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Helen Teague's curator insight,
June 13, 11:09 AM
I like the article's inclusion of the quiet, reflective aspect of confidence.
AnnC's curator insight,
June 13, 7:02 PM
Reflective style hungry to learn more from others as good leaders always seek to learn more from others. Delete the scoop?
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MyKLogica's curator insight,
June 11, 4:42 AM
Muy interesante este ideagrama en el que nos muestra la efectividad de los "Modelos visuales" a la hora de solucionar problemas/retos complejos, ayudando a "seguir el hilo" y hacerlos tangibles. Delete the scoop?
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John Michel's curator insight,
June 7, 8:30 AM
Emotional hijacks – this priming, this mechanism, which is usually so positive in evolution – can take us over. During these hijacks we can become very angry. When the dust settles we often think, "Oh, why did I say that?" Delete the scoop?
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John Michel's curator insight,
June 5, 8:11 AM
Outsanding advice on how to make the most of mentoring opportunities. Delete the scoop?
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Sílvia Montserrat's curator insight,
June 15, 7:22 AM
There is a development process in becoming a better coach or learning how to motivate others to learn and change. As the coach develops his/her perspective and skill, he/she moves from a focus on the problem to a focus on the process (the interactions with the other person) and then to a focus on the person. Delete the scoop?
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John Michel's curator insight,
May 29, 7:09 AM
Habits are powerful. They bring about change one step at a time, and they help you ensure that these changes become part of your life. Delete the scoop?
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David Hain's curator insight,
June 11, 7:16 AM
Happens to us all - some great advice her about how to deal with it...
John Michel's curator insight,
June 11, 4:23 PM
If we are honest with ourselves we can all think of instances we have experienced insecurity...good advice on how to work through it. Delete the scoop?
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David Hain's curator insight,
June 6, 12:10 PM
The usual great stuff from Brain Pickings - a fantastic resource by the way! Delete the scoop?
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Pavel Barta's comment,
June 7, 11:54 AM
I am so glad that we are moving away from the industrial era where human beings were just means to the end. The beauty and worth of human being is limitless and so is their potential to learn. We need to learn to unleash and harness the power that people have by treating them as human beings, like we would like to be trated ourselfs.
Sílvia Montserrat's curator insight,
June 15, 7:08 AM
Using more of the emotional, social and cognitive intelligence competencies leads to more effectiveness in many countries, in many occupations, professionals, managers and leaders. Delete the scoop?
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AlGonzalezinfo's curator insight,
June 2, 9:11 AM
I would add "being willing to be wrong" to the Collabortative Spirit on the list. Many managers get hung up on being right instead of accepting their mistakes and allowing others to lead.
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1. Authenticity: Every leader faces the temptation to project a persona rather than be themselves. They think that to maintain the confidence of their team, they must appear faultless, flawless and wise. Yet most organizations need an authentic leader, not a perfect one. Today's leader must develop the art of self-awareness.
Quit trying to emulate someone else and start being yourself. Share and be honest about your own struggles.
By doing this, you'll immediately gain influence. Delete the scoop?
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Ariana Amorim's curator insight,
June 5, 6:29 AM
Killing the status quo requires that you: Alter Your Point-of-View Compare Your Organization to Others Look for unorthodox opportunities Delete the scoop?
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Ariana Amorim's curator insight,
May 30, 7:36 AM
What I found most endearing in this post were the definitions of empathy written by second graders. They explained it beautifully. The author concludes then that "if you can practice empathy at least at the level these second graders describe it, you'll be a great leader".
Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight,
May 30, 10:27 AM
In the article there is a reference to teaching and explaining empathy. It is something we need to model and demonstrate. It cannot be reduced to a simple cognitive exercise.
Florentine van Thiel's curator insight,
May 31, 3:30 AM
La capacité à comprendre les sentiments des autres est une compétence qui contribue clairement à un leadership efficace. Delete the scoop?
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Ivon Prefontaine's curator insight,
May 28, 7:01 PM
Listen from and with the heart. Courage and heart share common roots. Delete the scoop?
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Ariana Amorim's curator insight,
May 28, 7:44 AM
Some of the ideas presented in this article that I found interesting in a coaching context: "Journal writing is cathartic and enlightening. Words spill out from places perhaps yet undiscovered. (...) The benefit of a journal is that it keeps your record, perhaps for future use, of a perfect and spontaneous expression of truth, of insights into human nature, of memories, of snatches of creativity. Further, it is the record of a writer's interior life, validating his/her creative growth even during those periods when he/she 'cannot' write for an audience." "When you are in the mindset of a journal writer, your radar is always on. You are poised to observe, notice the details and keep your mind open and absorbent." "Prompts are questions or statements designed to spark your thinking about a subject in a new way. They often set you off on a new path of discovery -- about a value that has not been articulated, a piece of your personality that may not have been acknowledged or a memory that has faded. There are also web sites that offer prompts, questions or sentence starters to encourage writing." "A journal writing technique that you can use to better understand a character or a situation is dialoguing. In journal writing jargon, dialogs are imagined conversations between two or more entities, not necessarily two people. They can be between the two conflicting parts of a person, or between two opportunities a character in your story has to choose. The dialog itself may never be used in the final writing PER SE, but it may help clarify the story for you. Ira Progoff, the grandfather of personal journal writing [author of At A Journal Workshop], has developed a full list of the kinds of dialogs you may want to engage."
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May 29, 9:25 AM
The ultimate pathway to your inner-most thoughts: cathartic, creative & insightful! Delete the scoop?
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Lido transversalmente embora o título seja sugestivo, sublinho " Meaning is not only about transcending the self, but also about transcending the present moment -- which is perhaps the most important finding of the study, according to the researchers. While happiness is an emotion felt in the here and now, it ultimately fades away, just as all emotions do; positive affect and feelings of pleasure are fleeting. The amount of time people report feeling good or bad correlates with happiness but not at all with meaning."
A must read.
Is there a difference between a happy life and a meaningful life? How do the happy life and the meaningful life differ?
In a new study, which will be published this year in a forthcoming issue of the Journal of Positive Psychology, psychological scientists found that a meaningful life and happy life overlap in certain ways, but are ultimately very different. Leading a happy life is associated with being a "taker" while leading a meaningful life corresponds with being a "giver.
Take this: "Happiness without meaning characterizes a relatively shallow, self-absorbed or even selfish life, in which things go well, needs and desire are easily satisfied, and difficult or taxing entanglements are avoided".