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Seattle hosts first-ever 'Seeds of Empathy' program

Seattle hosts first-ever 'Seeds of Empathy' program | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

They just might be the tiniest teachers in Seattle: infants, being brought into the classroom for a lesson in empathy.  

The 'Roots of Empathy' program has proven popular among elementary-aged children in Seattle.  Now, there's a new twist.

"We've had Roots of Empathy in Seattle for seven years, and Seeds of Empathy is a younger version of Roots of Empathy, it's for three to five year old children," said the program's founder and director Mary Gordon.

 

more at Culture of Empathy Builder: Mary Gordon
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Noelene Sanderson's comment, January 27, 2013 8:18 PM
What a great scheme. This is so important - catching the children while their hearts are still geared to loving babies and small animals; and before such things as dissection in school biology forces them to harden their hearts in order to cope with seeing it. I do hope such pactices have been banned... God Bless you all in your work..
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Hon. Liz Sandals: Introduce a new course called "COMPASSION" for Grade 1 and Grade 12. https://www.change.org/p/hon-liz-sandals-introduce-a-new-course-called-compassion-for-grade-1-and-grade-12

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One Person’s Empathy is Another’s Counter-Transference

One Person’s Empathy is Another’s Counter-Transference | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

One person’s empathy is another’s countertransference. I will not confess my weaknesses, since they will be obvious to the reader in any case.


The short – very short – definition of “countertransference” is one’s reaction and response to the other person. As Freud famously noted, betrayal oozes at every pore. That sometimes applies to psychotherapists too. Breakdowns in empathy occur. Defensiveness happens. Secrets are withheld or revealed.


And if there is empathy, can narcissistic rage be far behind? That too occurs, albeit in an aim-inhibited form. When a person gets angry enough, the person finds that being self-expressed is worth the risk of being vulnerable and exposed.


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Why We Need Caring Classrooms: This begins with empathy.

Why We Need Caring Classrooms: This begins with empathy. | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

More educators are recognizing that compassion can be taught. But I don't think it's enough to have children just learn about compassion, because we need to embody our ethical beliefs by acting on them. This begins with empathy.


There are three main kinds of empathy, each involving distinct sets of brain circuits.


1: Cognitive empathy: understanding how other people see the world and how they think about it. This lets us put what we have to say in ways the other person will best comprehend....


Empathetic concern offers the foundation for what's been called a "caring classroom," where the teacher embodies and models kindness and concern for her students, and encourages the same attitude among the students. Such a classroom culture provides the best atmosphere for learning, both cognitively and emotionally.

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How might we provide children the agency to practice empathy?

How might we provide children the agency to practice empathy? - Changemaker Education - Medium

Many educators enter the profession with a sense of altruism. When talented, student-centered educators are given the support they deserve, empathy-based learning opportunities naturally emerge.

Can Empathy Be Taught?

Maybe teaching empathy directly is not our job. Perhaps our job is to provide the fertile ground, to nurture the seeds that are already there. We create experiences and opportunities for empathy to not only be cultivated but to become actionable....


If we want to actualize empathy — to make feelings tangible — then we must move away from cells and bells toward a place where agency matters.


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The Power of Empathy and Focusing: Ann Weiser Cornell and Edwin Rutsch

The Power of Empathy and Focusing: Ann Weiser Cornell and Edwin Rutsch | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Ann Weiser Cornell is an author, educator, and worldwide authority on Focusing, the self-inquiry psychotherapeutic technique developed by Eugene Gendlin. She has written several definitive books on Focusing.


Empathy can change the world. And it changes situations when we bring empathy in...


So the power of empathy to open a space where something new can happen is enormously impressive and yes, in 44 years now of working with Focusing and listening, I've seen it over and over and over again.  Now that is very powerful.

 

 So what I would say is, empathy releases impasse.


That is true and we see it all over the place when it's possible in groups, in working groups,
 even people who 
love each other."


 Focusing really takes the relationship into this
 felt sense, I think that it really does a lot 
to facilitate empathic connection.



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How to spot a psychopath
…and what to do if you know one

How to spot a psychopath<br/>…and what to do if you know one | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
But everything is on a continuum, and whilst I can be cold, callous, and calculating, and my self-confidence can border on arrogance, I also feel empathy. 


There’s nothing I hate more than bullies, and I would sacrifice my own safety to defend a complete stranger without thinking twice.  If you are someone I care about there is nothing I wouldn’t do for you.

So, whilst I am not an all-out psychopath, I have some traits, but my empathy and compassion set me apart from those suffering from the personality disorder, as the over-riding feature that distinguishes sufferers of psychopathy is that they cannot feel empathy.

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Nurture compassion and it will nurture you back: Empathy evolves into compassion, which is “I feel for you”.

Nurture compassion and it will nurture you back: Empathy evolves into compassion, which is “I feel for you”. | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
The side-effects of compassion are plentiful, according to David Hamilton PhD: compassion causes growth on the left side of the prefrontal cortex region. The effect is we find it easier to be compassionate and kind. Compassion begets compassion by creating actual changes in the brain.

Compassion also boosts oxytocin, a key hormone responsible for heart health by reducing blood pressure and dilating our arteries. Oxytocin is a feel good hormone which, when released, fosters our emotional connection, is good for the heart and enhances relationships.
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5 Methods for Getting to the Heart of the Empathetic Leader

5 Methods for Getting to the Heart of the Empathetic Leader | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

So, given our overall workplace culture, where taking the time to connect personally is seen as a distraction from getting business done, how can you add more empathy to your leadership style without sacrificing productivity?

Here are a few simple methods we’ve developed at Business Improv to help our clients lead more empathetically. With this list, I’ve seen leadership styles transform and relationships strengthen, and witnessed the great personal and organizational benefits that resulted.

1. Be present in the moment. 
2. Maintain eye contact.
3. Really listen. 
4. Repeat back, so employees know they’re heard. 
5. Focus on what someone else wants.


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The Opportunities For Empathy In The Classroom

The Opportunities For Empathy In The Classroom | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

So much talk about empathy in education recently. Why? What’s the big idea? In “The Role of Empathy in Learning,” I wrote:

“The role of empathy in learning has to do with the flow of both information and creativity. A dialogic interaction with the world around us requires us to understand ourselves by understanding the needs and condition of those around us. It also encourages us to take collective measurements rather than those singular, forcing us into an intellectual interdependence that catalyzes other subtle but powerful tools of learning.”

But where does it come from? What causes it? What are the authentic sources of empathy in a classroom?'


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Lessons in empathy at a soup kitchen

Lessons in empathy at a soup kitchen | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Recently, there was an article describing a couple of studies that have been done on empathy, that trait that allows us to feel another’s circumstances (“Empathy is Actually a Choice,” Cameron, Inzlicht, and Cunningham, NYT July 12, 2015).


The studies suggest empathy can be learned, that it is not a limited reserve of feeling with a cap. While some individuals seem born with a fully developed pallet of empathy, others have barely a seed, which will require significant nurturing and learning.



The most interesting bit in this article was that when people realized empathy could be learned, they made efforts to improve their own empathy quotient. These people seek out situations that will build their capacity for empathy, but sometimes the lesson comes from a different direction. Part of a course I took on social justice involved going to a soup kitchen.  


By Kate Murray


 

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How to spot a psychopath through yawns, sense of smell and speech patterns

How to spot a psychopath through yawns, sense of smell and speech patterns | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Psychopathy – the absence of empathy or caring about other people – is characterised by a number of traits, such as being selfish, manipulative and having an antisocial lifestyle.


There are a number of ways to spot a psychopath, such as lack of empathy, superficial charm and self-centered impulsivity.


However, there are also some more straightforward methods to do with physical behaviours, scientists have found over recent years.
Immunity to contagious yawning....


Tests showed lower yawn frequency was associated with having less empathy...


Poor sense of smell


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Future Lawyers Should Be Screened and Trained for Empathy

Future Lawyers Should Be Screened and Trained for Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

 I recently read an article by Jill Suttie titled "Should We Train Doctors for Empathy?" ...


Those who tend to be attracted to law school in the first place tend to be logical thinkers (rule oriented) and have low EQ levels. Moreover, the research indicates that the training students receive in law school also causes an "erosion of empathy." Furthermore, the more empathic students tend to drop out of law school at a much higher rate. Moreover, "lawyers with 'higher levels of resilience, empathy, initiative and sociability' are more likely to leave law practice than those with lower levels of those traits."


In fact, "some US law firms have used this assessment metric (a scale to measure sociopaths on a scale of 0 to 40, with higher levels being extreme behaviour) in their hiring practice, preferring to employ lawyers with sociopathic index close to 29.


Image: The Village Lawyer, c. 1621, by Pieter Brueghel the Younger

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The ‘shoe test’ at the first Empathy Museum

The ‘shoe test’ at the first Empathy Museum | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
“Before judging someone, try walking one mile in their shoes” – this is the motto that inspired the creation of the first Museum of Empathy, which will open in London on 4 September.


The opening is part of the Totally Thames Festival, featuring the installation ‘A Mile in My Shoes’. The event, created in collaboration with the residents of Wandsworth in south London, will take place on the banks of the Thames, where passersby will be asked to choose a pair of stranger’s shoes and walk along the river, listening to the owner’s story on headphones.


Other installations are planned for other cities in the world with a travelling tour. The events can be followed online with a digital library that raises the user’s awareness.


by Roberta Garofalo 

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10 Picture Books that Nurture Empathy

10 Picture Books that Nurture Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Help your students appreciate generosity, humility, compassion and kindness with a little help from these 10 picture books. How can you incorporate these stories into your next lesson plan? Discover more here.  


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Eldpathy: Elderly Simulation Program to develop people's empathy towards elderly

Eldpathy: Elderly Simulation Program to develop people's empathy towards elderly | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

We offer Elderly Simulation Program to develop people's empathy towards elderly


To help the Hong Kong community rise above the challenges of aging population with the dissemination of the idea of empathy for the elderly.

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Part I of 2: Boost Your Emotional Intelligence: Take The Five Day EQ Challenge

Part I of 2: Boost Your Emotional Intelligence: Take The Five Day EQ Challenge | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

"Empathy occurs in the moment one human being speaks with another."-
Alfred Adler, Understanding Human Nature


4. Empathy is taking other's feelings into account when making decisions, and is the most easily recognized of the five components. Empathy in leadership matters for at least three reasons: increasing use of teams; the rapid pace of globalization; and the growing need to retain talent. The ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes and understand what they may be feeling is one of the critical elements that define a high EQ leader.

I recently hosted author Roman Krznaric at Google to talk about his latest book, Empathy. Krznaric is opening up the world's first "interactive" Empathy Museum in London this year. It's a sign of the times that empathy is important and crucial to well being and Emotional Intelligence.


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In Defense of Empathy and Justice: John Gibbs and Edwin Rutsch Dialog

In Defense of Empathy and Justice: John Gibbs and Edwin Rutsch Dialog | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
John Gibbs is a professor of developmental psychology at The Ohio State University and the author of Moral Development and Reality: Beyond the Theories of Kohlberg, Hoffman, and Haidt. John says, my interests pertain to cross-cultural sociomoral development, parental socialization, empathy, prosocial behavior, and antisocial behavior.


I have, with students and colleagues, developed assessment measures of moral judgment, moral identity, social perspective-taking, self-serving cognitive distortions, and social skills. Together with Martin Hoffman he wrote an article, Hillary has a point: In defense of empathy and justice.


Hillary Rodham Clinton had a point when she recently urged:
"The most important thing each of us can do... is to try even harder to see the world through our neighbors' eyes, to imagine what it is like to walk in their shoes, to share their pain and their hopes and their dreams"....

we emphasize that empathy and justice are co-primary or mutual. If justice serves empathy, the reverse is certainly also true ...

Morality is most objective and compelling when justice and empathy align. That is, the moral prescription to act is strongest when victims are both wronged and harmed.

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Empathy training makes a difference for doctors

Empathy training makes a difference for doctors | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
It’s hard to teach empathy in the classroom, yet it’s one of the foundations of the doctor–patient relationship. How well physicians can put themselves in their patients’ shoes is directly linked with patient satisfaction.


“When I was in med school, no one told me how to do that,” said Dennis Novack, professor of medicine and associate dean of medical education at Drexel University College of Medicine. “You could watch your mentors, if you were lucky. Or make mistakes.”


Numerous studies have shown patients with empathetic caregivers are more likely to stick to their doctor’s treatment plan, leading to better health results. Doctors who can better understand their patients also are more satisfied with their work. And hospitals know how important patient satisfaction is to their bottom line, now that it is a factor Medicare considers in reimbursement.


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Interview: Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff

Kristin Neff established self-compassion as a field of study almost a decade ago. In this interview, we'll explore the three core elements of self-compassion (self-kindness + common humanity + mindfulness) and why it's so important for us to cultivate!

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Men who buy sex have much in common with sexually coercive men

Men who buy sex have much in common with sexually coercive men | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

"It's like she's not really there." - Study participant who bought sex

Men who buy sex have less empathy for women in prostitution than men who don't buy sex, according to a study published online Aug. 31 in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence.


The research, co-authored by UCLA professor Neil Malamuth, also found that men who buy sex are more likely to report having committed rape and other aggressive sexual acts....


Those who buy sex, on average, have less empathy for women in prostitution and view them as intrinsically different from other women."

In other studies, a lower level of empathy among men has been associated with sexual aggression toward women.

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How To Teach Empathy

How To Teach Empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Ideally, empathy would be the net effect of experience, which in classrooms is both a matter of process and knowledge. Students would learn to empathize rather than be taught to empathize, as a symptom of what they know. Why this is important is a matter of implication and language.


Teaching someone to feel what others feel and sit with emotions that aren’t their own couldn’t be any further from the inherent pattern of academics, which is always decidedly other.


Teaching always begins with detachment—learn this skill or content strand that is now apart from you. Empathy is the opposite; it starts in the other, and finishes there without leaving.

In your classroom, there are dozens of natural sources of empathy. But what about authenticity?

 


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Borderline Personality Traits Are Linked To Low Empathy, Study

Borderline Personality Traits Are Linked To Low Empathy, Study | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

Patients who suffer from BPD find it difficult to maintain relationships.


Anyone who suffers from "borderline personality disorder", or BPD, is undergoing a mental illness that is characterised by unstable moods, and cannot maintain interpersonal relationships.


Scientists from the University of Georgia explain that it might be due to lowered brain activity in regions important for empathy in those who have borderline personality traits, according to sciencedaily.

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Our results showed that people with BPD traits had reduced activity in brain regions that support empathy," said the study's lead author Brian Haas, an assistant professor in the Franklin College of Arts and Sciences psychology department


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Unstable moods may ruin your romantic relationships - The Express Tribune

Unstable moods may ruin your romantic relationships - The Express Tribune | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it
Lowered brain activity in regions important for empathy could trigger trouble in relationships


Individuals with the illness borderline personality disorder, or BPD may have lowered brain activity in regions important for empathy which in turn could trigger trouble in relationships, the study indicated.


“Our results showed that people with BPD traits had reduced activity in brain regions that support empathy,” said study lead author Brian Haas, assistant professor at University of Georgia in the US.


Individuals with the illness borderline personality disorder, or BPD may have lowered brain activity in regions important for empathy which in turn could trigger trouble in relationships, the study indicated.

“Our results showed that people with BPD traits had reduced activity in brain regions that support empathy,” said study lead author Brian Haas, assistant professor at University of Georgia in the US.....



We found that for those with more BPD traits, empathetic processes are not as easily activated,” study co-author Joshua Miller, psychology professor at University of Georgia noted.

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The Power of Parenting for Social and Emotional Learning

The Power of Parenting for Social and Emotional Learning - Changemaker Education - Medium

Social and emotional learning (SEL) involves acquiring and effectively applying the knowledge, attitudes and skills to understand and manage emotions, set and achieve positive goals, feel and show empathy for others, establish and maintain positive relationships, and make responsible decisions....

While teaching skills like empathy, active listening and collaborative problem solving, schools are simultaneously preventing unhealthy, high risk behaviors including school violence...


Here are some ideas:

  1. Begin at home. 
  2. Partner with your child’s teacher
  3. Partner with your school.
  4. Advocate.


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A mile in their shoes: understanding empathy

A mile in their shoes: understanding empathy | Empathy and Compassion | Scoop.it

“A lot of times, that story never gets told,” says Karen Gerdes, a social worker at ASU. She is interested in empathy, which is the ability to perceive the world from other people’s points of view and to feel what they are feeling.

Empathy is a complex emotion because it involves both unconscious, involuntary responses and conscious, cognitive processes. For example, suppose you’ve had a traumatic experience, like losing a loved one.

“You see someone else who is going through that experience, and your brain automatically starts firing as if it’s happening to you. That helps you to understand a little bit better about what that person is going through,” Gerdes says.

People who are very empathic tend to be more understanding and have stronger relationships. For a social worker, empathy is also an essential part of the job.

“Social work is all about improving quality of life for people,” Gerdes says. “We do that by helping them to be their better self, and by creating a society that is more supportive. Empathy is at the core of both of those things.”


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