uses Slave Narratives To Teach Empathy To Future Public Servants | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

When public policies go into effect, they don't always seem rooted in empathy and compassion. That's one reason an educator at the University of San Francisco is making the humanities central to a class she teaches to future public administrators.


According to Kimberly Connor, the director of Interdisciplinary Studies at the university's Department of Public and Nonprofit Administration, the best way to instill empathy in developing leaders is to not give them a one-size-fits-all blueprint, but rather share a variety of world perspectives and let them resonate naturally.


Harnessing the power of the humanities, she includes only one general ethics text in her Leadership Ethics course syllabus, and surrounds it with a variety of classic literature, poetry, comedic videos and even slave narratives. This might seem like an unusual approach to teaching young professionals how to become more empathetic managers, but she says that she is simply teaching what she knows best.


  By Alena Hal

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Ben Carson: Government dependency is 'opposite of compassion'

Ben Carson: Government dependency is 'opposite of compassion' | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Neurosurgeon Ben Carson opened the Conservative Political Action Conference Thursday morning with a professorial speech that slammed liberal government programs and policies, previewing themes of a potential 2016 presidential bid.


“It really is not compassionate to pat people on the head and say, ‘There there, you poor little thing. I’m going to take care of all of your needs,’ ” he told the crowd.


That’s not compassion, that’s the opposite of compassion. It's making people dependent. What real compassion is, is using our intellect to find ways to allow those people to climb out of dependency and realize the American dream.


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Can We Learn Empathy from Virtual Reality?

Scientists are learning that changing bodies changes minds.

In 1981, after you plunked a quarter into the local Donkey Kong cabinet and that menacing six-note melody filled the arcade, you were given control of a little man in overalls standing at the bottom of the screen. Child or adult, male or female, and no matter what our ethnic or cultural background, in that game we all became this same little man in overalls. Interactive games have always intended to entertain, but many have the potential to bring deeper psychological benefits.


By Jon Irwin,



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2015 Empathy Day-School

2015 Empathy Day-School | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

This training is intended to support participants in having a deeper integration of empathy. In a supportive, community environment, participants experience challenge, guidance and support in the practice of empathy and seeing our world empathically. 


Throughout our time together we will learn to increase our capacity for being present, learn to focus our awareness, and develop the ability to work with our own capabilities and humanity, in real-time situations. 


Practices

- Feeling feelings
- Practice "being"
- Connecting to the energy of needs
- Mindfulness practices 
- Empathy demonstrations
- Empathy sessions
- Empathy role plays and exercises
- Emergency self-empathy

- Connecting to deeper needs 
- Embodying needs


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