"How-to" article describing the method of Dialogue practiced by Angelo John Lewis and his students.
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"Many attempts to communicate are nullified by saying too much. -Robert Greenleaf
In a recent post, we talked about why you might be undervaluing your listening skills, and how that’s costing you. In this post, I’ll share some helpful techniques to improve your listening ability. But before you keep reading, check yourself: how important is listening to you, really?" Via Brad Abbott, David Hain 
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One of the biggest reasons people don’t listen is that they don’t think it’s important. Unless you decide listening matters for your life, you probably won’t be willing to do the hard work that this post is going to ask of you. 
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Listen and learn ~ great things happen when you hear the message ~ http://www.lifestyle-online.co.uk/blog/2013/02/listen-and-learn/ Delete the scoop?
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Empowering yourself to challenge your inner critic.
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Another framework to look at our Ladder of Inference. The inner critic continually gathers data, jumps to conclusions and forms perceptions that are hard-wired and serve as our filters for all future interactions. Schema Therapy can give the inner critic a much-needed vacation. Delete the scoop?
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It doesn't mean "just do whatever you want, as soon as it occurs to you."
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If you want to open the lines of communication, open your mind and heart first. 
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People spot lack of authenticity a mile off. Do not try to fake it...! Delete the scoop?
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Systems thinking can be seen as a spiritual practice because it involves seeing connections, making positive choices, and cultivating strengths.
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The world is a system and we but mere parts, interdependent, interconnected and needing to see the big picture into which we fit as wells as the personal agenda that often seems more urgent and important.
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The thought process that guides my work starts with why -- the reasons and or questions that underlie a problem (yes, problem and not opportunity just yet) -- and how to go about breaking it down into parts we can address.
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Listening is hard. When people feel heard they feel less alone, and when they feel less alone they feel less anxious and afraid - and then they are open to the message that I am sending. We have the capacity to transform ourselves from a stranger or an enemy into a friend or an ally. Delete the scoop?
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A simple introduction to mental models and the ways we each make sense of the world around us. AND how to talk with one another about them. 
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Mental models and how we make sense. Find out how it works... Delete the scoop?
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Want 2013 to be happier and more prosperous than 2012? Try shifting judgment to curiosity.
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Tom Malone's MIT Center for Collective Intelligence is emerging as the single most active researchsite for studying augmented collective intelligence. -- Howard
"If we want to predict what's going to happen, especially if we want to be able to take advantage of what's going to happen, we need to understand those possibilities at a much deeper level than we do so far. That's really our goal in the MIT Center for Collective Intelligence, which I direct. In fact, one way we frame our core research question there is: How can people and computers be connected so that—collectively—they act more intelligently than any person, group or computer has ever done before? If you take that question seriously, the answers you get are often very different from the kinds of organizations and groups we know today." Via Howard Rheingold, Dennis T OConnor Delete the scoop?
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Contemplative Practices, Wellbeing, and Kindness to Strangers...
Opening to dialogue Delete the scoop?
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Bohms Original DialogueA methodology of dialogue and analysis that is based on civility, dissection ofmeaning of the words of the question leading the dialogue,... Delete the scoop?
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Video presentation on Open Spaces in the context of the project 'Open Spaces for Dialogue and Enquiry' by Dr Vanessa Andreotti... Delete the scoop?
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10 Dialogue Dialogue is an essential ingredient of any intervention directed at changing a situa- tion and is a vital compete... Delete the scoop?
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False beliefs and associations are growth killers. When your mind is cluttered with false information, and you base your beliefs on such falsehoods, you can’t move forward in those particular areas. Your progress remains stunted until you clean up the mental mess Delete the scoop?
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"When you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it." --J. Krishnamurti Delete the scoop?
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There is a right way and a wrong way to use the head as well as your heart in leadership.
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Contemplative Dialogue is a way of being that asks that we take a long and loving look at the real. Chris Argyris, Peter Senge, et.al., have given us the Ladder of Inference, and other tools, to be awake and aware and to picture the dignity and worth of each person. Our growth is gauged entirely by our capacity to love and be loved. Delete the scoop?
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I introduced a series of the Top 10 Barriers to Leadership skills and leadership qualities. I have given a lot of thought to prioritize the top 10.
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Never lose sight of the fact that inside every person is a real person who has the same fundamental needs to be loved and belong as anyone else. Make the person "feel felt" and you too will be transformed into a friend/ally. Delete the scoop?
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welcome to www.engagingimpasse.org; outlines Circles of Contemplation and Dialogue project initiated by Nancy Sylvester, IHM; articles written by Nancy Sylvester, IHM on contemplation, mysticism, impasse, dialogue, globalization, new cosmology,...
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Creating a safe space to speak from the Heart. Non-violent Communication Delete the scoop?
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INQUIRY & CREATIVITY
The part of neuroscientist Susan Greenfied’s speech that caught my attention is when she discusses what’s going on in the brain in the first stages of creative thinking.
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I want to know more about the process as "connective inquiry" and the power of community. Delete the scoop?
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Don't get in the way of your own learning. Here are five ways to step aside and continue to increase your smarts.
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Your response to change may be to embrace it and to create opportunity. First, do not hold on an assumption based on one negative experience. Use your self leadership skills as a building block for future experiences. Delete the scoop?
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Sister Barbara Reid, O.P., Vice President, Academic Dean, & Professor of New Testament Studies presents Ministering as a Contemplative Presence in a Chaotic World during the 2011 Alumae/i Reunio (Barbara Reid on Ministering as a Contemplative Presence... Delete the scoop?
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The toughest challenge is seeing the world as it actually is, instead of how we want it to be. Delete the scoop?
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"How-to" article describing the method of Dialogue practiced by Angelo John Lewis and his students.
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From the Quaker tradition, Claremont Dialog refers to a format in which the opportunity to speak passes systematically around the circle, in a similar manner to council circle. Friends may pass or speak as they choose. Silence for reflection often follows each contributio Delete the scoop?
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The very process of formulating our core beliefs, so that we can express them to others, will help us better understand ourselves. Suspending judgment, suspending assumptions, and listening to others express their core beliefs will give us new ways of understanding our ourselves. Through increased mutual understanding, from core belief dialogue, we will live and work better as a community. Delete the scoop?
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